The following post is part of a thread chronicling the development of a 20-year-old French Alpha named Flynn as he navigates his college years. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!

For most Alphas, college is a critical time of exploration and experimentation. They have all of this developing power and undeniable dominant urges, but they’re often unsure about what they can do with it. Speaking as a 30-year faggot, I already know they can literally do anything they want – I’ve SEEN it – but they’re too young to know this. It’s even worse when they don’t have any early Alpha mentors to guide that development.

Alpha Flynn is a 20-year-old college Alpha in France. He wrote to me a few weeks ago about Alpha latency (READ HERE). Now he returns with a few other questions about his current situation. I’ll follow with some suggestions.

Hello fag Sam, I’m Flynn. I don’t know if you remember me but we have talked about Alpha latency earlier this year I think. For context, I’m a 20 yo gay French Alpha and I’m a student.

I’m kind of struggling with my Alphahood nowadays because I really don’t find the time to use fags and connect with other Alphas. I’ll tell you the reasons :

1. I live in a house with many roommates (too many if you think about it but I won’t tell you how much). Because I don’t want to involve them in my sex (and they don’t want to either), I can accept a fag in my house even though it would be very useful.
2. I don’t have a car nor a driver’s license which means I have to use public transport to use fags and it’s very time consuming
3. I am not a fan of long distance relationships because I don’t want to commit with someone I cannot meet easily.
4. I am kind of afraid of apps like The Blowers because I don’t have any experience and people
5. I don’t have Alpha friends that I know of (I think I would know if some of them were)

I really hope you can find ways for me to explore my Alphahood. I am still open to long distance relationships or going to bars but I am not a fan of that solution. Do you have any advice on how I can meet fags (at least virtually, I already have an account on Recon) or meet other Alphas ?

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Alpha Flynn

I really love Alpha Flynn’s honesty. It’s okay to be Alpha be also be vulnerable and unsure, especially when an Alpha is young.

My advice is pretty simple. It goes like this:

1. Alpha Flynn should join the Hierarchy University Discord ASAP. The link is RIGHT HERE. There is a large community of Alphas and faggots in there, and plenty of ways to learn and experiment. It’s FREE and EASY TO USE and it’s 100% DISCREET.
2. I think Alpha Flynn should be using both TheBlowers.com and Grindr to find ON CAMPUS FAGGOTS. There are plenty of faggots on every campus around the world, and they’re all desperate to serve. If they can’t be found through casual meetings while on campus, then apps will help isolate them.
3. Avoid long-distance service relationships. Unless an Alpha is going to be a cashmaster, there is almost no value to these kind of relationships.
4. There are also plenty of Alphas on campus, and very likely many of these Alphas are using faggots in some way. It is, after all, FRANCE. If American college Alphas are using faggots, then French college Alphas are DEFINITELY using them. Once Alpha Flynn starts using campus faggots, he might be able to be introduced to other Alphas like himself.

Those are my personal suggestions. I want nothing more than Alpha Flynn’s complete fulfillment. I believe he will have great success if he follows my suggestions.

Thank you, Alpha Flynn, for being such a great example!

Hello fag Sam, it’s me Flynn from Ask a Question. Just know that I don’t really have the time to explore my Alphaness (if this word exists).

What you said about ‘Alpha Latency’ really clicked with me because I do feel like a need of domination and control that other Alphas have. I struggle with social anxiety and I grew up with poor self confidence. Although, the friends I’ve made along the way made me more confident. 

I’m gay and I’ve always had female friends and I never got to really connect with Men (especially Straight Alphas). I think this why I thought I should serve Men, because I didn’t connect with them. Right now, I’m 19 and still have female friends but I’m craving to know more guys that could guide me into domination and control. I’m talking to some subs and fags and I feel like I’m making the right choices. 

Here are my questions : Do you know how can I socialize with more masculine Men (I don’t go to the gym and I’m thinking of starting American football but I don’t have the time because of school) ? How do you think I should engage with fags when I’m talking and meeting them (I still haven’t met one yet) ? What attitude should I have in society (I have social anxiety, I don’t have the posture of Apex Alphas and I’m not a loud person) ? Lastly, what kind of clothing do you think I should wear to let fags know that I’m an Alpha (since I’m not muscular) ?

I’m looking forward in your answers (take the time you need to answer my questions), 

Just know that I really appreciate your work and want you to be the best fat you could be in order to be a model for new fags,

Have a good evening and good week,

Flynn

Sir, thank you for writing!

Alpha latency is one of those subjects that not many people understand. I only understand it because I decided to chronicle and deeply interview so many Alphas, and inadvertently helped some Alphas overcome the syndrome. 

Gay Alphas dealing with latency are particularly difficult because there are so many other pressures affecting it. By that I mean pressures of gay masculinity, and the societal-influenced inferiority complex many gays have. Sometimes it’s hard to know where the truth lies in-between the shadows that form the lives of gays and gay Alphas.

You have an added layer of social anxiety to cut through, making a diagnosis much harder to make. But keep in mind that social anxiety doesn’t rule out Alphahood for you. Sigmas are known as “lone wolf Alphas” and are largely quiet and reserved socially. 

I think you’re doing the right thing by examining this about yourself and reaching out to explore with faggots. 

To answer your specific questions:

1. If you’re looking to socialize with more masculine Men, school should provide plenty of opportunities. High school and college are hotbeds of Alpha development. Not sure what the fraternity situation is like at your school, but that would be a great place. I would just try to move in different circles and try to engage with these Alphas.
2. Faggots aren’t really that hard to find, Sir. You can use apps, or you can probably see them on campus. Engaging with them would involve you taking the lead with any faggot you talk to. You need to keep in mind that faggots exist to please Alphas like you. They WANT to be used by you. 
3. In society, you may not feel this way but society needs Alphas of all varieties taking the lead. It’s YOUR world, Sir. Even if you move silently and work locally, you can affect change and make things into whatever you choose.
4. There’s not really any clothing that denotes “Alpha”. Your Alphahood comes from your confidence and the way you interact with others – solid eye contact, unflinching conversation. 

I’m not sure any of that will help you, but I hope it gives you food for thought. Thank you so much for writing, Sir!

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