Hello sam,

My name is rick and I’m a Scottish faggot – well, kinda! Which is the question!

I love being a faggot a serving Doms, domesticatally, sexually, as a taxi, however I can, but, sometimes I get exhausted with it all and need a “break”. These can last a few days or a few weeks, and I always come back to it, and there’s a few Dom/Alpha guys I know who are pretty understanding and are happy to let me return, but I guess I am asking a) is this normal, and b) how can I avoid “faggot burnout” if that’s a thing?!

Thank you for the excellent question!

Faggot burnout is absolutely a thing, and it’s something I had planned for a post on this site … but you beat me to it! Anyway, this might be a good way to start that conversation.

It’s only natural to be overwhelmed when you have an Alpha (or Alphas) you’re serving consistently. Life is difficult enough as it is without an Alpha always demanding service of some kind. I remember there was an Alpha I was serving regularly several years ago as his on-call cocksucker. He would show up at my place at odd hours of the day unexpectedly and demand a few hours of oral service. My schedule at that time simply didn’t accommodate that arrangement easily. I felt worn-out and constantly in dread of his surprise mouth inspections.

But do you want to know when I didn’t experience “faggot burnout”? When I was OWNED as an in-house faggot! In that situation, a faggot slips into what I’ve called “perpetual subspace”. In perpetual subspace, a faggot loses itself in the constant work of service and worship, receiving in return the fulfillment of purpose so profound that it makes everything else disappear. I liken it to the joy a mother feels when she’s finally delivered her baby, the pain and struggle of the previous nine months and the pain of childbirth instantly disappearing.

I realize that being owned as an in-house faggot isn’t always possible, but it should always be the goal in order to experience that bliss.

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