I have a dominant boyfriend but I don’t fully identify as a faggot. I suck his dick every night, he fucks and breeds me at least 3 times a week, but I don’t feel fully submissive in our daily life. Yesterday, we were together on the bus, sitting side by side, his legs were wide open and I didn’t have much space. So he told me to cross my legs “like a girl”. I did it because I didn’t have a lot of space anyway. When we arrived home, he told me that from now on he wants me to cross my legs whenever we are in public, then he said that “my legs should only open for him to fuck my hole.”

I can’t really talk about these details with my friends because everybody thinks I am a masculine gay and I really don’t want people to see me as a faggot. Do you think it is worth it to fight back, or should I just accept that he needs me to be a faggot before he finds another one?

Hi, thanks for writing to me! 

You might not see yourself as a faggot or even his faggot, but it’s clear he views you as his faggot and there is a dominance currently rising inside him. I’m curious about what might have triggered this Alpha Ascension (as I call it). Regardless, it’s clearly happening and he’s fully intent on claiming and subjugating his property (you).

You ask if it’s worth it to fight back. Answer: DON’T BOTHER. You will lose that fight, and probably end up worse off. 

My suggestion is to keep doing what you’re doing – namely, obeying him – and see where it leads. He’s clearly interested in redefining this relationship; see what he really wants. Perhaps the adjustment might lead to something more favorable. You never know! 

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Hi brother Sam,

This is an update one week after I sent my question about how to fully submit to my boyfriend.

Thank you so much for your invaluable advice, focusing on worshiping his feet has worked like a charm!

It’s been only a week after I started subtly massaging and complimenting his feet, and they have already become a central part of his dominance. He now often uses his legs and feet to keep my head in place when I’m giving him a blowjob, and he enjoys making me lick and smell his feet. For example, two days ago he came home all sweaty from the gym, and I immediately could sense that he wanted to fuck. I went to kiss him, but instead he took off one of his socks and put it inside my mouth. He then pushed me against the kitchen counter, pulled down my pants, and started to fuck me roughly while his sock was still in my mouth. After he finished he went to have a shower without saying a word, and left me with my pants down and his cum leaking down my thighs. I think that it was the first time that he did not wait next to me while I made myself come.

Fully submitting to him outside of sex is still a work in progress, but I made some improvements. When he is not home I try to do as much housework as much as I can, and I have noticed that he has started to neglect cleaning, cooking, and washing clothes, assuming that I will do it. Yesterday night, for instance, he started cleaning the kitchen, but when I joined him he immediately sat on the sofa to scroll on his phone and left me doing it alone. I could see that he was looking at pictures of hot twinks on instagram. After I finished, he rewarded fucking me like a toy, and I wondered if he was thinking about the guys on his phone while doing it.

I can’t thank you enough for helping me awaken the alpha inside him a little more, and please let me know if you think there are other things that I could do. Tomorrow he will go on a work trip for two weeks, and I am worried him being away will disrupt the progress I was making.

This is a follow-up for THIS QUESTION. 

One of my favorite things in the world about this “job” I have is giving advice, having the person follow my suggestions, and then hearing that it worked exactly as planned! Brother, you made me so happy with this update! Thank you! 

Some pre-Alphas just need a little coaxing until they feel they feel they have essentially been “given permission” to act out the desires they’ve been suppressing. Far too many pre-Alphas have been lost to being polite and thoughtful and WOKE. Alphas sometimes act (and need to act) selfishly and roughly. Non-PC. This is just how they’re made. 

I knew if your boyfriend had any Alpha in him, the feet trick would trigger it. And sure enough, it did! He responded beautifully to it! You did an excellent job, brother!

As far as your concerns, I wouldn’t worry at all. His engine is now running, and he’s experienced what it felt like to TAKE YOU the way an Alpha takes and uses a faggot. He sees you now as an object of lust, a toy that he owns so he can unload his power and rage. He’s going to return from that trip and practically rape you! 

Nice work, brother!  

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