Hey There Sam,

I’ve been a lurker for quite sometime and haven’t messaged you before but I saw one of your posts around early November last year showing a white top and an Asian bottom with some very heavy white dominant race play. I am dealing with some natural desires that conflict with my own sense of morality and figured I would reach out for help. To give you context I am 6’7 240 cornfed Midwestern alpha that is a German, Irish, and Scandinavian mix and I crave the submission of weaker smaller men, nothing too surprising to you I am sure.

The problem is I also have a strong desire specifically to use and humiliate those of different races than me. It isn’t something I am proud of but it feels like an ingrained built in drive. In my day to day I believe in equality and treating everyone like an individual with respect regardless of their physical characteristics and would consider myself very liberal politically. But when I get horny and an Asian or black faggot is worshipping me I find we both naturally start spouting the most racist filthiest white supremacist things we can think of. I feel the need to conquer and colonize rushing in my blood like an ancestral urge and I just brutally take what is mine while humiliating and degrading the faggot while making them stroke my ego as well as my cock.  Often a play scenario is I’ve finished conquering a village and knocking up its women and then I’m using the weaker faggot who couldn’t defend them as my musk rag and sexual relief toy.  It feels so amazing to hear an Asian twink half my size beg for my “superior white babies” and “to colonize their inferior bloodline” But I feel extremely guilty after and know that I don’t actually believe those things I said. I never do it unless specifically asked for,  but it is almost always asked for unprompted, especially by Asian faggots when we compare his clit to my cock. I even have had white and Jewish bottoms telling me how much better my BWC is than others.

I know your perspective as a white bottom is going to inherently make you biased towards being submissive to tops of other races and you know the pleasure that raceplay can bring especially towards alphas, but I would appreciate hearing your thoughts on how a white alpha should handle raceplay and if you’ve heard any perspectives from Asian or black bottoms who have done submissive raceplay. There are faggots and alphas in every race, so why is raceplay going both directions something that seems to be a natural ingrained guilty pleasure throughout the community, is it just the taboo nature of it all that makes it so thrilling?

Thank you for writing, Sir!

Race play is a weird kink in hierarchical play (and yes, I consider it to be hierarchical). As a young faggot serving black Alphas constantly, I encountered quite a few who would demand that I beg them to fuck me “with their big nigger dicks”, etc. This went against everything I believed in about race, and I must admit I don’t think I was particularly convincing while doing it (in fact, I was spanked for not being loud enough). I guess intellectually I understood why it was hot, but it just felt wrong to make derogatory comments like that about superior Men.

Of course, your case is quite different, Sir. You are a mountain of white superiority, and all people are inferior to you physically, if not in every way. I can see why you end up in those scenarios where faggots of certain races might want you to degrade them (or why you might want to). After all, you are an unrivaled physical specimen, so why not live out a fantasy with you?

I don’t think you should feel guilty for enjoying this, Sir. I think it’s just part of the overall power play element of hierarchy that everyone agrees is hot. What you’re doing is no different than an Alpha “raping” a faggot and then providing loving aftercare to it. Obviously the Alpha is not really a rapist, but he needed to express that level of aggression in the moment. The real Alpha is the one who comforts his faggot afterward.

Same with you. You’re obviously not a hateful racist or bigot, but in the moment you want to experience “full power” levels of aggression. It’s thrilling for you and your faggots, Sir. But afterward, you return to your true personality. And look at it this way: the very fact that it bothers you proves you are not a racist.

If we held the things said and done during the heat of sex against others, sex would never happen. Sex is supposed to release the animal within us, the primal urges you speak of, Sir. To deny ourselves that level of expression is to live a sexual life unfulfilled and ungratifying.

You of all people were born to take whatever you want. You should never live in a cage of societal or moral restrictions, Sir.

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What’s the real pecking order of superiority—White, Black, or Asian—and am I, an Asian dom, secretly at the bottom?

Alright, I’m a dominant Asian dude—built like a tank, cocky as hell, and I’ve always thrived on pinning guys down and making them worship me. I’ve got this alpha energy, and I love the power trip. But your posts keep throwing me off, man. You’re always hyping up massive black cocks—thick, veiny monsters that could split anyone open—and it’s got me questioning everything. I always figured white guys were the top dogs: chiseled jaws, towering frames, and those big, perfect dicks that scream superiority. I mean, I’ve been drooling over them myself, fantasizing about their rugged hands forcing me down, degrading me with that smug, entitled grin, calling me a pathetic little Asian bitch while they ram me with their huge white cocks. But if white dudes are into black cock—craving that raw, primal power—where does that leave me? I’m over here, a so-called dom, getting hard thinking about white men owning me, humiliating my smaller Asian dick, laughing at how it doesn’t even compare. Does that make Asians the lowest? The ultimate inferiors? I’m conflicted—part of me wants to keep dominating, but the other part wants to kneel and take it, drooling over white superiority while secretly wondering if black reigns supreme. What’s the hottest, most fucked-up racial hierarchy here, and how do I deal with this as a dom who might just be a submissive fag deep down?

1. What’s the most superior race?

   – White

   – Black

   – Asian

Sir, I’m sorry if I’m rattling your confidence! You have no reason to feel that way.

Look, I feel like I have a pretty balanced understanding of Hierarchy, but I’m still a faggot and a human. I have served a lot of black Alphas and I’m attracted to them. But in my mind there is no difference between Alphas based on race or even dick size. You should take the same mentality, Sir. 

I don’t want to rank them as you requested. I respect Alphas of all sorts, and I don’t want to hurt anyone. 

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Hi Sam! I wanted to ask a question about race play when it comes to faggots and alphas, and how you feel about it. I’m an asian faggot and I just recently came in contact with a white alpha that likes to use raceplay to enforce the hierarchy between us, talking about how he’s superior because of it and uses it to emasculate me. He does it in a way that’s not truly racist but just in a way that ramifies the status difference between us. However I wanted to get your perspective on this and your opinion on raceplay, as well as if there’s any examples you’ve heard of? Thanks Sam, keep up the good work!

Unfortunately race play is part of Hierarchy. I say “unfortunately” despite the fact that I was forced to participate in race play by a couple of black Alphas who demanded that I call them “nigger” while they used me … and I found it hot. 

I can’t stand racism, and on an intellectual level I’m disgusted to see racism and race play in the Hierarchical scene. Racism doesn’t accurately reflect the power dynamic going on in actual Hierarchy. 

That said, race play can be quite hot. However, I also think it’s just another sad commentary on our fallen nature in general.

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I’m a half black, half white sub-bottom married to a very vanilla non-dominant top who has no idea I’m into being dominated with raceplay. I have chatted with a local white dom who wants to own me and use me. But, I’ve never had sex outside my relationship (unless phone-boning counts). Part of me wants to do it to serve a master who understands my place in society. But, it’s obviously wrong to do this to my husband. Can you help?!

My first question is this: if you knew this Top wasn’t what you needed or wanted, why are you with him? People, if we are getting into relationships with others, we need to go into them honest with ourselves and honest with our partners.

Which leads me to the second point: you haven’t discussed your needs with your boyfriend. You say he’s “non-dominant” and that might be true … but by not even talking to him about it, you’re robbing him of the chance to even try to be the type of Man you want. 

So I think you know where I’m heading with this. I don’t think you should run off behind your boyfriend’s back and serve this white Master. Your boyfriend is trusting you and not doing anything deserving of such betrayal. Instead, go to him and discuss your needs honestly. If he can’t do it, then end the relationship so you can be free to find a Man who will.

And hopefully you’ll also learn from this.

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