Hey, I’ve been reading your website for a while but I’ve never sent you a message before. However, I just saw your last post about vers men and I want to clarify one thing in case people do not agree with you:

SAM IS RIGHT, VERS ARE FAGGOTS

I am 41, I’ve been married with a sub fag for 20 years. We met when he was 18 and I was 21. After a few weeks talking online (back in 2005), he insisted that he was vers and he would only get in a relationship with me if I bottomed for him too. I invited him out for dinner for our very first date, I ordered a salad for him and told him that he should eat something light because I was going to fuck him. He took it as a joke. After 2 glasses of red wine and a few hours later, he was on his knees in my apartment sucking my dick.

I spent 5 minutes fucking his throat and repeating out loud that there was just one top in my house. 20 years later, he is a very successful and happy man, whose little dick has not seen a hole since 2005.

I truly believe that vers men enjoy the feeling of fucking, it feels awesome. But it only takes one real man to make them understand what they are. So, if anyone doubts you, here is a 40-year-old Alpha with 20 years of experience fucking multiple faggots and owning my most precious fag as my husband.

Congrats for your great content, Sam. I hope you have a nice weekend.

Master, thank you very much for your perfectly-written explanation of what I consider to be the correct Hierarchical interpretation! Your thoughts and experience should be the final nail in the coffin for the versatile argument. You’ve destroyed it completely.

Your fag husband should be very grateful that you are the Alpha you are, and that you submitted him with your great power. Without that, your husband would’ve wasted more of his life lost in a limbo of confusion and uncertainty. How sad that would be! 

I can understand why some faggots want to cling to the “versatile” tag. As you said, fucking feels great, but it also has to do with a fear of losing complete control to an Alpha. Of losing autonomy. Of becoming a possession. 

The twist in this is the fact that being completely owned by an Alpha brings great FREEDOM. It allows the faggot to truly experience purpose and fulfillment every day. I liken the times I’ve been owned to being in the eye of a hurricane. The world all around is chaos, but I’m safe and at peace under the power of my Master. No doubt your faggot feels that way. I wish that feeling for every faggot.

Master, I would dearly love to profile you on the site. I think your twenty-plus year reign over Hierarchy has given you much wisdom and insight that I’d love to share if you’re willing. Please write to me at hi*****************@***il.com.

Thank you, Master! 

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Hello there!

I really enjoy all your content and i absolutely identify with a lot of what you say about Alpha/faggot dynamics.

I love serving men and have a couple of Doms/Alphas I serve and who enjoy playing with me. But I likewise have a couple of subs who I Dominate and I really enjoy controlling them and pushing them to be the best subs they can be.

One of my Alphas has enjoyed using me and my sub, like a tiered heirarchy. Which was great fun.

My question is this – where do switches fit in the “Hierarchy”?

Hi, thanks for writing to me.

I don’t know what the context is for these relationships. Are they findom relationships? Sexual, in-person relationships? I’m assuming they’re in-person sexual encounters based partly on what you described about a three-way Hierarchy. 

Personally, I don’t recognize versatile people as a permanent part of Hierarchy. Obviously, they’re constantly shifting anyway, which is problematic. But the other thing is this: what are the chances you’re going to be happily versatile for the rest of your life? I’d say it’s close to 0%. Eventually what’s going to happen is a powerful Alphas is going to take complete control of you and force you to accept the real truth: you’re submissive. 

I have this theory that versatile people are really subs and faggots who simply cannot accept their reality so they take on a dominant role as a coping mechanism. You may disagree, but I’ll bet not very strenuously. I think you can see where I’m coming from. 

Boy, I really hate these questions about versatility. I get myself in trouble every time, but I can’t seem to come to any other conclusion based on the evidence I’ve seen. Maybe you’ll be different … but I doubt it.  

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Hi Sam, I’m a fag from New York and I recently meet a alpha online, one thing that confused me was the he told me he was vers and the likes getting fucked. I’m curious Sam can a gay vers be an alpha in your experience and opinion.

Thanks for writing, brother. In my experience, a vers guy cannot be Alpha. It violates one of the tenets of Alphahood, that they are dominant Men. You cannot claim to be dominant if another Man is topping and penetrating you. Sorry. I know that’s going to offend switches out there, but I don’t care. I’m tired of pretending like this is not the truth just to placate their indecisiveness. 

Here’s another truth: practically every vers I’ve ever known eventually makes a decision one way or another eventually, and they almost never choose Alpha. In other words, they’re really bottoms/faggots who are simply trying to resist it. 

I find this behavior to be just as offensive as so-called “cash masters” in findom pretending to be Alpha so that faggots will pay them money, and then they weakly tribute that money to real Alphas in secret. It’s underhanded and pathetic. 

BE WHO YOU WERE BORN TO BE!! 

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