Hi Sam,

I’d like to update you about my Alpha co-worker, I’m the faggot who works in a steakhouse. First of all I forgot to mention some important things in my previous message, this guy, Gabriel (my Alpha co-worker) he is kinda new in the job, it’s been 6 months that he works here, in the first months he was very motivated and cooperative, but since the beginning of this year he’s acting more and more like the situation I described before he’s jacking around and not doing his job properly. Something else I didn’t say, I’m supervisor and Gabriel is a waiter, what means I’m higher in the restaurant hierarchy, so after the episode I told you in my last message and realising he’s an Alpha and 100% superior than me I started to use my role to give him some privileges (actually it’s only his natural right), everything very subtle because I don’t want to compromise my work. So I’m leaving him has more smoking breaks, I take care of his tables while his outside, I also clean his tables, so he can stay at the bar chatting with the bartenders, and last Sunday I told him to do a smoke break in the end of the night when we start cleaning everything to close, when he came back I asked if he wanted to finish earlier and leave, and he told me “I’m all right, I can stay till the end” after this he barely did something to help and finished with everyone. We earn per hour so I think he just wanted the money and that’s fair enough. It is so rewarding to make an Alpha’s life better, he probably just thinks I’m being nice and at the moment it’s better to keep things like this, me “serving” him secretly, without even himself knowing that.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thank you for the additional details. He definitely seems to know he can take advantage of you, brother. You’re doing well submitting in these small ways. Even if nothing develops from this experience with this Alpha, learning the way you can change yourself to submit to Alphas in general for when you have a better opportunity! 

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Hi Sam, I don’t know if you remember me or not but this is the faggot that has the coworker who contacted it on FB randomly and sent a bunch of photos of himself in European type swimwear.

Well I had planned on wishing Him a happy Thanksgiving and I did and we chatted briefly but He said he was at a huge family gathering so I backed off quickly saying I didn’t want to interrupt, and left it at that.

A couple days went by and we’re back in the work week and we both happen to be traveling, Him somewhere warm and He contacted me again. He said he was tormenting old ladies walking around in His suits. He even sent me pics of the two He brought with Him and was wearing. I was obviously very complementary and flat out told Him He is sexy AF (He really is too, He’s a part time fitness instructor, toned, large defined muscles ugh, delicious!). He thanked me and I slipped in a couple of “Sirs” into the conversation. Most of it was extremely suggestive without being graphic but I was very complementary more so than any straight guy would ever be. At one point I even said I think He likes torturing me while I’m at work and can’t take care of the little problem He created and He laugh reacted to that. He actually laugh / heart reacted to a few statements.

So how should I proceed do you think? Should I flat out state that I’m a faggot and ask to serve Him? Or should I see where He leads thing? Or something else all together?

Thank you for the help, I’m not very experienced doing this sort of thing, but I want to get better and better and treat Him the way He deserves to be.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Brother, thank you for the follow-up! 

It sounds like this Alpha continues to torment you (whether it’s on purpose or not, we don’t know) and you continue to vaguely flirt with him. So largely the situation is still the same as last time, right?

There are still unresolved problems. This guy is (I’m assuming) still religious. And also, you don’t live anywhere near each other anymore. So this sort of flirty cycle is going to continue until either he just loses interest or you finally break the stalemate.

I think you should push his buttons a little bit harder. Show him the stick post “What is Hierarchy?” at the front of this site, or the “Letter To An Alpha” in the sidebar. This will force him to confront reality and make a decision. 

If he rejects you, then at least you know this and can move on. But if he doesn’t … well, that’s where things might get interesting. 

It’s worth a shot.

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