Not so a question but more of a general confusion and I don’t know what to do about it and I can’t talk to anyone about it so here I am. I am confused. I’m 25m and a virgin. I’m bi but closeted as I live in an area that isn’t really friendly with that. I’m also religious which is why I haven’t had sex or pursued any sexual desires. I don’t know what I am or how to even approach anything because it’s not really possible to do anything physical. I thought I was pretty vanilla but I’ve been diving deep into all kink related stuff recently especially Alpha/fag Dom/sub dynamics. I initially tried out subbing online and I think it was nice but it never really felt right. But I’ve read all kinds of posts about fags and alphas, their interactions, how fully fags have submitted and it turns me on so much! I continuously feel myself getting turned on by the submission. I initially thought it was me wanting to be submissive but every day I feel myself gravitating towards dominating. I tried it online too and hell it feels amazing it’s such a rush. But it didn’t fit either. Maybe the barrier of being online is making everything weird. I’m getting more frustrated and annoyed by the day that I can’t do anything about it.

There really isn’t a question. Just more of an outlet to speak my mind.

Thank you for writing to me! 

I can appreciate your exhaustion and frustration. It can be bewildering when you’re unsure of your place even though you feel like you should know it. The sensation is akin to stumbling around a funhouse in the dark – it’s not so fun then! 

Let me suggest something based on what you wrote here. I believe you might be suffering from what I call “Alpha Latency”. You see, some Men who are naturally-born Alphas suffer childhood trauma or experience influences that make them deny or dismiss their natural Alpha urges. This prevents these proto-Alphas from developing completely and embracing their true purpose. They wander through life in a kind of gray fog, emotionally disengaged from the world around them because they aren’t realizing and manifesting the power within themselves. 

The fact that you find yourself turned on by faggot submission and a curiosity about dominating them makes me think you have an inborn tendency you’re ignoring, Sir. I wonder what might happen if you just had a faggot come over and worship your feet, Sir. I think you might discover something about yourself that you’re either denying or suppressing. 

Either way, that is my suggestion, Sir. 

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Hi Sam. Last time I told you the story of my relationship with Trevor, my childhood bully. As you advised, I said no to him. I broke off all relations with him. I moved to another country. Not because of him. I was simply offered a job in Poland. There I rented a room in the house of a nice elderly couple. Their nephew Yannick lives with them. He looks like he’s 17-19 years old. Tall, blond, with blue eyes. Yannick sometimes works outside without a shirt. His eight-pack abs, strong muscular arms and big, gorgeous ass have been turning me on a lot lately. One day, something happened that turned my whole brain upside down. I went to the bathroom to do my business. Yannick was sitting on the toilet with his pants down. His dick was resting on his thigh. Long. With mesmerizingly large balls. I stared at the penis. My inner voice said that this was indecent. But I couldn’t bring myself to leave. I stared in rapture. Yannick didn’t say anything, but every now and then he’d look up to look at me. But he didn’t do anything. At that moment, I really wanted to kiss the head of his cock. Run my tongue along the shaft and feel the skin and veins. But after a while, I ran away. We hadn’t seen each other since, and he was away at a swimming meet in college. What should I do, Sam?

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

First of all, congratulations on getting away from Trevor! What an awful person! I’m glad to hear about your new life in Poland!

I have little doubt that you’ll be able to serve Yannick. His relaxed, confident response to you staring at his giant cock and balls tells me he’s been admired and worshiped before. This works in your favor.

I’m also going to suggest to you that he probably already knows you’re a faggot. First of all, Alphas of his caliber have exceptional fag radar and can usually spot them on instinct alone. And secondly, the very awkward bathroom encounter feels like something else was supposed to happen. I’m wondering if he was too nervous to make a move, or if he was expecting you to drop to your knees right there (this is what I think).

So what should you try when you see him again?

First of all, start calling him “Sir” (or the equivalent in your language). Be very complimentary of his body, his scent, etc. Young Alphas are just learning the extent of their sexual powers and how their body/presence influences others, so this will be effective. You should try to get down low, near his feet, whenever possible. If there is any possibility to offer him a foot massage, do it. If there is anything you can do for him/buy for him, do it.

