Questions From Readers

Good day Sam.

I go by Suboi online mostly as it feels right to me. I am sitting with a bit of self conflict in my life right now as to my place in the Hierarchy right now. I do know for sure nothing about me says Beta-Dom or higher for sure.

The problem I have is that I have started to see someone and we get along well and connect on many levels which is great really. This thing we have is good but very young as in not even a month together – so it is very new.

The one time we had a little four play he had me moaning in ways I never knew I could and I loved it really and so did he. After that I was recalling the evening events the next day and realized that as much as I enjoyed it and got pleasure for it, I never once got hard – which help me realize that I can not be not never be Dom. I am absolutely okay with that completely really, I have discovered that the only way I get hard is in a very voyeristic way, when I see Alphas and Dom being verbose with their fags on X/Twitter.
I also used to have a married Daddy that would collar me and cage me and use my mouth as his pocket pussy which I enjoyed doing. I started to slowly buy things like nipple clamp, cockring, chastity cages and even poppers (which with the use of chastity help me open up and be a better cock hungry Slut.)

So I have a small little cash of toys and poppers which I keep hidden away, because it start to become a distraction from day to day life sadly.

Know that I have given you a bit of context to my life Sam, here is my Question?

How do I ask the guy I have just started to see if he would be wanting to cage and cunt me to make me his and show him what I want and more out of it really. He does not even know that I have a chastity cage or a “Slave” choker yet?

I am conflicted as well because I love the work I do in the world outside the house and I don’t want to sacrifice my work ambitions as well?

I am highly conflicted here Sam?

He would be the first man to cunt me ever and I dream of him whispering in my ear when the cunting is done, “You are mine now.”

please Sam any advice would be great.

The way you describe this new Man, it sounds like he’s very inexperienced. Or, should I say, inexperienced in the needs of a faggot. He can learn, of course, but this isn’t something that happens overnight.

You shouldn’t expect him to understand cunting you or more advanced things when he knows nothing about caging you, etc. Baby steps. Just try to introduce him to various aspects of your submission and see how he reacts. Then you might be able to lead him further. There are plenty of resources on this site to help instruct him if you need it. 

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