Questions From Readers

Hey Sam, love your site! I’m 18 from France and I have a weird situation. My boyfriend is 23 and he is VERY dominant in our relationship, in his work, etc He is a natural Alpha in every single way. I never asked him about being a top or a bottom because I was a virgin when I met him and I taught he would destroy my hole and breed me. For my surprise, when we first had intimacy and the bedroom for us after a few dates, he literally opened his drawer, handed me a bottle of lube and a condom, took his underwear off and put his ass up waiting for me to fuck hahahaha I kept looking at the lube and the condom trying to understand what to do for a while before I started doing it. I had never worn a condom before, so I tried to do my best and lubed his hole. It was a little messy, but my dick is not that big, so it entered easily. We’ve been together for 6 months and every time we have sex he does the same. He says he is a dominant power bottom but I desperately need to feel a dick in my hole, dominating me and breeding me. How do you think I should behave in this case? I think I am a faggot, but I’ve been fucking his big manly ass since July. Is there such thing as a Alpha bottom? Maybe a throuple with a real Alpha would solve it? I don’t know if something is wrong with me but I see so many faggots serving strong men and when I found one he literally has a pussy instead of a asshole looool   Love you Sam!!! Merci beaucoup !

Brother, thank you for writing to me! I love you, too! For whatever reason your question ended up in my email inbox rather than inside the site, so my response won’t reach you directly. Hopefully you’ll see this reply on the site.

I hate to be the one to break this to you, little brother, but your boyfriend is NOT a “natural Alpha in every single way” because truly dominant Alphas aren’t bottoms. How can any Man claim to be dominant when he’s bending over and taking it up the ass?

I’m not saying that “bossy bottoms” don’t exist, but in my opinion they use the “bossy” title as a way to excuse selfish, ignorant, and ill-informed behavior. A lot of these bossy bottoms are the over-the-top “look at me” swish queens who are always way too loud and obnoxious everywhere they go. I can’t stand these types, and nobody I know likes them for anything other than as an object of derision.

You might as well forget about this flake right now, brother. I can almost guarantee this: at some point down the road your “boyfriend” will meet up with a real Alpha, and that Alpha will force him to accept the truth about himself.

But you are such a good boy, and I can already sense you’re going to be some true Alpha’s prized faggot. You deserve to serve a real Alpha who can complete your circle and help train you into the faggot your heart yearns to be.

So send this pretender back to the clubs so it can continue in its delusion without wasting these precious years of your life.

Love,

sam the faggot

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