Hi brother I’m Andrew a year old fag from New York and I have a question for I have been looking for an alpha to own me but I recently contacted oral herpes and whenever I talk with alphas about they often walk away from this news. It’s getting to the point where I’m thinking about not telling them. I don’t know what to do Sam I feel I’m making no progress with anyone do you have any advice for me Sam.


Let’s start off this way: 80% of people have HSV-1. Not everybody has outbreaks from it, but a vast majority of the population carries the virus. I guess what I’m saying is this information doesn’t need to be just under your name on your Grindr profile. As long as you’re not suffering from cold sores/outbreaks, I don’t think it’ll be much of an issue. If someone asks about STDs, you certainly want to be honest. 

I just don’t want you to feel like you need to live like a leper because of this. Most of the people you’ll sleep with are carrying the same virus, and you don’t see them confessing anything to you. So I think you should just take it off the table.

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