Sam, I need your help!!

I have been serving a wonderful Master and he makes me very happy. He’s hot, strong, dominant, doesn’t hurt me or harm me in any way, I feel like a lucky faggot with him.

Last week while I was sucking his dick he asked for the first time for me to rim him. I found it weird at first because he usually rims me before fucking but I obeyed him. As soon as my tongue touched his hole he farted on my face. I got really upset and felt disrespected, but he was just laughing at me as if I were a useless fuck hole. I called him disgusting but he just laughed more, held my hair, and said “ok baby, it was just a joke,” and fucked my throat to make sure I would shut up. I was still upset but I wanted to be a good boy, so I sucked him off until he came and I swallowed his load without complaining.

After a few hours, when he was satisfied and with his balls empty, I asked him why he had done it. He said “because I can.” Then he said that he really liked the feeling and wants me to worship his farts to make sure I never forget he owns me.

What would you do in my place? I feel that if I tell him I am not comfortable he will accept, but on the other hand I want to be a good boy for him and maybe I should just get use to him using my face to fart whenever he wants.

Thank you brother!! Your website is wonderful!

Hi brother! Thanks for writing! 

I don’t really understand the Alpha love for farting on people (not just fags). Part of it is a dominance  thing, of course, but I think they just find them funny. Hell, most of the time they ARE funny. 

What your Master did to you WAS disrespectful for sure, and I probably would’ve freaked out about it, too. A more mature Master would’ve known to gauge his faggot’s ability to handle that before springing it. Here he was, asking you to do something unusual, and you tried to do it without question – that level of obedience his HUGE. But your Master’s thoughtless action once you obeyed now makes you hesitant to do anything like that again because you’ll always be thinking about that betrayal of trust. Your Master should’ve thought about that before doing it.

That said, a fart is relatively harmless. And also, your Master’s general playfulness is pretty endearing. I definitely don’t think you should try to blow up this opportunity with him, not over a fart. I think you did the right thing by letting him see the hurt, embarrassment, and shame he caused you. I think you’re on the right course with this Master, so just go forward and continue serving with joy and see what your Master does from here. 

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Hi Sam! I’ve been following your page for a looong time (years lol) and you’ve been instrumental in me realizing i’m a fag. I did have a few questions that I’m hoping you can help me with, and i’d be eternally grateful for a response:

• I know I’m a faggot. I know i must serve men. However I also have a very successful career and personal life. Is it possible to have both of these things? I’ve been too nervous to serve a Man due to how it could impact my “normal” life, i’ve had online doms blackmail before (non consentually), so maybe i’m just a bit overreacting to that.
• where do I find doms irl? do you have a list of locations you recommend frequenting? I’m not a fan of the whole online thing and much prefer to serve in person and that’s how i think i’d be most successful.

Well it’s nice to hear from a long-time reader! I’m glad I’ve been able to help you find your truth! 

I don’t think it’s impossible to have career success while also serving as a faggot. I’ve managed to do it, and so have other faggots I’ve known personally and online. You might remember my interview with Brian, the faggot who served his Master while also enjoying a successful career. I think the real key here is having a Master to serve full time. This was what I did after several years of being a slut, and it made all the difference for me. I think you’ll find that will be the case as well.

Where to find Alphas to serve? Well, you can always find Alphas to service on apps and whatnot, but you’ll rarely find an Owner there. Honestly, the best path is finding Alphas in your everyday life that you can start submitting to in various ways. Then Ownership develops organically. 

I hope this helps! 

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Hey Sam! Glad to see you back! Your website was one of the main reasons of me coming to terms of being a faggot and accepting that. During the time that you were away, I was lucky to serve an alpha online for a few months after I found his personal ad looking for subs and then reaching out. I sent him a few photos of myself and he liked them and took me in to serve him.

Our main dynamic of service was he would give me a task, sometimes with photo examples, which I would then photo or record myself doing. He would sometimes take these photos and videos, edit them and put them in an online album and make that album public for people to see for a short time before privating the album again. These photos got quite a few views, not just a few dozen but my first time being exposed got 600 views.

The photos and videos I sent them were really humiliating, they had me naked, riding a dildo and other degrading things. Eventually he convinced me to start including my face which he would then edit out for my online exposure, but the face videos and pictures were for him to use and share with his alpha friends (not sure if he shared edited versions). I eventually backed out of the relationship after one of my family members died and I used it as an excuse to get out of the relationship since I started getting scared of the consequences of exposure, even though he never showed signs of abusing his power. He made it clear he didn’t want me to talk to him again but I sometimes think of going back to him and apologizing so I can serve him again, however I still don’t know how to feel about the exposure aspect as it’s quite scary.

So my question to you Sam is, despite exposure being enticing for some faggots, do you feel like it is safe for an alpha to be able to use exposure as a form of service and where do you stand on it? Have you heard of other examples of faggots and alphas using exposure in service?

Thanks Sam for all your work!

Thanks for the question and the support, brother!

I’m not sure why any Alpha would only want a faggot to serve by submitting pics of itself simply for exposure. I don’t understand the fetish, I guess. Maybe the Alpha was getting off on the power of making you do these humiliating things? No idea.

I do understand why some faggots crave exposure and humiliation of this sort, but in my experience the thrill only lasts as long as it takes for them to cum. Then they feel regret and want to take back what they shared. This is why I stopped doing exposure for faggots a long time ago. I don’t have the time to go search for the material I exposed and erasing it whenever the fag has second thoughts. As for your direct question, I think it’s perfectly safe for Alphas do get involved with exposing faggots. What’s the danger for them?

However, my original question remains: what’s in it for them in the first place? Thanks brother!

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