Hello, Sam,

I read your response. I’ll be honest, I thought it would take longer to hear back from you.

I’m aware that the world is not an equitable place. I know that. I’m a man. The world is built for someone like me. Even though I’m gay, being a man is a privilege of power that not everyone gets to experience. I can go anywhere, walk at night without fear of being robbed, and even find a bottom to have sex with wherever and however I want, and no one will tell me not to. I know the kind of world we live in.

When I spoke about equality, I was referring more to the belief that, at a fundamental level, all human beings belong to the same group. Perhaps it’s a naive notion rooted in progressive ideals that I haven’t fully recognized. The curious thing is that I live in a country where being gay is not an issue. I’ve never faced discrimination. My family accepts it. My friends know it. I started sleeping with bottoms at 16 years old. No one ever questioned me when I wasn’t interested in having sex with women. I’ve never brought an official partner home, but that didn’t mean I wasn’t sleeping with whoever I wanted. And I still do.

I’ll take your advice and distance myself from that couple entirely—as a friend and as an Alpha.

I’ll also reflect on what you said. Maybe I’ve never truly paid attention to the idea of being served. I’ve always had colleagues, both male and female, who have done what I asked or completed parts of my work, but I always thought of it as workplace camaraderie. You know. Though now that I think about it, I don’t do anything for others in return. I mean, I don’t do their work. I handle my tasks and consider myself a team player. But I know how to make my presence felt. My time isn’t meant to be wasted on someone else’s chores.

Even as a teacher, I’m the kind of professor who sets the pace for the class. I teach Mathematics, so you can imagine the type of man I am—analytical, concrete, and concise. I don’t waste time repeating myself.

I’ll take this week to reflect and give you an update at the end of it, analyzing what you’ve said. I’ll admit that the hierarchy aspect was challenging for me—not to understand, that part was easy, but perhaps because modern progressivism has put me in a difficult position when it comes to accepting it.

You know, any accusation against me, simply because I’m a man, can sometimes lead the judicial system to see me as the problem. Maybe that’s also part of why I hesitated to go further.

P.S. Do you think in my next message I’ll call you “fag” like all the other Alphas do? It might be an interesting way to determine later whether I’ve accepted the place I’d deserve in the hierarchy or if I’m better off staying in my naive little world.

Looking forward to hearing from you, Sam.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thank you so much for writing back, Sir! I really appreciate the response, as well as the thoughtfulness of you latest letter.

Some of the new thoughts expressed here make me think you ARE an Alpha, Sir. For example, how you started fucking “bottoms” (although they were probably faggots) when you were just 16 … how people naturally obey you and serve your needs without reciprocation … how you pick up and use bottoms/faggots whenever you feel the urge to unload. These are all very much indicative of Alpha nature, Sir. 

I hesitate to tell you this because I really want you to come to an unbiased conclusion on your own. It’s very important for an Alpha to embrace his own power and come to appreciate it for himself, not simply because some faggot told him he’s Alpha. Frankly, that’s what this faggot couple was doing, and it’s not effective. 

But to be quite honest, I think you might be a victim of a syndrome I basically pioneered and documented which I call “Alpha Latency”. Typically, Alpha latency involves early childhood abuse that causes the Alpha to be convinced he is supposed to bottom or be submissive. This abuse stunts the growth of the Alpha, preventing him from becoming fully powerful as nature intended him to be. 

Now, I’m not suggesting you were abused as a child. However, I’m suggesting that your growth was stunted by PROGRESSIVE SOCIETY AND MINDSET. You see, Hierarchy is diametrically opposed to progressive thought and political-correctness. Nature is not about fairness and equality at all. It’s about the strongest surviving. “Survival of the fittest.” Hierarchical truth mirrors the truth we see in nature. The strong rule the weak, the weak serve and worship the strong.

I give you that food for thought, Sir. I think progressive ideology is your “abuse” that caused Alpha latency in you. You’ve held back the power and dominance inside of you, tempering it so that you fit into the mold of a respectable gay Man that would be acceptable to the progressives around you. 

However, you unleashed and set free from that false prison might look much different. The life that would truly satisfy you as an Alpha Male might be something entirely different, but it also might be entirely necessary in order for you to feel complete. 

I won’t bother you more with this. I really wanted to give you this thought so you can consider it and see if it applies in any way, Sir.

Again, thank you so much for having this dialogue with me. It’s a real privilege, Sir! 

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Hello, Sam,

I would like to clarify that English is not my native language at all, so if you find any errors in the translation of this message, I hope you’ll understand.

I’m not entirely sure how to address this. I feel it might get long.

You can call me Manuel, and I’m 35 years old.