Now, if you want to take a more aggressive step, ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. If he doesn’t understand, show him the post “Hierarchy: A Primer” that opens this site (use the tools on this site! That’s why it’s here!). A conversation about Hierarchy and his place in it will lead in many interesting directions, but it will for sure tell him this: you, an inferior, thinks he’s superior. And that’s really all you need.

Keep me posted on how this progresses!

Hi Sam, in your post about Moby and Johnny, you said “Nature made the call at birth when it gave you a substandard dick and submissive personality.” and that sounds like a departure from your previous position that penis size doesn’t or shouldn’t matter in the hierarchy.

Johnny said he measured his penis at just over 5 inches, and you called it “substandard” and seemed to suggest this is one reason, among others, that he belongs in chastity. Are you now willing to state that chastity and submission are (at least likely) the destiny of males with a dick roughly that size or smaller?

Thank you for the question! 

Good catch! I’m glad some readers are paying attention! 

I used the word “substandard” intentionally to reinforce that the faggot needed to stop focusing on its own insignificant dick and lock it up so it can serve more fully. A faggot dick of any size is technically substandard because it is useless. It serves no purpose. 

Dicks that small aren’t entirely useless, nor are they destined to be locked in chastity. And a male can have a five inch dick and not be a faggot. Beta males often have dicks that size. 

But overall I don’t believe dick size correlates with a Man’s place within Hierarchy. 

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The following post is part of a thread involving a faggot named Oliver whose Alpha boyfriend refused to take a more dominant role and use him as a faggot. But after some coaching from me, he has seen some positive results. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

You may remember two “Questions From Readers” posts from March (HERE and HERE) involving a faggot named Oliver who was in a longterm relationship with an Alpha who didn’t seem to really embrace Oliver’s faggot nature. These can be tricky to overcome sometimes, because occasionally an Alpha finds it offensive to think of his partner as a faggot.

But I didn’t think Oliver’s unnamed Alpha boyfriend was such an Alpha. He just needed the right stimulus.

Now Oliver has sent me a third and most dramatic update, so I’m elevating his series of questions to a site-wide thread in order to track this developing story in a cleaner way.

Oliver wrote:

Hi brother Sam,

I thought that you would like to know how my process of submitting to my boyfriend is going. After all, it was thanks to your advice that I managed to awaken the Alpha that he had in him as I told you last month: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/questions-from-readers-267/

In my last message, I mentioned that I thought that his work trip would slow down the journey to his alphahood, but I couldn’t have been more wrong! If anything, the long distance made him extremely controlling.

When I messaged him during his trip he often left me on read or just replied “I’m busy”, but when he texted he expected me to answer immediately and send him nudes on command. His messages were things like: “legs up, now”, or “show me your bussy”. He also asked me not to masturbate or finger myself while he was away, as he wanted me to prove that I cared about him and told me that he would know if I had done it: “when I come back I will put my finger up your ass and it better be tight like a virgin”. He had never talked like that but I have to admit that it made me leak!

And sure enough, this is what he did as soon as he came back for the trip. I made sure to have dinner ready for him, but he did not pay much attention to the meal. As he told me he would do, he threw me to the sofa, pulled down my pants and pushed his fingers inside my hole. He soon realized that I had followed his orders, as my hole was very tight and my balls were full. I was expecting a sweet kiss or some sort of appreciation, but instead it felt like a beast awakened inside of him. He pushed his dick inside me without any lube or preparation and started to fuck me while I screamed. He did not stop sailing me until he finished inside of me, and whispered in my ear: “this is what you were asking for”.

After this, he acted like nothing happened, we chatted normally during dinner and we cuddled in bed before falling asleep. It wasn’t until the next morning that I realized that I had not come the night before. While normally I would masturbate and make myself finish after sex while he was scrolling on his phone or asleep, that night I did not feel the need to. Even though I did not feel the pleasure from the release, it somehow made me feel more complete and accomplished.

