Questions From Readers
I’m curious if you have heard of this situation before. I am a fag with an extremely high sex drive- before locking up I would jerk off 2 to 3 times a day minimum. I have quite a few straight male friends-—they know I’m gay but don’t know I’m a caged faggot. They think I’m a top, and I never corrected them. Recently they were talking about sex, and one of them was talking about how dominant he was. I literally had to make an excuse to leave, take off my cage and jerk off, then come back, otherwsie I was going to lose my mind. Every time im with them I just want them to rough fuck me.
How can a fag like me control myself? Should I find more men to suck? Or should I start jerking off more to get it out of my system?
Hi brother! Thanks for the question!
Congrats on the choice to self-lock! It’s an important step in a faggot’s life and the process of molding your mind into perpetual subspace.
However, chastity does no good if you’re still unlocking two/three times a day to jerk off, or unlocking to jerk off whenever it becomes difficult. The difficulty is part of the journey of chastity, and you’re denying yourself the opportunity to grow every time you unlock and masturbate.
I was able to stop masturbating through the application of my mind. I simply started meditating on how shameful it was that I was using my penis like a Man, how I was bringing shame on other Men by using my penis the way they can. I became embarrassed to use the urinals in bathrooms because those belonged to Men, etc. So start thinking about it that way, and I think eventually you’ll come to the right conclusion.
But I will add this about the little story you told me: you should’ve revealed your chastity to your straight Alpha friends right then and there. They need to know you’re actually a locked faggot. This could solve two issues at once.
There is something triggering to straight Alphas when they see a faggot in chastity. They’re ALWAYS curious about it, but it also turns them on in a bizarre way. It’s almost like the caged faggot is wearing a sign that reads “CUMDUMP”. They understand that a faggot wearing a chastity cage is not a Man and not equal, and oftentimes they want to take control of those faggots.
Besides that benefit, if/when your Alpha friends use you, you’ll also solve your horniness through increased use.
I’m always a proponent of being honest with those around oneself. When you are, awesome things happen. When you give dominant straight Alphas permission, they take incredible control and do things you’d never imagine possible.
So next chance you get, reveal your chastity to them and see what develops!
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Thanks for the advice, I totally agree. You explained it perfectly why I prefer to stay locked, and its funny you bring up urinals. It feels strange standing next to other men with my dick out, pretending I am equal to them- its such a joke. But yeah, if I unlock to jerk off it really defeats the purpose so I’m trying to curb that behavior.
I admit you’re right that I should tell them. The good news is though that I am more or less their bitch in other ways- I do a lot of little things for them and I am clearly at the bottom of the pecking order, and they jokingly call me a faggot from time to time (I have to pretend that it annoys me, even though it makes me rock hard). I wish they would use me sexually, it could be a good male bonding for them. I don’t think they would, but you never know.