Questions From Readers

I was reading the update on Tyler and the pull that Alpha Adam still has over him. In some ways it is similar to my situation since my Master is also a sadist who enjoys inflicting pain. Are these types of Alphas good for faggots or should they be avoided? When does it become abuse? I think I am afraid that I am already too sucked in. Even if I do get out of a potentially abusive relationship I think it is likely I will just find / attract other destroyer alphas so I would be right back in the same of even worse situation. The whole thing feels unhealthy.

Thank you for writing! 

I personally don’t think sadistic Alphas are healthy for faggots. First of all, I think there is something wrong with sadistic Alphas. Why do they need to inflict pain and psychological distress in order to get off? The answers point to something very disturbing and dark, and I just don’t think a vulnerable faggot can develop properly in such an unstable environment. 

But just as I think sadistic Alphas are damaged, I also think faggots who crave them indicate that they’re damaged, too. We should want to improve ourselves, rise above dangerous fetishes, and learn to embrace the real beauty of the Alpha/faggot dynamic. 

But maybe I’m a dreamer.

I would just suggest that, if you think it feels unhealthy, it probably is! 

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