Questions From Readers

Hello sir, I’m a 20 year old sub that’s new here just recently followed and I’ve recently entered into a dom/sub type of relationship. I’m obviously not well versed in this area due to being new but my dom is saying I don’t have choices anymore now. I understand that but it makes me a little nervous but also excited. He’s also asking me to push my boundaries ie he asked me if I’ve ever done watersports and I told I hadn’t and wasn’t sure about trying it. His response was we are gonna change that and I don’t really get a say in it because I’m a sub who needs to owned by a man. It turned me on a little but also just wondering if that’s how it usually is and what other things I should expect coming? Idk I’m just overall a little nervous any advice would be great appreciated thanks for reading.

My brother, thank you so much for writing to me! I appreciate your honest apprehension. 

Don’t be afraid. Your new Master sounds confident and an Alpha with a plan for you. Keep in mind that the things he’s suggesting (like watersports) will help you get more deeply in-touch with who you are and your purpose. 

Think about it this way: it feels good to you for a reason. You were born to be owned by an Alpha, and you were born to submit and serve him. It feels good because you sense this truth. I promise, there’s nothing better than knowing your purpose and fulfilling it.

I don’t know what to expect from your Master, of course. I would guess he will probably put you in chastity, and that’s an adjustment you can overcome.  

I recommend that you just try to be obedient and respectful and really give it your best effort. You will grow so much through training and use. 

If you need more advice/help, please reach out my brother! 

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