An Abusive Cashmaster’s Conscience Speaks
I already have something of an adversarial relationship with findom. I don’t like the laziness it engenders in faggots, and I don’t like the personal destruction of faggot lives from addiction to the scene.
Even more bothersome are the many findom accounts whose sole purpose seems to be a glorification of such faggot destruction. These cashmasters advertise themselves as sadistic manipulators who revel in the tears and zeroed bank accounts of desperate, poppered-up, findom-addicted faggots. I never understood how anyone could live life that way, regardless of how much money was involved.
Occasionally these sadistic cashmasters will finally snap under the weight of their own empty, shallow life course.
One of the more prominent cashmasters in that dark end of findom was @wealthdepleter, a gay cashmaster who goes by the name “Mr. J” who rejoiced over the destruction of faggot bank accounts and the desperation it caused them. I never liked his style, no did I care for his poor attitude when I DM’d him about issues faggots brought to my attention. He just seemed like a drag show version of some of the straight masters in the scene, a performance rather than something genuine.
But today, authenticity made a comeback! Cashmaster @wealthdepleter posted the following admission on his X account:
I’ll be honest
None of this sits right with my heart anymore.
I discovered findom 9 years ago, a time when I was heartbroken, closeted and desperate for money.
Being 19, having men throw hundreds, thousands of dollars at you, is exciting. What’s underneath it, isn’t. It’s two confused hearts that actually just want connection.
Whether it’s role play or not, whether it’s having a negative impact on a man’s life or not — sexualizing financial loss is a straight shot to poverty. Being behind a screen, it’s easy for my ego to brush it all off as if it’s not actually that bad or serious, or “who cares it’s consensual and they feel good doing it”.
All bullshit at the end of the day. I’m keeping men below their potential. And for me to be enabling that while they’re facing some sort of real life repercussion, be it severe or not, is a complete lack of morality.
I know folk will speculate on my sudden change of heart. It’s the least bit sudden. It’s been a dormant signal from my body I smothered for years for profit. I betrayed myself for years. It’s no coincidence I became an alcoholic shortly after my rise to “success”.
How could a heart that’s being directed to manipulate and lie to men about their self worth see connection?
It’s time to turn this page. Peace.
Such a magnificent, open-hearted statement of maturity and deep meditation! I loved reading those words from him, because between the lines any honest person can see the emptiness at the heart of findom. There is an ugly kind of hate one must have to be able to crush and demoralize another person simply to take their money from them. Can you hear that in his words?
I have come to understand and accept the hierarchical mechanisms at play in findom, but I have never been onboard with the methods and the degradation involved in it. Findom is ugly and needlessly destructive. It takes already-damaged people and punishes them until they’re left beyond hope. I can almost hear the cruel giggling of some of findom’s most notorious cashmasters, but that’s exactly the problem.
Thanks to findom, countless straight Alphas are being introduced to hierarchy. The smart ones eventually learn that findom is only one part of a larger and more meaningful aspect to their Alphahood.
Sadly, there are very few smart ones. The rest of them I wouldn’t pay a squirt of piss for.
I really hope the best for Mr. J. This bold first step can lead to a new outlook and exciting new directions to explore. Growth is always scary, but necessary.
But also, I hope his action will lead to others reforming how they conduct themselves, both cashmasters and faggots. There are things to learn about hierarchy through findom, but it should always be trending toward something positive, and I mean that on something more important than a bank balance.
