Hi Sam!

My name is Rulfo, and I am pretty sure I’m a faggot, but I’m 23 and no man has ever touched me. I’m not really attractive, I’m hairy, and a bit chubby. I think my life would be so much easier if I were cute, but it is what it is, and that’s okay. I have a co-worker who is openly bisexual and loves to brag about the girls and guys he fucks. Yesterday, we were talking (in Spanish) and in the middle of the sentence he said in English that our new intern, a 19-year-old guy, was “a good boy”. I didn’t understand what he meant, so I just smiled and then he said “do you know the difference between a bad boy and a good boy?”. I thought he was still talking about the college students we receive as interns, so I just said “well, good boys are more committed to their work.” He laughed and said “no, good boys deserve to be kissed, and bad boys deserve to be spanked, but at the end of the day both deserve to be bred”. I blushed immediately, it was so embarrassing, and at the same time so arousing, he kept laughing at my embarrassment. I arrived home and jerked off thinking about him. He is so Alpha and so confident in everything he does, I feel really safe when he’s around. At the same time, I am fully aware that I’m not as attractive as the cute intern or any other college twink he can find… what do you think? what would you do in my place? do you think comments/jokes like this one is just him being funny or maybe I should try to serve him?

I’ve been reading your work for 3 years, but that’s my first message to you. I hope you’ll be able to read it! I love you and your work, brother!

My brother, thank you for writing for the first time!

Let me just address the first part of your letter for a second. You say you’re “not attractive” because you’re hairy and chubby. I always encourage faggots who are serious about serving to try and get into the best shape they can, even if it’s just dieting and simple exercises. Do it for you and your self-confidence! The hair part might be more difficult to deal with, but even that can be solved. Even if you don’t, consider this: I have a fag friend who is obese and REALLY hairy, yet he serves all the time. Why? Because he knows what he wants and he isn’t shy. Being confident in yourself and your place as a faggot will overcome a lot of other, superficial issues.

This Alpha co-worker is very interesting to me. He’s quite confident and self-assured. I do think he was testing you with that statement. He was testing your reaction in order to see what it revealed about you possibly being a faggot. I thought you gave him an EXCELLENT response, and he played along! I’m proud of you for that!

So what did we learn? He fucks faggots, and he’s not too terribly picky (he breeds good boy and bad!) as long as they’re faggots (boys). He’s playful and he’s easy to talk to. And, most importantly, he understands the basics of hierarchy and recognizes it.

Here’s what I think you should do: since he’s already brought it up to you, ask him if you could ask a question and then ask him if he ever trains virgin faggots (maricons). Let him figure out that you’re talking about yourself. See where that conversation leads. Don’t be afraid of doing this, because he’s the one who introduced the subject. He did that for a reason!

If you just can’t get yourself to say that to him, let him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (in the right sidebar) and that will definitely break the ice!

I’m excited for you, Rulfo! This could be the break you need!

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Hi Sam,

I’d like to update you about my Alpha co-worker, I’m the faggot who works in a steakhouse. First of all I forgot to mention some important things in my previous message, this guy, Gabriel (my Alpha co-worker) he is kinda new in the job, it’s been 6 months that he works here, in the first months he was very motivated and cooperative, but since the beginning of this year he’s acting more and more like the situation I described before he’s jacking around and not doing his job properly. Something else I didn’t say, I’m supervisor and Gabriel is a waiter, what means I’m higher in the restaurant hierarchy, so after the episode I told you in my last message and realising he’s an Alpha and 100% superior than me I started to use my role to give him some privileges (actually it’s only his natural right), everything very subtle because I don’t want to compromise my work. So I’m leaving him has more smoking breaks, I take care of his tables while his outside, I also clean his tables, so he can stay at the bar chatting with the bartenders, and last Sunday I told him to do a smoke break in the end of the night when we start cleaning everything to close, when he came back I asked if he wanted to finish earlier and leave, and he told me “I’m all right, I can stay till the end” after this he barely did something to help and finished with everyone. We earn per hour so I think he just wanted the money and that’s fair enough. It is so rewarding to make an Alpha’s life better, he probably just thinks I’m being nice and at the moment it’s better to keep things like this, me “serving” him secretly, without even himself knowing that.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thank you for the additional details. He definitely seems to know he can take advantage of you, brother. You’re doing well submitting in these small ways. Even if nothing develops from this experience with this Alpha, learning the way you can change yourself to submit to Alphas in general for when you have a better opportunity! 

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Hi Sam, I don’t know if you remember me or not but this is the faggot that has the coworker who contacted it on FB randomly and sent a bunch of photos of himself in European type swimwear.

Well I had planned on wishing Him a happy Thanksgiving and I did and we chatted briefly but He said he was at a huge family gathering so I backed off quickly saying I didn’t want to interrupt, and left it at that.

A couple days went by and we’re back in the work week and we both happen to be traveling, Him somewhere warm and He contacted me again. He said he was tormenting old ladies walking around in His suits. He even sent me pics of the two He brought with Him and was wearing. I was obviously very complementary and flat out told Him He is sexy AF (He really is too, He’s a part time fitness instructor, toned, large defined muscles ugh, delicious!). He thanked me and I slipped in a couple of “Sirs” into the conversation. Most of it was extremely suggestive without being graphic but I was very complementary more so than any straight guy would ever be. At one point I even said I think He likes torturing me while I’m at work and can’t take care of the little problem He created and He laugh reacted to that. He actually laugh / heart reacted to a few statements.

So how should I proceed do you think? Should I flat out state that I’m a faggot and ask to serve Him? Or should I see where He leads thing? Or something else all together?

Thank you for the help, I’m not very experienced doing this sort of thing, but I want to get better and better and treat Him the way He deserves to be.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Brother, thank you for the follow-up! 

It sounds like this Alpha continues to torment you (whether it’s on purpose or not, we don’t know) and you continue to vaguely flirt with him. So largely the situation is still the same as last time, right?

There are still unresolved problems. This guy is (I’m assuming) still religious. And also, you don’t live anywhere near each other anymore. So this sort of flirty cycle is going to continue until either he just loses interest or you finally break the stalemate.

I think you should push his buttons a little bit harder. Show him the stick post “What is Hierarchy?” at the front of this site, or the “Letter To An Alpha” in the sidebar. This will force him to confront reality and make a decision. 

If he rejects you, then at least you know this and can move on. But if he doesn’t … well, that’s where things might get interesting. 

It’s worth a shot.

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