Hi Sam! I wanted to ask a question about race play when it comes to faggots and alphas, and how you feel about it. I’m an asian faggot and I just recently came in contact with a white alpha that likes to use raceplay to enforce the hierarchy between us, talking about how he’s superior because of it and uses it to emasculate me. He does it in a way that’s not truly racist but just in a way that ramifies the status difference between us. However I wanted to get your perspective on this and your opinion on raceplay, as well as if there’s any examples you’ve heard of? Thanks Sam, keep up the good work!
Unfortunately race play is part of Hierarchy. I say “unfortunately” despite the fact that I was forced to participate in race play by a couple of black Alphas who demanded that I call them “nigger” while they used me … and I found it hot.
I can’t stand racism, and on an intellectual level I’m disgusted to see racism and race play in the Hierarchical scene. Racism doesn’t accurately reflect the power dynamic going on in actual Hierarchy.
That said, race play can be quite hot. However, I also think it’s just another sad commentary on our fallen nature in general.
There are few emotions as tragic as regret. It’s a sadness that gnaws away your confidence and forces you to live in the past mentally rather than looking forward.
Faggots are particularly prone to regret because they are typically not decisive action takers, often living in a shadow-world of denial and second-guessing. So how important it is that faggots go through life with the correct outlook, so that a bad perspective doesn’t add to the likelihood of a life of regret.
Yesterday an eloquent and thoughtful fag brother named Manuel left an experience in my “Ask A Question” inbox that I thought served as a perfect warning example for all of the shallow size queens and young Instagram fags I see and hear every day.
I’m a 32 y old faggot, and I wanna share my biggest regret in life so maybe younger fags will not fall into the same trap. When I was 22 I met a guy who was 30, he was a gentleman, super smart, and confident. He had a very natural Alpha power. We were both single and we went out on a few dates together before I could actually serve him. We went to his apartment and he fucked me and never stopped calling me a good boy. He really wanted to keep me for him, but he didn’t have an enormous porn start cock and he wasn’t a six-pack Abercrombie model. He wasn’t ugly either, but he was a normal middle-class man you would meet on the subway going to work. He had an average dick and he was a little chubby. I was young and stupid and I fantasied with a porn star to own me, I thought real Alphas must always look like Thor and have a super huge dick. Long story short, I still follow this Alpha on Instagram, now he’s 40 and he’s living his best life with two super sexy twinks much younger than me. They claim to be a throuple but it is very obvious that he owns both of them. I woke up today and the first thing I saw was a picture of the three of them traveling together in the south of France. The two boys were buying clothes at a mall in France, while he was taking pictures of them and showing off how hot they are. I’m sure the boys are sucking and riding him every day and every night.
I learned my lesson and now I know that Alphas can be chubby, short, tall, skinny, and not having 9 inches. I hope younger fags learn the same! Porn is awesome, but it is not real life!
Even though I feel sorry for my brother Manuel, his experience is vital to consider. Faggots must have the correct attitude about Men, or else they’ll end up regretting it.
I must say it’s always baffled me when faggots have made comments about how a certain Man can’t be Alpha because his dick is average, or he’s a twink, or he’s ugly. I’ve always come back with this: YOU ARE A FAGGOT. Who in the world do you think you are judging and insulting any Man when you’re a faggot?? Can’t you see how a lack of humility and a failure to appreciate your proper place in Hierarchy can lead to disaster?
I understand that young skinny faggots often think they’re sexier than women and they shit rainbow-colored Skittles, but in the end you’re nothing more than a chattier Fleshlight to Men. Probably 99% of the time a young faggot is NOT going to make a Man fall in movie-love with it. Yeah, he’ll enjoy fucking your tight little body for a while until you become annoying. But in the end, you’re just a faggot … and there are plenty more out there just like you.
So brothers, young and old, please heed Manuel’s heartfelt warning. He speaks the truth. Men and Alphas are out there, and they all deserve some measure of respect and submission. We are faggots, and regardless of their body type or dick size, we are inferior to them.
Hi Sam–I’ve been exclusively owned by a straight alpha for several years now. Sexual service is rare, and I sometimes feel myself yearning to serve other men. At the same time though, I feel deep, true loyalty to my owner. I plan to be his boy for life.
I’ve discussed my feelings with him, and he doesn’t mind if I talk to other guys too. I still feel guilty about it though. It’s like these dueling feelings inside me.
My question is this: is monogamy unnatural for fags? Can I casually serve men while still remaining loyal to my original alpha?
