Sup Sam, found your podcast just wanted to ask about my situation. Little bit about me, I’m 19 5’5 , a fit 145lbs, hairy, 8 inch cock, but in my day to day life I’m a little bit more feminine acting. I enjoy more gay things like theater, but I still dress masculinely. I think people intuitively expect me to be a faggot but I have found that I really enjoy dominating. I have both dominated and submitted to guys before but I seem to have a knack and a very intense elation that comes with dominating men, especially taller older men. I also have several guys who are long term submissive to me who do any task I request of them over video. I guess my question is am I still an alpha by your standards if I enjoy more feminine things? Love the pod, great jerk off fodder.
– twink alpha C
Sir, thank you for writing to me!
I get so tired of people putting limitations and enforcing stereotypes on Alphas. I hear these complaints all the time. “He’s not tall enough to be Alpha” or “his dick isn’t big enough to be Alpha” or “he doesn’t have enough muscle to be Alpha” or whatever. I’ve heard it all and I’ve shot them all down.
Let me just say it again for the Peanut Gallery in the back rows: An Alpha is defined by what he is INSIDE.
Now, most of the time there are outward qualities that manifest from that inner Alpha (like he works out because he wants a body that reflects his heart, or a cocky walk or way of speaking), but those outward qualities don’t define the Alpha.
I’m just going to say this right up front: you’re Alpha. Everything you described to me identifies you as an Alpha in my eyes.
Let me tackle your “feminine” personality aspects: A findom Master by the X name @ServeElRey is a twink Alpha with a scrawny body, a big dick, and he’s extremely dominant. He’s a gay Alpha, and he mounts bodybuilders twice his size. But when you hear him speak, he sounds like a very feminine, “clubby” gay boy. But if anyone judged him based on those outward factors, they’d be making a mistake; he owns many faggots all around the world and makes more per year than most doctors.
I feel like you might be holding back from truly expressing your dominance because of some prejudice you’ve built up within yourself based on how you think others view you. I implore you to stop doing that, Sir. You are not only denying yourself the enjoyment of your natural Alpha power, but you’re also denying the world of it!
So embrace your Alphahood, Sir. Accept your rightful place and start building the type of Kingdom you want for yourself … even if that Kingdom has sparkly unicorns and glitter everywhere! (that last part was just a joke, Sir!)
I hope this helped, Sir! Thank you!
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