I need your help, as all my friend could not understand the situation I’m in.

I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for few years, for at least the last 3 years i became more and more a sub for him, even his slave, his toy…

We succeeded to deal with both relationships quit well (dom and boyfriend) for a while, but now, unfortunately we cannot be boyfriend anymore (it’s more about our future than about feelings). I was the one breaking up with him. But we have continued to see each other few times since because we couldn’t resist the envy of fucking together again…

And I just love being his sub, it feels so natural and i can’t resist being on my knees worshipping him.

Here is my question :

Should I continue serving him, even though it might keep us/me in the past, now that we don’t have a love relationship anymore? We are leaving quit far away so we just see each other during some short period, few weeks now and there…and he doesn’t want for me to serve him if I see other guys. Also he would like me to remain caged…

I am 21, should i give up on this quit dysfunctional relationship and try to find an other alpha i can serve for life as I am still young ? Or should I remain at his service because my true purpose is to serve Alpha, no matter what sacrifice it means for me?

Also, he is very dominant but also very loving (mostly after sex) and likes to hug kiss etc… I’m worried there are still love feelings in this relationship, which would not be healthy both for him and my self but in the mean time when i say i’m serving him, i should not choose how… If he wants to use me by hugging and kissing, i feel like i should do it like I do for every other wants he has. I’m not sure my text is very clear but I hope you will get the point… And sorry for my mistakes, I’m not native English 

Thanks for the details. I’m sorry things are falling apart between you and your Master. 

It seems to me you’ve pretty much already answered your own question. Like you said, it’s not healthy to continue a pretense of a relationship, romantic or service relationship – given that your lives are naturally moving apart. This is part of the struggle of youthful relationships like this one. Life gets in the way often even in the best circumstances, and remaining on the same track is always a challenge. 

In my opinion, it’s silly that you would be bound by this Master’s rules if most of the relationship is dead. I mean, are you supposed to remain sexless and single the rest of your life, devoted to a Master who is never around? When does this contract end?

You guys need to move on. If you want to hook up once in a while, that’s fine, but this idea that you are bound to him in a service relationship (and even wearing his cage!!) is just dumb. He will find other faggots, and you will find another Master. Hopefully you both will find situations that work better for whatever life you each build. 

Just not together. It happens. Move on. 

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This time of year always brings out the romantic side of me. Yes, I actually have a romantic side – can you believe it?? I know most of you think I’m some depraved, cock-sucking cum dump, but — oh, okay, I am … but I also have a heart.

I ran across some sweet, romantic vids and pics and they touched my heart, so I thought I’d share them. At the very least I can get them off my phone to make room for more PORN!

Enjoy:

Okay, that last one might be my cue to get back to the porn … 😜

Hey Sam, I’m so happy you’re back!

I have a tricky question for you but I would really appreciate your help. My husband and I have been together for 7 years. I was 18 and he was 21 when he started dating. At first it was a regular vanilla top-bottom couple. I was a full bottom and he a full top, but nothing more than that. After 6 months together, he started to call me faggot during sex when the rut got really intense. I didn’t like at first, but he trained me more and more to accept it. With time, he turned me into a full faggot and I embraced it. I cook and clean for him, he has full access to my body and I never say no, even when I’m not in the mood for sex.

The problem is: although I accept to be his owned faggot, we are also husbands, and I don’t wanna lose that. I really love him and I want to have a family and children with him one day. My main concern is that he has been bringing up more and more having a threesome with another sub bottom. He’s obsessed with that twink Sam Ledger (do you know him?), and frequently tells me to suck his dick while he watched Sam getting fucked. I don’t mind doing this because I know how much it pleases him, but every time he cums in my mouth watching Sam Ledger he says that it would be so hot to have a twink like him in our bed. This is what scares me… I’m 25 now and I’m not getting younger. Do you think that some Alphas can stay monogamic for their whole lives and have a happy “traditional” marriage? This is my dream, to be honest. I really don’t like the idea of him fucking other bottoms but I don’t want him to break up with me and find a hotter twink either.

Do you have any ideas of how I could manage this? He hasn’t fucked me in the past 2 weeks, yet every night he demands a blowjob while he watches Sam… I understand his needs, but it hurts my feelings to think that I’m not as attractive as these models.

Thank you! It’s wonderful to have you back here.

You pose a difficult question, and I’m not sure you’re going to entirely like my answer.

First of all, I’m of the opinion that it’s practically impossible for an Alpha to be 100% monogamous. They’re simply not built to be monogamous. They have a deep-seated need to hunt, conquer, and breed. 

