Hi Sam, I’m 19 and I’ve always identified as an alpha. I used my first fag at 15, I’m an athlete with a body fags go crazy for, and I’m hung. I’ve had a rotation of cocksucking faggots eager to serve me sexually and even domestically, like taking my laundry or doing my homework. However, recently, I’ve gained a roommate. He’s twinky looking, Asian. If you put me and him side by side, nobody would claim he’s the alpha. I’ve tried to keep my alpha tendencies lowkey with him around, just out of respect. I usually used my fags out of the room. He clocked on somehow and keeps making allusions to it, with this aura around him that’s almost magnetic. People around him gravitate to him as well, like he has this natural charisma. He likes to give suggestions and I find myself following them as if they were orders, thinking about it all the time. Recently, he even chided me for leaving my clothes around and I found myself ashamed. I picked them up immediately and he slapped my ass. Is this how faggots feel? Am I becoming a faggot?

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me!

I’m glad to hear that you recognized your Alphahood so early in your development, Sir! If you actually think about it, I’m sure you can even recall signs of your Alphahood earlier than age 15. Alphas are BORN ALPHA, and that Alphahood never leaves them even when life circumstances conspire to blunt it or wear it down.

I say this to you Sir because you’re suddenly feeling doubt about your own standing as an Alpha around this Asian Alpha. You have nothing to worry about, Sir. You are simply experiencing the effects of Alpha Hierarchy. My isolation and categorization of Alpha Hierarchy is one of the most profound revelations I’ve had in the 11 years writing on this site because it finally cleared up certain anomalies I encountered like yours, Sir.

The post pinned to the top of this website (“Hierarchy: A Primer“) clearly outlines the various layers within hierarchy, and you can see there are four categories dedicated solely to Alphahood. If you read those descriptions, you’ll quickly see that lower-level Alphas submit to Alphas of a higher level, This is all quite natural and happens subconsciously, which is why you felt so uncomfortable.

So to answer your question, Sir: No, you are not becoming a faggot. You are merely responding to a more powerful Alpha’s presence.

These positions within Alpha hierarchy are sometimes in flux, as some Alphas ascend in power based on life circumstances and how they respond. Sometimes it happens when Alphas test each other’s dominance. Think of you and this Asian Alpha as two powerful male rams butting heads for bragging rights. You might tussle with this Asian Alpha to get the better of him … or him of you. But this is what Alphas do every day, and it makes them stronger and helps to constantly refine their Alphahood.

The most difficult part of this you’ve already done: you recognized your Alphahood and recognized Alpha Hierarchy. The rest is a very natural process of adjustment and reaction. Think of it this way: you’re manspreading on a bus, and suddenly a big guy squeezes in next to you. Your manspreading might need to be adjusted to accommodate the new person’s girth.

But I’m really proud of you for taking your Alphahood seriously, Sir! As a leader, you need to know your power is secure. I’m telling you it very much is!

Thank you, Sir!

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