I am a gay man. I am also a faggot, in that I exist to serve dom men and to be used and abused by them. However I don’t get this serving straight guys. In my experience straight guys will do anything to avoid gay men – it is very bad for their image to be associated with us. All my experiences as a faggot has been with dom gay men (not straight). So isn’t this straight guy using faggots things just a fantasy?

No, brother, it’s not “just a fantasy.” Are you new around here? This entire site started off in 2015 on the premise that straight Man and Alphas owned and used faggots. I myself have been owned multiple times by straight Alphas. I’ve covered countless true stories of straight Alphas discovering the uses of faggots. 

Not a fantasy at all.

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Hi Sam.

So, I have been friends with this guy (lets call him Jake for simplicity) for 10 years now. Jake is very muscular kinda of guy, very manly, very Alpha like. And I like him a lot. But the problem is that I get mixed signals from him. I don’t know if he is straight or gay or bi. So the signals are; he sends me a lot of pictures of himself shirtless, showing of his muscles. I don’t know why would he send me those pictures if he wasn’t interested in me. Then when we are meeting, he always demands that I come to him, never other way around. He lives really far away, like two hours drive on highway. I never openly said to him that I’m gay, but when we are together he always is kinda homophobic, uses word faggot, which in my language sounds even worse than in English. So, I want to serve him but I don’t know what to do, and what he thinks of this? So please help me.

Thank you for the question, brother.

I’m not sure these signals are quite as mixed as you think. He’s clearly Alpha, and probably straight. However, here are a few other things we can say:

1. no straight or gay Alpha I’ve ever heard of sends shirtless pics to their male friends unless they’re interested in using them. 

2. His demands that you drive to him are a power play being used to see how well you obey his wishes. 

3. His use of the word “faggot” (or whatever word that is in your language) around you isn’t a threat … he’s testing you to see how you respond. My first Alpha did this to me multiple times before forcing me to become his cocksucker. 

Frankly, I think this Alpha is primed and ready for you to submit to him. 

How you choose to do this is up to you. One faggot recently had great success using my “Letter To An Alpha” to help the Alpha understand what you are and what you’re offering. You could do what that faggot did and just ask him to read it, and then see how he reacts. 

Or, you could kneel and confess to him that you’re a faggot. Alphas love seeing this because you’re confessing to them and also submitting to them.

Or, you could get in a low physical position near his feet and start rubbing them. Feet are a powerful way to get an Alpha’s attention. 

Or, you could start a conversation with him by asking him “do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” When he answers “yes” then start discussing the Hierarchy with him. You could use my pyramid graphic as a way for him to grasp the concept. Ask him where he thinks you are, and see what he says (I’ll bet he says “faggot”). Then perhaps you could admit it. 

Any of these methods will work, but it just depends on what you can handle. Just remember: you’ve been friends with him for 10 years, so he’s not going to hurt you. He will AT LEAST be curious, trust me!  

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Hi Sam,

After some recent events, I’ve been thinking about the hierarchy between alphas lately. You see some banter online, one alpha boasting that “I’m the alpha your alpha serves”, how they “poached” another alpha’s subs. Or that when an alpha recognizes another’s superiority, he will keep his head down in a silent acknowledgment of that superiority, even in front of his sub.

In my case, I enjoy competition, specially physical ones. I’m on a couple of websites where men, mostly bi and gay, can meet up for fights. Some like to play pretend, but I look for the real thing. Hard fought bareknuckle fights, grappling matches with punches (often with low blows allowed), and even the occasional no-rules brawl when none of the involved needs to be at the office the next week. It’s hard to describe the feeling of utterly dominating another alpha, specially when we agreed on stakes beforehand. These guys are fit, leaders in their homes and communities, they are the top of the pyramid and they know it. To bring them down and force them to accept my superiority over them, and subject them to the same things my subs go through under me is unlike anything else I have ever experienced. I’d like to do this with an audience one day, perhaps mine and the other guy’s faggots all watching us go at each other. Haven’t happened yet, but here’s hoping.

But back to my question. I don’t see a lot being written or discussed about this. The way alphas are constantly navigating through this power struggle with other alphas. Not just in the bedroom or in a fetish context, but in family dynamics, in the workplace, everywhere. At least for me, that desire to dominate, to take lead and protect those beneath me can’t be turned off. And that has often put me in conflict with similarly minded men.

Would like to hear your thoughts on this.

Sir, thank you for the interesting backstory as well as your question! 