I found my way to this platform because of two friends, a couple I’ve known for almost fifteen years. They suggested it to me. You might be wondering why they did that. Well, they both identify as “faggots.” Plain and simple. To me, they had always seemed like a standard gay couple. But I’ve come to realize that’s not the case.

What do I have to do with all this? Well, I’m a gay man, a top, and according to people who know me, charming, with a nice smile and charisma. It might sound like I’m bragging, but I swear that’s what they say.

I am, in a way, a unique kind of person, if you will. Let’s just say my principles align with “monogamy, tradition, and family.” I’m not open to polyamorous relationships or anything similar, and I’m not interested in being with someone who is with others. I’m clear about this: what’s mine is not to be shared. And I’ve never really been into threesomes. Why mention this detail? Because the couple I told you about asked me to take on the role of an “Alpha” in their lives. At first, not understanding the concept that I’ve now come across here, I thought it was just a kind of fetish—a sexual game, you know? So I went along with it. I found it amusing to play the role of giving orders (I naturally excel at giving directions, taking the lead, and guiding a room full of people). Initially, or during the time I participated, I felt a sense of discomfort about dominating someone to the extent that they’d lose themselves and focus solely on me. It seemed to escalate beyond just occasional moments, and I felt it could get out of hand.

I don’t need others to do things for me because I’m an independent man. I know how to fend for myself. I’ve always found it peculiar to think that people who have others as servants are, at their core, lazy and parasitic. Perhaps this expression doesn’t carry the same weight in English as it does in Spanish.

What I discovered here, rather than motivating me, has concerned me on multiple levels—from a legal standpoint to a personal one. I’ve always been someone who believes that we are all equal, both under the law and as human beings. Of course, I recognize skills and differences, but I hope my point is clear.

This couple who tried to introduce me to this world told me I have a natural talent for it, that they love pleasing me, and that they adore the idea of being dominated by me. And yes, I know I have the power to dominate (I do so sexually; in my work as a teacher, I’m one of the most respected at my high school; in my personal life, I dictate the pace of how and where I want things to go, among other things). But the main idea—that it doesn’t entertain me or bring me any pleasure to have someone feel intimidated by my presence—repels me. Additionally, I wouldn’t even know how to explain what this would mean to my social circle, for that matter.

I feel these contradictions are what cause my discomfort. To be honest, I enjoyed it when I thought it was just a game, and the next day we could be joking around and eating pizza in the living room as if nothing had happened. But after reading here and realizing they’d essentially become a type of servant—present to please me but disappearing from sight to make my life easier—it lost its appeal. I enjoy rough sex, taking control in bed, being wild and dirty, and then having an equal conversation afterward. The idea of having someone to abuse sexually at my whim, who would essentially need my permission to breathe, doesn’t interest me. I think I’d lose patience very quickly. I’d see them as incompetent. And I hate incompetence.

Maybe I don’t know exactly what I want to ask you. Perhaps the question is: What do my friends expect from me? Is it okay to tell them I’m genuinely not interested? Because, honestly, I fail to see the appeal in any of this.

Sam, I hope you can read this and at least give me your clear perspective.

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me about this issue! I can see that it troubles you. I will do whatever I can to help you sort it out.

Let me tackle the definitional issue first before getting into your particular problem. Hierarchy is real, Sir. There can be no denying it. Look around you, Sir. NOBODY IS REALLY EQUAL. Our whole world is is filled with inequality of all sorts, whether it be genetically, attractiveness, financial, sociological, or anything else. Hell, Men aren’t even the same height, or have the same dick size! 

The reason why terms such as “Alpha” and “faggot” or “slave” exist is solely because Hierarchy is true, and not some fetish. Look at every government that has ever ruled the Earth, Sir. Each one has been led by a powerful leader, and the rest below that leader serve. 

Even in terms of sexuality, humans are not equal. One is the penetrator, the Top; the other is the receiver, the bottom. It’s clear which one has the dominant role even then. 

So hopefully I’ve been able to establish that Hierarchy is real and equality is an illusion. Some Men are simply born better than others. It’s a cold, hard fact of life.

Having said that, I will say that your description of yourself indicates that you have some Alpha qualities, Sir. Your possessiveness, your desire to take charge, your impatience with indecision … these and more are qualities that define an Alpha personality. I do think you might be Alpha, but I’m guessing your misguided beliefs in equality and fairness have kept you from realizing this about yourself. 

This faggot couple might be seeing it correctly. They have identified Alpha qualities about you, and they’re trying to help you embrace them and your Alphahood. I can’t see everything they’ve seen over 15 years, but clearly there’s something. 