Added to that biological programming is the pervasiveness of internet porn, which has trained Alphas to think all sex and sexual partners should be like what they see in video clips. That’s not realistic, of course. You as a marriage partner shouldn’t need to compete against fancy editing, professional makeup and lighting, and overdubbed moaning. But that’s the world we live in today.

I commend you for accepting the faggot role he forced onto you. It was, no doubt, jarring and uncomfortable. But I want you to try something … I want you to lean into the faggot thing. Greet him at the door on your knees. Kiss his feet. Call him Sir or Master. Become that faggot slut he seeks with Sam Ledger. Let’s see if your husband comes around with a little change like that. 

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This post is part of a thread following a faggot named Tim, who has recently been sold to serve a Master named Rex. CLICK HERE to read this entire thread in chronological order!

One of my favorite sagas from the old site was the inspirational story of a faggot named Tim who was sold into service to a God Alpha named Master Rex. Under Master Rex’s firm guidance and powerful use, Tim was able to experience many new things, including the wonders of being cunted.

I was so enamored of little Tim’s tale and had such respect for Master Rex that I painstakingly restored the entire thread from the old website to this one, post-by-post. I did so in order to celebrate this message I received from Tim:

Hi Sam, I’m glad you’re getting to restore some old content. i was the subject (well, my Master Rex was the subject) of your Episode 236 and just to let you  know we three are still good and doing well. I’m still Faggot #2 in the household and love being here and Master Rex is kind and giving and brutal in bed like I deserve and like he is meant to be. I follow his every command – and so I feel loved and taken care of.

Hope you are well – Faggot Timmy

I cannot tell you how proud I am of my little brother! Still serving Master Rex faithfully after all of these years! Still a beloved possession of one of the more powerful Alphas to ever appear on FWA or anywhere in my life. It’s rare that an Alpha keeps two live-in faggots for this length of time. That speaks to Master Rex’s honor and faithfulness as well as the talent and devotion of his faggots!

I’m so glad I restored this vital Hierarchical thread to this site! Thank you, Tim!

Dear Sam,

I’ve been listening to your podcast obsessively, and I’ve been taking in your advice. I am a faggot, an object and slave to be used by Alphas; thank you for bringing me to this realisation.

My question is about love in the Alpha-faggot dynamic: if an Alpha falls in love with a faggot, does this compromise the natural roles they take on? A faggot is an object, a fleshlight for an Alpha, so surely falling in love with one is as absurd as falling in love with a fleshlight? The Romans fucked their beta-male and faggot slaves, but they didn’t fall in love with them- that would’ve been ridiculous.

Perhaps I’m being neurotic. I would love to be loved by an Alpha- and marry him, and worship him as he cucks me- but I would not want an Alpha to weaken himself, or embarrass himself by falling in love with a subhuman slave like me.

With love and deep appreciation for your work,

Faggot Alex-James.

I was kind of saddened by your question, brother. I know what you mean, believe me, but I’ve had Masters who loved me – two very deeply, especially given that they were straight – so I know this side of it can exist.

Rather than thinking of a faggot like a Fleshlight, think of a faggot like a dog. A loyal dog. I dare you to find anything an Alpha loves more than his loyal dog. 

A dog is not equal to its owner. It obeys its owner. It owes its life to its owner. But despite that disparity, Men love their dogs. Why? Because that dog “worships” its owner and is loyal to its owner.

I hope that helps you. An Alpha can absolutely love you just the same way.

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Hey sam, im an 19 yo alpha im trying my best to be a real alpha protector but i think my fag is still feeling bad when he serve me. I keep tellin him he is the best thing met me in my life and i want to marry him but he’s still afraid of it. He thinks i’m ashamed of him and thinks that aour wedding can be bad for my business life how can i encourage him to say yes to me. actually this was the only NO he ever said to me please im plannin my best life with my fag help me im helpless . I would appreciate any advice. Thank you 

Master, thank you so much for writing to me!
 
It’s incredible to hear that you so value your faggot that you want him to be your permanent possession! It’s an honor so rarely bestowed upon faggots, so anytime an Alpha feels this way about his faggot, the faggot should be beyond humbled and gratefully accept it!
 
Please tell your faggot that his job is to obey you and honor you. This heartfelt desire you have is part of your plan for your life, and it’s your responsibility as his Owner to make such decisions, not his. 
 
I’m beyond happy to hear of this, Master, and I’d love to speak with you more indepth! Please write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com!

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