As a faggot, I can’t even imagine being in a physical fight with a Man. I’ve never been in one (shocking given my mouth) and have less-then-zero interest in it. However, for actual Men fighting is almost like fucking in terms of the sheer adrenaline rush and the desire to force others into submission (as you so eloquently described). Even after the movie FIGHT CLUB came out and popularized the idea, I had a hard time believing it was for real. 

But it is! 

As far as Alpha hierarchical dynamics, I don’t think there is a single writer anywhere (in the community or out) who has written more extensively or with as much detail as I have. I’m not bragging, Sir. For example, my breakdown of Alpha Hierarchy is (I believe) a nearly perfect explanation of how Alphas operate in relation to each other. I’ve used this diagram to explain and predict Alpha behavior based on where each Alpha appears within it. 

My understanding of Alpha Hierarchy was a critical factor for my success during my incarceration. I could see how the Alphas around me moved, and I could pick out the God Alphas from the Apex Alphas and lower Alphas and know which one to approach and how. I even used my Alpha Hierarchy to help one Apex Alpha named Darion (known there as “D”) understand why he needed to use multiple females, and he was so thankful he ran around telling other Alphas about it! 

That success with my understanding of Alpha Hierarchy led to me really thinking deeply about faggot hierarchy, resulting in my publishing that hierarchy a few months ago. Of course, a faggot hierarchy is pretty pointless – a faggot is a faggot – but the breakdown arose from how I discovered and described Alpha Hierarchy.

Aside from strictly writing about Alpha Hierarchy (see the post pinned to the top of this site), I am constantly referring to Alpha Hierarchy in my everyday writing. For example, I have confidently identified Master Anthony (Owner of Fabien) as a God Alpha based on several key factors. So much of that material is incorporated throughout the site. 

Additionally, I have addressed Alpha Hierarchy multiple times on the podcast, most notably in Episode 258 regarding Alpha Ascension (click here).

Again, Sir, I think you’d be hard-pressed to find anyone who has written more extensively about Alpha Hierarchy than I have. Yes, a little faggot like me! 

If anyone has suggestions, I’d love to hear it. 

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Hello Sam,

Thank you for everything you do to serve alphas and faggots alike. You have opened my eyes to what it truly means to serve alphas around me.

My problem is that I don’t fit the stereotype of a faggot. If anything, I get mistaken as an alpha but I am far from it! You see, I’ve been blessed with good genes. I’m pretty good looking, have a naturally masculine physique, and an above average penis.

This has made it difficult to find what I’m looking for from guys. The gays are vain af and take one look at me and think I’ll dominate them. But the truth is, I am not dominant at all. I recognize the privilege I have as a hung, hot, straight passing guy. But I also know my place in the hierarchy and it ain’t at the top! I just want to submit, serve, and worship alphas. But it’s hard to find someone that isn’t intimidated by me or my size. I know those aren’t true alphas if they get intimidated by a beta.

I’ve approached a couple of straight alphas and they just want to bro out with me. One let me worship him with a blow job but wanted me to do it naked so he could demean me. But that didn’t go well, as you can imagine. Gay alphas suddenly turn vers when we hookup. I have no desire to top. I don’t want an alpha to compare dick size. I don’t deserve to have a straight “bro.”

How can I make myself more serviceable to alphas? How can I downplay myself to be a better fag? Please help!

Brother, thank you very much for writing! This is a something of a problem that I think other faggots deal with as well. 

I’m actually really glad you bring up this issue, because far too many people judge a male’s hierarchical place by the size of his dick. I’ve known some incredible faggots in my life, absolutely devoted to service and providing pleasure for Alphas, who had gigantic dicks.

Gigantic, USELESS dicks.

So I can appreciate your frustration, brother. You’re fighting against an ingrained, primal instinct, and your options to overcome it are limited, but not impossible. 

First and most importantly, I suggest you go into chastity. I realize it might be a trick finding a chastity cage to fit you initially, but I know there are custom cages available to purchase or have created. You must lock it up so that you essentially take it out of the equation. I guarantee you that straight Alphas who see your dick locked in a cage will get excited that a hung stud like you has accepted the truth. 

Also, chastity will be able to help shrink it down. 

In addition, you should really stop exposing it in a general sense. Go into chastity, and then wear jock straps to conceal it even more. Essentially, the idea behind this is to make your penis a non-issue and a non-starter. 

You didn’t mention body hair, but I think it might be good to get as smooth as possible. This will also act to feminize your appearance and keep Alphas from looking at you like a bro. 

Those are my immediate suggestions. Aside from that, I’ll just add that a Man can’t see your junk if you’re bent over on your knees. 

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