However, I think this faggot couple is wrong to try and force you to be something you’re not ready to tackle. It almost feels like they’re trying to make you become an Alpha for the satisfaction of their own faggot desires. That’s the wrong thing to do. Alphas don’t exist to serve the needs of faggots … instead, faggots are the ones who exist to serve the needs of Alphas. So I  think what they’re trying to do with you is unfair, Sir. 

The reality is this: you may not be Alpha, and if you are Alpha, you might never accept it and embrace it as your purpose. It’s too early to see what is the truth about you Sir. It doesn’t help that you’re so conflicted about the issue. 

Here’s what I think you should do: stop fooling around sexually with this faggot couple, and take a step back. I want you to look carefully at how people react to you, how people are not equal, how people want to serve you. Think about how it feels (or felt) to be an object of worship. Think about what I wrote above about Hierarchy. See where you ultimately end up on these questions, Sir.

Before you go on, I think it’s critical to take a moment to look around at the world through the Hierarchical viewpoint I’ve described to you. See if you can find your true place in Hierarchy. Once you do, I think the rest will fall into place quite easily.

If you have any other issues, you can always write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com.

Thank you, Sir!   

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Hey,

I know I am a faggot for quite a long time, but have been suppressing these feelings for a long time. Lately, I have been trying to reconnect with these feelings and mid/end of Novemeber started to experiment with chastity cages a bit by myself…

Now I did not cum for 3 week (last 2 continuously in a cage) and today I experienced something I never did. While I got aroused – kinda randomly – I felt the urge… to top… like… to actually fuck something/-one.
I have always been like an almost total bottom and never really experienced this. It was a really really realls strong urge and I am sure, if i would have taken the cage of and topped at that moment I would have loved it during that time…
I just endured it and waited for it to fade, but it was really… strong and… weird. I was always questioning myself what Alphas and Tops in general feel when they are horny and I feel like I got a very brief (and low intensity?) glimpse into this.

I actually love this – not because it changed anything of what I am or what I am meant to be, as it did not – but because I feel like this helped me to understand the urges of Alphas better and therefore be better at serving them.

However, I never heard of something like that or just didnt see it…. Is this something… common when experiencing chastity? I am just 3 weeks in and am excited what is yet to come (planned for 6 months :-! )

Well that’s an interesting reaction, for sure! I’ve never encountered that personally either in chastity or out, and I’ve never heard of another caged fag express such desires, either. 

We must be careful about this and pay close attention to it, because it might be indicating something suppressed in you. I’m not saying that’s definitely the case with you, but I think it bears close monitoring. I’m going to bookmark this question for future reference just in case, and I’d like you to communicate directly with me if there are other such strange changes or similar eruptions of Alpha-like aggression. My email is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com

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Hi fag Sam,

Let’s call me Flynn (anonymous purposes). I have always been attracted to masculine and muscular men and I have tried submission but it just didn’t work for me. But in my head, it sounds like a great idea. I’m very sensible to touch, which means it’s hard for other people to get into intemacy with me. And on antoher hand, I always felt like I’ve always been a top, but I’m a very socially anxious person, so I dont’t feel very confident just even showing myself.
I’m working on getting fitter, but I know this is not the only way I can improve my self confidence. Do you have advice ? And do you know how can I explore being a top and a Master (since I also feel like I need to be desired and worshipped) ?

I’m sorry if it’s not very clear but I really wanted to talk it out.

I’m intrigued by your question. I cannot escape this nagging feeling I’m getting from your words … let me explain.

I think I might be the only person in the Hierarchical space to accurately chronicle the phenomenon I’ve dubbed “Alpha Latency”. I’ve dealt with multiple cases of it, and have even helped “cure” a couple of Alphas who were suffering from it.

And I do mean suffer. You see, Alpha Latency occurs when a natural-born Alpha is convinced that he should be a bottom or at least reciprocal. Many times this “convincing” comes from early childhood trauma or molestation. Due to this conditioning, the Alpha does things that go against his natural programming as an Alpha (like bottoming or sucking dick) and it makes him deeply unsatisfied. This lack of satisfaction then leads to even more confusion and unhappiness. 

You sound suspiciously like a Latent Alpha. These desires you kept mentioning in your question (about submission not being satisfied, or wanting to be desired and worshiped) make me think your true Alpha nature is trying to break free and lead you to happiness, but it’s being blocked for some reason. 

I do think you desperately need to try and dominate a faggot. Try receiving worship and service. Get verbal, get aggressive. I bet something gets triggered in you if you do. 

I’m curious about your reaction to this advice. Please give me some feedback if you can. Thank you!

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