I feel very happy with the new dynamic that we achieved: he expects me to get most of the housework done while he plays videogames, and he then rewards me with hard sex. Although we haven’t talked about it, he also looks pleased that I have not been masturbating after sex, as he often grabs my balls and laughs at how big they have become!

Oliver x

Wow, that IS a huge shift in attitude! It’s shocking what a few adjustments can do to ignite an Alpha’s need for power and control!

But Oliver has been executing my advice perfectly, and I’m so glad to see that it’s bearing fruit!

But, more importantly, this shift in dynamics is helping Oliver appreciate what it really means be to be a devoted faggot. That last bit at the end about how Oliver didn’t masturbate after being roughly used by his Master/boyfriend is significant. This is the effect of perpetual subspace. It’s how I stopped masturbating eight years ago. Once you’re in perpetual subspace, masturbation becomes an offensive afterthought.

So I congratulate my brother Oliver on a job well done! GOOD BOY!

For the last ten years I’ve been standing defiantly on a hill with a big flag that says “FAGGOT” on it. And I’ve been cancelled harder than The Brady Bunch Variety Hour for that stance.

I’m not ever going to renounce the word “FAGGOT” or its power. It’s what I’ve identified as for the last THIRTY YEARS OF MY LIFE! Embracing the word as my truth was one of the most liberating moments of my adult life, and I’m not going to toss that aside because Tumblr shut me down for the 11th time (just last month) or Twitter/X suspends me for the 25th time (two weeks ago, shutting down my 90K @HierarchyPCast account).

Nothing will stop THE TRUTH.

The Truth is like water. It overcomes every barrier, either by slipping through the tiniest cracks or literally pushing over the tallest walls. Like water, Truth refreshes completely and naturally. And like a body of water, Truth provides meditative serenity.

I’ve worked with Master Aodhan (@MasterA_2022) on several X Spaces to help faggots take their first steps to publicly admitting that they are faggots. These were revolutionary spaces that changed the lives of the faggots who participated. During one session 88 faggots admitted their truth for the first time. Some openly wept. It was inspirational.

I love hearing from faggots who, like me, find their entire reality transformed by accepting this truth. Here is another example of this, from a faggot who came to accept himself after stumbling onto my content and then the podcast.

I recently came across your podcast on Spotify. I had been looking for content about the kink/gay lifestyle, and after a few misfires, I found Fags Worship Alphas.

Growing up in a small town in Canada, the term “fag” or “faggot” carried so much weight, turmoil, and fear. I was terrified of being found out, bullied for being gay. Living in a town full of churches—and an even larger number of rednecks—I was often targeted for not fitting in.

So hearing you calmly and confidently refer to yourself and others like you as fags and faggots… I have to admit, the first few times were jarring, to say the least. But as I learned about the basic outlines of hierarchy, I realized: we all have a space, we all have a role to fill, and it’s almost as if these roles were pre-chosen for us. Needless to say, it wasn’t long before I was singing along to the intro of the podcast and hearing the word without feeling fear.

The more I listened, the more I came to the realization that my true role in life is that of a faggot. I haven’t fully unpacked what this means yet, but I know, deep down, that I am one.

I’ve had three long-term relationships in my life, and I’ve always been drawn to men I felt were Alphas—knowing I enjoyed serving them. The last two didn’t turn out great. The first was what you would call a Destroyer Alpha—low-level and greedy. The second was a sheep in wolf’s clothing, just putting on an act. But the man I currently find myself with oozes sex, pride, courage, and strength. He is someone I would truly serve for life.

Relationship dynamics aside, even in my daily life I’ve always chosen to provide service to others—in work, in friendships, in everything. I’ve developed the ability to pick up on cues, to know who needs service and how I can please them.

Looking back, I think every sexual encounter I’ve had has involved me serving Alphas.

Now, just a few days in (about 30 episodes), I find myself understanding hierarchy as the truth we all live. The other day I looked at myself in the mirror, smiling, and said out loud, “James, you are a faggot. I AM A FAGGOT.”

