“Are you okay if I grab your head?”

A more experienced Alpha would know he doesn’t need to ask permission before doing something with the faggot servicing him, but this young buck still has some of that youthful unsteadiness. He’s afraid he’s going to upset or insult the faggot by using it the way it was always intended to be used.

An Alpha shouldn’t need to say anything to a faggot, just direct it and use it. A faggot shouldn’t need to be degraded to serve properly, because nature programmed it to be used.