Questions From Readers

Hey Sam, I’m a faggot from Aus I’m 21 years old about a year ago I had a sub/dom relationship with a dom we both got along and only spoken online for a year but he knew all my limits and safe words prior to us meeting I arrived and everything was going well until I kept saying my safe word and he didn’t stop I got to the point where I froze and saying my safe word and stop I left and blocked him on everything but I haven’t been able to have the courage to put myself with a man or a dom since so I guess my question is am I overreacting with my last dom and how should I get over it, thank you for making a beautiful platform I do agree with your views.

It’s impossible to answer this since you told me nothing about the encounter. What was happening that caused you to use a safe word? Did he rape you? Did he pass go without paying $200 in Monopoly? Because I don’t know what happened, I can’t tell if you overreacted or not, right? 

My gut tells me you did overreact, because this Dom took his time with you, indicating a thoughtful approach on his part. But without the information, I hesitate to venture a firm guess. 

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