Hey brother sam, i recently started servicing an Alpha who is straight but he wants to suck on my faggot cock. Like you, i really don’t like the idea of my faggot cock being sucked by an Alpha but he insists. i forwarned Him, that having my cock sucked on gives me no pleasure, and that while i preferred He not suck it, He was free to do so as He is an Alpha and i am a lowly faggot. He asked me if i thought i could cum while He sucks me and i told him that i doubted it. He said He wants to suck my faggot cock anyway. i said that He should do as He pleases, but that i probably wouldn’t cum. His response was, “Then I won’t feel bad if you don’t cum.” i reassured him that it was my issue if i couldn’t cum and that He was in no way responsible for my not cumming. He said he was ok with that and said that He would suck on my faggot cock anyway.

my question brother sam, is whether i handled this correctly. i think that as an Alpha He can do what He pleases and so i decided to let Him suck me even though i wouldn’t be comfortable in letting Him do so. i’m thinking that while He sucks on my faggot cock i will try visualizing myself sucking on Him at the same time, so maybe, i can be erect at least.

Have you ever encountered a straight Alpha that wanted to taste a faggot’s cum? How would you handle this situation?

Thanks in advance brother sam!

Thanks for the question! 

My first question is this: why do you think this guy is a true Alpha? There are a lot of gays out there pretending to be Alpha (or are confused into thinking they’re Alpha) whose true colors come out once they get a faggot alone. 

Even gay Alphas that I know don’t suck dick, get fucked, or do much ass play. Think about that. And even more telling is this “Alpha’s” insistence on sucking your dick. Very strange.

As you mention, I HATE when anyone does anything with my penis. That’s why it’s so nice being caged. I think most faggots agree with us about this, too. We are simply not wired to want that or enjoy it. 

If I were you, I’d lose this guy. I think he’s a fake, and he’s also inconsiderate. There are true Alphas out there to serve. I wouldn’t waste time on this one.   

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Hey Sam, love your site! I’m 18 from France and I have a weird situation. My boyfriend is 23 and he is VERY dominant in our relationship, in his work, etc He is a natural Alpha in every single way. I never asked him about being a top or a bottom because I was a virgin when I met him and I taught he would destroy my hole and breed me. For my surprise, when we first had intimacy and the bedroom for us after a few dates, he literally opened his drawer, handed me a bottle of lube and a condom, took his underwear off and put his ass up waiting for me to fuck hahahaha I kept looking at the lube and the condom trying to understand what to do for a while before I started doing it. I had never worn a condom before, so I tried to do my best and lubed his hole. It was a little messy, but my dick is not that big, so it entered easily. We’ve been together for 6 months and every time we have sex he does the same. He says he is a dominant power bottom but I desperately need to feel a dick in my hole, dominating me and breeding me. How do you think I should behave in this case? I think I am a faggot, but I’ve been fucking his big manly ass since July. Is there such thing as a Alpha bottom? Maybe a throuple with a real Alpha would solve it? I don’t know if something is wrong with me but I see so many faggots serving strong men and when I found one he literally has a pussy instead of a asshole looool   Love you Sam!!! Merci beaucoup !

Brother, thank you for writing to me! I love you, too! For whatever reason your question ended up in my email inbox rather than inside the site, so my response won’t reach you directly. Hopefully you’ll see this reply on the site.

I hate to be the one to break this to you, little brother, but your boyfriend is NOT a “natural Alpha in every single way” because truly dominant Alphas aren’t bottoms. How can any Man claim to be dominant when he’s bending over and taking it up the ass?

I’m not saying that “bossy bottoms” don’t exist, but in my opinion they use the “bossy” title as a way to excuse selfish, ignorant, and ill-informed behavior. A lot of these bossy bottoms are the over-the-top “look at me” swish queens who are always way too loud and obnoxious everywhere they go. I can’t stand these types, and nobody I know likes them for anything other than as an object of derision.

You might as well forget about this flake right now, brother. I can almost guarantee this: at some point down the road your “boyfriend” will meet up with a real Alpha, and that Alpha will force him to accept the truth about himself.

But you are such a good boy, and I can already sense you’re going to be some true Alpha’s prized faggot. You deserve to serve a real Alpha who can complete your circle and help train you into the faggot your heart yearns to be.

So send this pretender back to the clubs so it can continue in its delusion without wasting these precious years of your life.

Love,

sam the faggot

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