Questions From Readers

Hi Sam.

So, I have been friends with this guy (lets call him Jake for simplicity) for 10 years now. Jake is very muscular kinda of guy, very manly, very Alpha like. And I like him a lot. But the problem is that I get mixed signals from him. I don’t know if he is straight or gay or bi. So the signals are; he sends me a lot of pictures of himself shirtless, showing of his muscles. I don’t know why would he send me those pictures if he wasn’t interested in me. Then when we are meeting, he always demands that I come to him, never other way around. He lives really far away, like two hours drive on highway. I never openly said to him that I’m gay, but when we are together he always is kinda homophobic, uses word faggot, which in my language sounds even worse than in English. So, I want to serve him but I don’t know what to do, and what he thinks of this? So please help me.

Thank you for the question, brother.

I’m not sure these signals are quite as mixed as you think. He’s clearly Alpha, and probably straight. However, here are a few other things we can say:

1. no straight or gay Alpha I’ve ever heard of sends shirtless pics to their male friends unless they’re interested in using them. 

2. His demands that you drive to him are a power play being used to see how well you obey his wishes. 

3. His use of the word “faggot” (or whatever word that is in your language) around you isn’t a threat … he’s testing you to see how you respond. My first Alpha did this to me multiple times before forcing me to become his cocksucker. 

Frankly, I think this Alpha is primed and ready for you to submit to him. 

How you choose to do this is up to you. One faggot recently had great success using my “Letter To An Alpha” to help the Alpha understand what you are and what you’re offering. You could do what that faggot did and just ask him to read it, and then see how he reacts. 

Or, you could kneel and confess to him that you’re a faggot. Alphas love seeing this because you’re confessing to them and also submitting to them.

Or, you could get in a low physical position near his feet and start rubbing them. Feet are a powerful way to get an Alpha’s attention. 

Or, you could start a conversation with him by asking him “do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” When he answers “yes” then start discussing the Hierarchy with him. You could use my pyramid graphic as a way for him to grasp the concept. Ask him where he thinks you are, and see what he says (I’ll bet he says “faggot”). Then perhaps you could admit it. 

Any of these methods will work, but it just depends on what you can handle. Just remember: you’ve been friends with him for 10 years, so he’s not going to hurt you. He will AT LEAST be curious, trust me!  

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