Questions From Readers

Hello there!

I really enjoy all your content and i absolutely identify with a lot of what you say about Alpha/faggot dynamics.

I love serving men and have a couple of Doms/Alphas I serve and who enjoy playing with me. But I likewise have a couple of subs who I Dominate and I really enjoy controlling them and pushing them to be the best subs they can be.

One of my Alphas has enjoyed using me and my sub, like a tiered heirarchy. Which was great fun.

My question is this – where do switches fit in the “Hierarchy”?

Hi, thanks for writing to me.

I don’t know what the context is for these relationships. Are they findom relationships? Sexual, in-person relationships? I’m assuming they’re in-person sexual encounters based partly on what you described about a three-way Hierarchy. 

Personally, I don’t recognize versatile people as a permanent part of Hierarchy. Obviously, they’re constantly shifting anyway, which is problematic. But the other thing is this: what are the chances you’re going to be happily versatile for the rest of your life? I’d say it’s close to 0%. Eventually what’s going to happen is a powerful Alphas is going to take complete control of you and force you to accept the real truth: you’re submissive. 

I have this theory that versatile people are really subs and faggots who simply cannot accept their reality so they take on a dominant role as a coping mechanism. You may disagree, but I’ll bet not very strenuously. I think you can see where I’m coming from. 

Boy, I really hate these questions about versatility. I get myself in trouble every time, but I can’t seem to come to any other conclusion based on the evidence I’ve seen. Maybe you’ll be different … but I doubt it.  

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