Hello Brother Sam.

First of all I apologize if I make some grammar mistakes writing this. English is not my first language. I’ll try to do my best to explain myself properly.

It has been a while since I started to read your work and must have to say that i love each one of your posts and stories from our fags brothers and the powerful alphas that honour us with their point of views, that you diligently collect.

I’ve been thinking a lot to write you for guidance. Right now I’m at a crossroad.

I’m a 27 yo fan from Mexico. I have known since I was young that I’m a faggot and I have to serve the superior men that surround me. Many look at me as someone helpful and obliging. But the truth is that I always try to help those men that are over me hierarchically speaking, teachers, managers, clients, classmates, friends you can name it.

And I have been always fine with that. The problem is the next one.

Around 6 months ago I texted a online Dom on Snapchat. He’s always verbally degrading me and humiliating me (and I love it). The things got crooked when one night he questioned why I only serve him at nights. I couldn’t lie to him and I had to tell him that I only could serve him late night because I still live with my family and I share a room with my brother.

Apparently he found in that information a new way to scramble my fag brain. He ordered me to tell him the name of my brother and send him pics of him. At the beginning I was resistant to do it. But after some of his words, as you could expect, I ended up obeying him.

His next messages were voice notes of him laughing really hard telling me how pathetic I was being a slut for him when my brother was in the same room every night without any idea of the pathetic loser that I was. Those words broke something inside me. Unfortunately also make me feel more kinky than ever.

Since that he has been ordering me to sniff, lick and wedgie my self with my bro’s dirty underwear. Beside other humiliating orders, like make me refer to my brother as my “Teen alpha”.

I love how pathetic and dirty he makes me feel, but on the other hand I feel so bad with my brother by using him to feed my fag’s side.

My question is should I stop obeying this path of humiliation (that I love) or I submit to my lower instincts?

I know you must have tons of messages, I hope you could read mine.

I wish you the best, your fag brother David.

Thank you for writing, brother! And don’t worry about the English … I’ll fix it for you!

Your letter highlights one thing I really hate about online Doms: they play these stupid games that can cause problems. It’s also really dangerous if they’re let into a faggot’s personal life and they start doing things like exposing a faggot to family and friends. It’s fun and games for them because they’re not accountable, but it could be very serious for the faggot.

And frankly, I question the authenticity of any adult Alpha or Man who has that kind of time to play mind games with a faggot online. It just makes me think he’s fake. 

I also really think it was a bad idea to give this guy pics of your brother without your brother’s knowledge. Your brother probably doesn’t want to be brought into this, so exposing him that way is at least disrespectful of your brother if not worse. 

Now, I realize you’re pretty young and you probably have little or no experience yet. But I promise if you keep working on becoming more submissive and meditating on how you want to honor all Men you meet with kindness and submission, you will find a real life Alpha. Mexico is filled with Alphas. You will be able to find an Alpha who would love to own you. 

But I think you’d be better off getting away from this game-playing Alpha and working on yourself and your submission in your everyday life. If you can go into chastity, that would be even better, but not necessary. Just focus on simple steps at this stage, and start looking for opportunities to serve in real life. 

Thanks again for the question! I love you!  

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I have found a handsome Man who sees me as a fag and wishes to use me. And that’s awesome. But from the very first (online) conversation, he is wholly uncompromising – doesn’t take “no” for an answer, no matter my concern. He keeps calling me a zero, a filthy floor rag. He also told me I have no rights with him, that his word is a law. That my purpose in life is being flushed in the toilet.

Sounds all hot and fitting to a faggot, alright, but this is a Man I haven’t even met, I know nothing about him and though he is dominant, there is something unhealthy about his demeanor. After all, he’s said he won’t let me go.

It seems he has a great passion for flushing fags’ heads in the toilet, pissing on them, having them lick it and such – and I wouldn’t any problem with it. On the contrary. Except he wants me to film it, over and over and over again with slight variations. And I don’t want to be exposed, for heaven’s sake. I have that right, or do I not? I may be a lowly fag but 24/7 servitude is simply unacceptable. Deference and respect to a Man at all times is different than being essentially a possession for 24/7.

Just what should I do? Thank you.

Hi brother! Thanks for writing! 

In a general sense I’m wary of any online interactions that are not backed up by in-person meets and experiences. Anybody can be anything online. For crying out loud even I could get dominant and write Dom-sounding emails if I wanted to! So just because he’s saying these things online doesn’t mean squat. 

Here’s how you know what you should do: you said that “24/7 is out of the question” and “exposure is not something you want” … but that is EXACTLY what he wants.

So you tell me … what should you do? The answer is clear to me!  

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Hi Sam!

I’ve recently come into contact with an Alpha across the globe in Europe. We’ve had good conversations and he really appreciates obedience above all else, which is why I make sure to address him as Sir within every sentence. Whenever he has an urge to jerk off, he makes me go on a voice chat with him, and I have to verbally degrade myself and worship his status as an alpha. On top of that, he also makes me send him humiliating photos/videos of myself for him to jerk off to, stuff like me riding a dildo while thanking him for letting me serve him. I’ve really enjoyed serving him and making sure he gets the pleasure he rightfully deserves, even if it’s online. Would you consider this meaningful service to alphas, even though it’s not the usual traditional version of service? Is there more I can do to serve alphas when we live so far apart? Thanks for all the work you do Sam, I really look up to you!

Hi brother! Thanks for writing! 

In today’s world we’ve seen a sharp rise in online service/worship in the Hierarchical space. It’s inevitable. Sometimes we meet an Alpha online and things just click. Other times, the only way a faggot can serve safely is through online worship. 

So yes, it’s meaningful service even if it isn’t ideal. The Alpha is getting off to the pics you’re sending to him, so he’s obviously pleased. Who am I to judge that arrangement?

As far as doing more to serve online, you didn’t mention anything about findom. That’s typically what happens in online service. Maybe that’s not a feature of your service to him, but if you can afford it, I think you should add that. 

But nice work, brother! 

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Hi Sam,

First,Welcome back. Hope you are well.

Wondering if you could please give me some advice.

I’ve been DM’ing with a straight military dude on Tumblr. Through our chats I told him why I thought he was an alpha, gave him my thoughts on hierarchy, came out to him as a faggot wanting to serve an alpha and encourged him to assert his alphahood. He was interested in all of this and by the end of the chat he told me that he liked when I called him SIR and told me to address him like that always. He bid me a good night calling me his good faggot friend. Of course this left me swooning.

The next morning I left him a DM just saying that I was thinking of him and wishing him a good day. He simply replied with “Hey”

I feel like I might have overstepped or seemed needy.

because I saw him posting the whole day but he didn’t reach out to DM me.

My question is– how can I continue to engage him? Do I ask him questions? I’d like to get to know him better — he seems very cool and open. (He is obsessed with pussy and getting girls and he posts alot about that)

All to say, how can I develop some kind of connection to him that maybe could lead to him wanting me to be his faggot. Or is that hoping for too much?

Thanks Sam. Your advice is so appreciated.

This is why I don’t put a lot of stock in online service. There’s nowhere for it to go … unless you are willing to serve him as a cash fag.

You see, no straight Alpha wants to befriend a faggot online because there’s nothing there to benefit him. The only thing that will get his interest is money. So if you’re willing to serve him that way, then do it.

But I don’t know how else you can “be his faggot” unless you happen to live nearby, or you pack up and move to him (I don’t recommend it). 

Ultimately, you’re better off cultivating service relationships with local Alphas. That’s what I’ve done my whole adult life, and it works. Save the online stuff for the game players.

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