I have been a slave since I was 23 and my 19 yr old alpha roommate dominated me. I am now in my 60s and sexually have always been submissive. Lately, I realized that I have wasted my whole life, because I have only been sexually submissive, and I have not given my whole life to the Alpha men who used me. I always thought it was a sexual fantasy. But lately, I realized that I’m not only sexually inferior, but I am completely inferior. I am sad that it’s taken me 62 years to understand that. Now I am craving life is to find a man who is willing to take on an older inferior. But am I past my prime?  What can an older slave like me do to improve the lives of Alpha men.  I want to spend the rest of my life in servitude.  I just don’t know where to begin.

Thank you for the heartfelt question, brother!

It’s always heartbreaking to hear from faggots like you (and I’ve heard from a lot of them). Your generation and older didn’t have the internet, nor did you have the more widespread acceptance of homosexuality that many cultures have today. Most gay males spent their lives in frustration, hiding in the closet and rarely getting the opportunity to experience fulfillment of any kind.

The one group of gay males that often DID find fulfillment (at least fleeting tastes of it) were faggots. You see, faggots have always been around, and Men have always been using us. So these faggots were able to serve quite often, albeit in secret.

You are an example of this. At 23 years old your 19-year-old Alpha roommate recognized what you are and took ownership of you. That is pure hierarchy in action. My straight best friend did that to me at age 17. We all have stories like that.

The difference between us occurred after that first service opportunity stopped. I turned around and became a super-faggot, whereas you bottled it up and hid it away.

Believe me, I feel for you, brother. However, all is not lost. Older faggots have a longer shelf life if they convert to becoming domestic faggots. I have a wonderful and inspiring thread here on the site of a wonderful older faggot named Chadwick who still wanted fulfillment so badly that he began offering domestic service to Alphas on apps like Grindr and such, and before you could blink twice he had a bunch of Alphas using him that way! The thread is in the right sidebar.

So don’t give up. Anyone who submits and embraces their truth as a faggot can be useful to Men!

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What do I do when I realize at 65 years old and married that I am actually a faggot?

Thank you for the question, brother! 

I’m sorry you’re realizing/accepting that so late in life! You have a complicated situation that is going to make things difficult as well.

Generally-speaking, sexual service is likely not going to happen unless you’re in incredibly great shape or you’re lucky. You might be able to find an Alpha who can use you as a domestic faggot (put out an ad on more conventional sites like Grindr offering such service). And of course, many older faggots find satisfaction serving Alphas financially fin findom. 

Those are likely your options, brother. Thank you and good luck!

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Am I too old to learn how to suck cock? This urge has come to the front of my mind, but I worry what men will think of a 63 y.o. man trying to learn to suck men off.

You’re never too old to become what you were born to be. If you’re a cocksucker, then you should be doing that regardless of your age. I’m sure there are plenty of Men and Alphas who’d love for you to learn on their their cocks.

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The question about older faggots being used was extremely timely for me.  I am an older faggot.  Frankly I am just plain old.

I have become re-acquainted with an Alpha that for a one year period would not acknowledge me via texting .  Suddenly he is communicating with me.  I was so desperate I immediately sent him money.  Than in a flurry of communicating he agreed to visit me and for the duration of short weekend he would take over my apartment.  This would be our first physical contact.  I immediately sent him funds to pay / reimburse for cost of plane ticket. He has detailed the exact type of cigars he wants me to provide during his visit.  This visit is to occur five weeks from now.

I recently moved to a new apartment and I have procrastinated in putting my possessions in order.  Also, the apartment building may be uncomfortable for the Alpha.  I have sent him pictures.  He has told me what to arrange to put in better order.  But certain things are beyond my control, eg working elevators.

The Alpha has been very clear.  He expects to be serviced and he expects a wallet. Both concern me.  Am I too old to serve to his expectations?  Am I being a real loser by being an open wallet?

I am desperate.  But I am seriously wondering if I should swallow pride and fully admit I am too old and too nervous to be a “wallet”.  From the beginning. I have told this Alpha my true age and sent fotos.

I am reading you daily .  I hope a response.  Hopefully my question will be of interest to other old fags.

Thank you for the question, brother! 

I’m excited for the opportunity you have to serve this Alpha in person! I’m proud of you for taking steps to fully experience your truth! 

I think the second-guessing you express in your question is merely your nervousness. This is natural. 

Think about it this way: your nervousness will pale in comparison to the shame and disappointment you will feel if you back out and fail to serve this Alpha. You’ve made a commitment to serve him, so go through with it. Everything else is replaceable except time and opportunity. 

Forget your age. Forget yourself. Just serve. This Alpha accepts your worship, so be at peace with that. 

Let me know how it goes!  

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Despite being an older faggot i have taken a long time, just the last few years to be able to say out loud: “i am a faggot here to be used, here to obey, here to serve and know my place”. How about you faggots?

Thank you for writing!

I do think there are generations of older faggots like you who struggle to admit their truth. The violent, rampant  homophobia and general dismissal of faghood as nothing but a fetish forced almost all faggots into hiding and self-denial.

In fact, that is one of the reasons I started this site ten years ago. I wanted faggots to embrace their truth and start living honest lives.

On X, @MasterA_2022 and I did a series of experimental live spaces in which we would allow fags to speak and admit their truth as faggots for the first time. Some of them CRIED! It was very moving.

So I’m proud of you for taking this step, brother!

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I read Hierarchy University’s story about and interview with young Master Simon of Sweden and how he became master of his own literal Daddy. The story was not only informative and interesting but also highly homoerotic.

I’ve some questions for your site, relevant to the Master Simon interview and story:

1. Is young Master Simon accepting new older unowned slaves? And if so, how may a prospective unowned slave contact Master Simon?

2. Are there any young masters or websites for finding young masters in the United  States, who also train older slaves, in a manner similar to Master Simon? And if so, how may an  unowned older slave contact these young masters?

Thanks, brother.

1. I don’t know if he is accepting older faggots. I kind of doubt it right now given his age and current life, but I’ll ask him. 
2. There are no websites I’m aware of that are specifically tailored to the young Alpha/older faggot niche. It’s basically just trial and error. You do understand that you’ll likely only be used as a cash fag, right? Are you prepared for that? 

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