Even as I write this, I know I want to live the life of the faggots you speak of. I want to serve my Alpha. I want to be put in chastity. I want to help my Alpha ascend to higher levels of Alpha-hood. I want to feel what it’s like to truly be cunted…

I want to embrace my truth.

It’s so invigorating to hear these stories. These experiences keep me on that hill, proudly and defiantly waving my FAGGOT flag.

You can cancel me momentarily, but the Truth lives forever!

The following post is part of a thread following the continuing service of a faggot named James who has been serving a young straight Alpha for TEN YEARS. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I was pretty surprised when I heard the story of my brother James, a faggot cocksucker who has been serving a straight Alpha consistently for ten years.

Yes, TEN!

It was clear from James’s first post that his straight Alpha, like most straight Alphas who use faggots, is pretty insatiable sexually. This is most likely why straight Alphas turn to faggots for sex. They come to find out that faggots are also insatiable and talented at service/worship, and the sex itself satisfies their kinky taboo side.

Speaking of “kinky taboo side”, James wrote to me to tell me about plans his straight Master has been planning.

As you know, this straight Alpha has been using me for just about 10 years now…  The great majority of the time, he uses my mouth and throat for his pleasure… As I explained before, when it’s been a while since the last time or he’s just extra horny, he fucks my other hole as well…  But he’s always been into scenarios… He’s aways liked to send me videos in his text messages from time to time saying:”This is what I want I want from my faggot next time…Study the bitch who’s on her knees and learn her technique.”…  He’s sent me a load of videos through the years showing women getting used roughly… He has me watch them and imagine myself in the main bitch’s place…  

As far as those scenarios I mentioned in my article;  Some time ago he sent me a catalog ad picturing a knitted full pink face mask with the words “Yes DADDY” on the forehead… I ordered it from Amazon as he told me to and I have it at home… His plan is to make a video and title it “My faggot” as soon as he decides where he wants to do it and has ample time to put together a proper short porn video as he said may involve retakes to get it right…  

As for using others along with me for cock worship:… Two or three times he’s mentioned a fem boi faggot he used a couple of times that he’d like to use along with me to switch off sucking his cock and balls… The scene would end with him nutting in my throat while the fem boi  squeezes his balls…

The girl I mentioned is his latest idea… He supposedly met a woman about 40 or so recently who’s a total cock slut for younger guys… He said he got with her twice so far and she’s totally into cock worship… He says he’s pretty damn sure she’ll have no problem teaming up with me to work for his nut and commence with me guiding his cock into her for a fucking finally … 

I know he’s serious about all of these scenarios but they do require a certain amount or time and planning to reach fruition … I think that he’ll most likely do the “My faggot” video first because it’s the oldest idea of the three, it only requires me and I now have the mask he wanted me to wear… I have no idea which or the other two scenarios he might want to do first… Whichever or those two people he’s able to coordinate first would be the deciding factor as to if and/or when it might take place… He DOES have a penchant for acting out sex scenes he’s seen in videos or just in his mind… I mentioned before that he’s had me act out quite a few through the years… Whatever transpires, he assured me that I’ll always be his #1 faggot and I’ll be the bitch who ends up with his load every time.

It’s extraordinary, isn’t it? Straight Alphas just want obedience and worship and service, and when they discover that a faggot can give them those things to a superlative degree, they’re willing to ignore what they’re “supposed to do” in favor of what they MUST do. Society wants these greatest Men to stay in their lane as stereotypical straight Alphas and reinforce a generic, man-made paradigm.

But Hierarchy is the most basic and natural paradigm in all of human history. It supersedes everything else we imagine. And it doesn’t bend to the expectations of transitory generations.

The straight Alpha James serves ignores what he is supposed to do because the desires inside him crave something more, some deeper type of satisfaction. It’s a need, not just for physical pleasure, but also for a power that most other Men cannot comprehend.

And his faggot gives him the opportunity to have it!