Hey faggot.
I have been together with my, now, husband for about 4 1/2 years now. From the get go he has always been a lot more passive and has deferred to me for decisions and initiating things like sex and the life decisions that have come our way.
For the first few years of our relationship I would have never considered our relationship to be anything like the Master/Fag dichotomy you seem to dedicate a lot of time and thought to. After all, he was and is more to me than just a faggot. I love him, he is who I want to raise children with, he’s who I want to spend my life with.
All that sappy shit aside, as important as it is, I still find myself making most of our decisions, no matter how much I try to coax opinions and preferences out of my lovely fag he will always give me the final say. I don’t dislike this at all, but I guess assessing the relationship from a traditional perspective, I want to ensure we are truly partners. That being said, our sex life is truly hierarchical, as is our lifestyle with me taking on the responsibilities and roles of a traditional husband.
Lately, in exploring a bit more sexually together he’s been more open about enjoying the set up we’ve had going on, loves being the one to get fucked, loves looking to me for guidance, support, and help with decisions and loves being called a faggot while having me inside any of his various holes.
I mostly found this funny, we are both- by definition – gay. But now I’ve started using “fag” as a pet name outside of the bedroom as well and it’s so fun watching him learn to respond to that call.
I suppose my question is whether or not, from your perspective, a longterm life partnership can be built from a master/faggot relationship. Because that is what it seems our relationship has evolved into over time. Most of my exposure to this dynamic comes from porn and once-and-done hookups (fag is also a cuck, who would’ve guessed.) And while I do love using my faggot husband, I also love HIM. I don’t want the service and sex to belittle the more intimate aspects of our marriage. Though obviously, not looking to skimp out on being services and using my boy as I please either.
Thoughts?
-Master Nathan
Master Nathan, thank you for writing to me! I think your concern is a common one, so it’s good to address it.
First of all, congratulations on the longterm relationship! Finding faggots is easy, but finding a GOOD faggot that you’d want to keep is harder than finding IQ points at a Trump rally. And honestly, your outlook has much to do with the success of this relationship given that you’re leading it and molding it. I would also add that it’s to your credit that you (as an Alpha) want to settle down with a primary faggot given the Alpha need to hunt and conquer. That can present a bunch of issues, but you seem to have found the right balance with your faggot.
To answer your question directly, YES it is entirely possible to maintain a Master/faggot dynamic in a longterm relationship. In fact, if you own a true faggot, keeping that dynamic is almost critical. Being a faggot is NOT a fetish that can be turned on/off like true fetishes the leather scene or furries or any of that shit. A faggot simply is a faggot every moment of every day of its life.
I often compare faggots to dogs, and I think the analogy is apt. A Man owns a dog. He loves the dog. He cares for it, plays with it, disciplines it, cherishes it. But no matter how deeply they love each other, the dog is never going to be equal to the Man. It works because both of them remain in and perform their natural roles.
Like a dog, you love your faggot. Your faggot might be your most cherished possession, the one thing you truly love above all others. Yet, it is still a faggot … and no matter how deeply you love each other that disparity cannot be erased or ignored.
To be honest, it’s only when a Master and a faggot embrace that dynamic and their respective purposes with it does the relationship really shine. I know this because I’ve diligently chronicled these kinds of relationships over the years, and in many cases I’ve been personally involved with them. My sites (FWA and now this one) have seen FIVE MARRIAGES of Alphas and faggots (three of the Alphas are straight, too!). In fact, I was privileged to pick out the wedding bands for one couple (straight Master G and his faggot Jamie)!
In all of these successful cases the Master/faggot dynamic actually strengthened their bond. What can I say? Hierarchy WORKS!
You shouldn’t worry about treating your faggot in a “degrading” way while in a loving, committed relationship. The positive reaction of your faggot to your casual use of the word “faggot” should tell you everything you need to know. Your faggot WANTS to serve you, Master … it NEEDS to serve you.
I really hope I’ve answered your question sufficiently, Master. I really want the best for you and your faggot, and I love the relationship you’re building together. If you have more questions or if you’d like to keep me updated, you can always write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com! Thank you, Master!
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