So let me get this straight: you have been in a service relationship with a straight Alpha for YEARS and you didn’t bother to tell me this story??? REALLY??? Do you have a confidentiality agreement with him, or did you have a stroke while writing to me? I think that story would be of INCREDIBLE VALUE TO A PLANET FULL OF FAGGOTS, don’t you think? I’ll be expecting your story written in an email to this email address ASAP: hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com
In the meantime, your question:
Faggots are generally (and notoriously) not monogamous UNLESS they are caged and are fed/bred regularly by a dominant Master. Since you’re not getting that regularly, your thoughts tend to follow your hunger.
As far as servicing other Alphas and still being loyal to your Owner … clearly that is not loyalty, right? And bear in mind that your Owner told you he doesn’t mind you talking to other guys … does that mean just talking, or talking and servicing?
I’m not a typical faggot when it comes to this. I had a 3-4 year period after my first Alpha Roger dismissed me when I was a faggot whore, but then I started finding myself being owned and I found loyal monogamy to one Master at a time suited my view of my place better. I’m definitely even more inclined toward monogamy now that I’m locked in chastity.
It sounds like you have an incredible straight Owner (I’m guessing since I haven’t yet received your description of him and his Ownership of you), and I would hate for you to ruin or endanger things with him simply because you can’t control yourself. But again, that’s my current mindset speaking.
Hi i road the straight girls question and as a sub bottom its exactly the same, i dont know why but i just love seing a bi dom top fucking and dominate a male and a female in a threesome. Espacially if the two sub are focus on the top and if the girl show no interest in the sub male. Is it common ?
I don’t know how common it is, although I’ve certainly heard such stories. I have personal experience with that arrangement, though.
Hey Sam love your site I’ve been a fan for years and you d helped me accepted my faghood -I was was wondering if you could share the story about master Eddie with us it sounds incredibly hot and intriguing I know you haven’t gotten a message from him since but can you tell us fags how you spoke to him and got his number-I would love to have your skills and confidence to do that especially given he was married thank you
I’ll write up a brief synopsis for now, since I don’t know where it’s headed yet.
I had a store-based sales job (which I have since quit to level up my pay substantially) when Eddie, his wife, and their two small kids came in. Technically, they weren’t my customers, but Eddie was hot and intense looking and I started chatting them up.
But there was something between Eddie that immediately clicked. He mentioned that he had built his own house himself. I complimented him on this and began remarking that Men don’t do those kinds of things anymore (and he heartily agreed). At this point his wife too the kids to shop while we meandered together and talked. That led to me talking to him about the lack of real Men, which I then led into a discussion about Hierarchy. When I reasoned with him about Hierarchy, he was nodding and saying things like “yeah, I see what you mean”. I then told him that he’s obviously Alpha – and he immediately agreed. Then he began to tell me about being in the Marines (bingo!) and the examples of Alphahood he saw there. Then he asked me where I was in Hierarchy, and I told him I was a “slave male”. This made him laugh, and I jokingly said “But I don’t have an owner right now … I guess I’m a runaway slave”. That made him laugh again. As they were getting ready to leave, he asked for my phone number.
We’ve texted a few times since then, but with the holidays it’s just not easy to get time for even meeting up for a beer. We shall see! But it’s really just that easy, guys.
Hi, I would like to ask for some advice. I am a married guy close to 40. I am happy with my wife but I also want to be satisfied sexually. My kinks are humiliation, degradation, slavery, and submission. I started to read about that and I started to crave becoming a faggot. I never had gey tendency but I would love to try that. I am not sure if this is for me so I decided to contact a few masters online to become an online slave and at least try this way for now. But when I contact them I often hear that they need to see my face to start. I am not sure if this is a path for me, and I don’t feel comfortable showing my face at the beginning of this journey. I would like to begin anonymously. So always this ends our relationship. How should I try to fulfil my lust?
Thank you for this!
First of all, be grateful that you’re finding serious Masters, because there are a lot of game players even among Men who call themselves Masters. So at least it seems like you’ll have options if it gets that far.
Have you thought about being dominated online in the financial domination scene (or “findom”)? That’s a relatively easy way to taste the scene and see if that even appeals to you at all. Yes, it’ll cost you a few hundred dollars most likely, so if you can squirrel away that much and keep it concealed from your wife, then I’d try that.
Otherwise, you’ll just need to keep trying until you can find one that is willing to meet you in public somewhere without seeing a pic first. They’re out there, trust me.