What’s the real pecking order of superiority—White, Black, or Asian—and am I, an Asian dom, secretly at the bottom?

Alright, I’m a dominant Asian dude—built like a tank, cocky as hell, and I’ve always thrived on pinning guys down and making them worship me. I’ve got this alpha energy, and I love the power trip. But your posts keep throwing me off, man. You’re always hyping up massive black cocks—thick, veiny monsters that could split anyone open—and it’s got me questioning everything. I always figured white guys were the top dogs: chiseled jaws, towering frames, and those big, perfect dicks that scream superiority. I mean, I’ve been drooling over them myself, fantasizing about their rugged hands forcing me down, degrading me with that smug, entitled grin, calling me a pathetic little Asian bitch while they ram me with their huge white cocks. But if white dudes are into black cock—craving that raw, primal power—where does that leave me? I’m over here, a so-called dom, getting hard thinking about white men owning me, humiliating my smaller Asian dick, laughing at how it doesn’t even compare. Does that make Asians the lowest? The ultimate inferiors? I’m conflicted—part of me wants to keep dominating, but the other part wants to kneel and take it, drooling over white superiority while secretly wondering if black reigns supreme. What’s the hottest, most fucked-up racial hierarchy here, and how do I deal with this as a dom who might just be a submissive fag deep down?

1. What’s the most superior race?

   – White

   – Black

   – Asian

Sir, I’m sorry if I’m rattling your confidence! You have no reason to feel that way.

Look, I feel like I have a pretty balanced understanding of Hierarchy, but I’m still a faggot and a human. I have served a lot of black Alphas and I’m attracted to them. But in my mind there is no difference between Alphas based on race or even dick size. You should take the same mentality, Sir. 

I don’t want to rank them as you requested. I respect Alphas of all sorts, and I don’t want to hurt anyone. 

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Hi Sam! I wanted to ask a question about race play when it comes to faggots and alphas, and how you feel about it. I’m an asian faggot and I just recently came in contact with a white alpha that likes to use raceplay to enforce the hierarchy between us, talking about how he’s superior because of it and uses it to emasculate me. He does it in a way that’s not truly racist but just in a way that ramifies the status difference between us. However I wanted to get your perspective on this and your opinion on raceplay, as well as if there’s any examples you’ve heard of? Thanks Sam, keep up the good work!

Unfortunately race play is part of Hierarchy. I say “unfortunately” despite the fact that I was forced to participate in race play by a couple of black Alphas who demanded that I call them “nigger” while they used me … and I found it hot. 

I can’t stand racism, and on an intellectual level I’m disgusted to see racism and race play in the Hierarchical scene. Racism doesn’t accurately reflect the power dynamic going on in actual Hierarchy. 

That said, race play can be quite hot. However, I also think it’s just another sad commentary on our fallen nature in general.

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I’m a half black, half white sub-bottom married to a very vanilla non-dominant top who has no idea I’m into being dominated with raceplay. I have chatted with a local white dom who wants to own me and use me. But, I’ve never had sex outside my relationship (unless phone-boning counts). Part of me wants to do it to serve a master who understands my place in society. But, it’s obviously wrong to do this to my husband. Can you help?!

My first question is this: if you knew this Top wasn’t what you needed or wanted, why are you with him? People, if we are getting into relationships with others, we need to go into them honest with ourselves and honest with our partners.

Which leads me to the second point: you haven’t discussed your needs with your boyfriend. You say he’s “non-dominant” and that might be true … but by not even talking to him about it, you’re robbing him of the chance to even try to be the type of Man you want. 

So I think you know where I’m heading with this. I don’t think you should run off behind your boyfriend’s back and serve this white Master. Your boyfriend is trusting you and not doing anything deserving of such betrayal. Instead, go to him and discuss your needs honestly. If he can’t do it, then end the relationship so you can be free to find a Man who will.

And hopefully you’ll also learn from this.

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