Hi, hope you’re well. I don’t really know where to start, for a few years now I’ve been absorbing media surrounding the ideas of hierarchy and what being a fag entails. Something about it feels so comforting, and I recently started a self-locked journey getting my first chastity cage just this past weekend. That being said, I don’t really know how to feel. Part of me thinks that I am a fag, but another part of me is resistant.  When it comes to being around my friends, I’m usually the one who just agrees with whatever is said and I rarely voice my own opinions when it comes to where we should go to eat, hang, whatever. However, when it comes to school projects with random groups, or taking on a leadership position (like my university’s student council), that comes to me just as naturally and I have no problem taking charge. I guess the question here is can there be a balance between servitude as a fag, and fulfilling aspirational goals and having a successful career? I’m really new to this whole world and just don’t know where I stand yet, or if what I am picturing is even possible. Any advice helps, thanks a lot!

Thank you for writing, brother!

This is a pretty common dilemma for faggots, especially newer ones. If your information comes only from porn or Dom/sub fetish sites, it would very easy to think a faggot is nothing but garbage to be used and discarded, a useless, popper-addicted pig with no value to society.

Now, there ARE some fags like that, of course. But these ones are outliers, truly debased creatures who live only from one degradation to another.

But most faggots are like you and I, real males with hopes and dreams and talents and personalities. Some of us are wildly talented and hugely successful. Hell, Sean the faggot built a multi-million dollar company that made him extremely wealthy before it was taken over by his young Master!

However, there is something within us that makes us need to serve Alphas. It drives us, and when we do even the slightest act of service for a Man we feel a fulfillment that is hard to replicate any other way. It’s like a drug, this fulfillment. Hearing “good boy” from a Man makes our lives of sacrifice and submission worth it.

It is not easy to balance those two seemingly disparate aspects of our lives as faggots, but it can be done. Some of this involves serving the right Alphas, ones who are Protector Alphas and who recognize that guiding their faggots toward good, useful, and fulfilling goals makes their service that much better. I’ve been blessed in that regard throughout my life, but part of that has to do with my own self-respect. I view my service as a gift I offer my Owner, so I don’t want it abused, unappreciated, or misused.

So go on a build a life you can find fulfilling. Find success and joy. Build something valuable within yourself so you can submissively offer it as tribute to a truly great Alpha!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hey Sam, I also wanted to thank you for all the content you put out there. Even though sometimes it can be a bit much for me, you changed my life. I’m one of those people that always had a tight grip on life and wouldn’t let loose. But I always had that very submissive side of me so a few years ago after I bumped into FWA, I decided to give it a try. It’s funny to think about it now but I remember thinking okay, then I have to make my pussy nice for alphas so I started working out my ass which grew quite easily and then that transformed into a full body routine. Nowadays, I get a lot of attention for my ass and men assume it’s just always been like that. You also taught me to be more daring, I remember back then after reading your content I started paying more attention to who might be an alpha and when I was in the gym showers I found one, jumped into his stall and he face fucked me until he came. Since then, I’ve served straight alphas and gay alphas as a cocksucker and just have learned to not only let men use my ass but I’ve become pretty good at milking them with it.

Oh, I also approached the straight alphas around me in a flattery way which then grew into friendships. That influence made me cooler since I had to keep up with them. So now, I don’t really bother having non alpha men in my life since other men usually don’t do well at work, socially nor at life in general. I’ve learned that if the alphas put you in their team, you’ll likely succeed and they’ll build you up or you’ll grow just from being around them. It so funny because alphas really started liking me after I started showing service towards them even platonically.

Nowadays, that all has become second nature and I can gauge relationships better. You helped me release my sexuality and that made me very confident. There’s a certain power that came with living out my faggotry that I don’t quite understand but thank you for all that.

Well thank you for the compliments and the experiences you shared! I’m glad that What I’ve taught you has helped you. I love that you went to work on your body so diligently and achieved results that helped you get attention from Alphas! That’s the kind of humility and dedication that is necessary! 

Your strategy of cozying up to Alphas and developing friendships with them is something I have naturally done my whole life without really ever thinking about it. When you mentioned it, I smiled with the thought that I have always developed strong relationships with successful Alphas and served them in whatever ways I could organically. It’s been a key of success for me, and it sounds like you’re the same!

Thanks again for writing!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!