Questions From Readers
Hey! I’m also a faggot named Sam!
I’m reaching out because I’m really struggling and could use your guidance. I’m a faggot with a micropenis, barely 2 inches hard, and I’m honestly so ashamed of it. I love serving straight alpha guys who probably dont care about my size, which should feel like a relief, but my shame keeps holding me back from fully embracing my submissive side. I’m terrified they’ll notice my tiny dick during play and judge me, even if they’re focused on their own pleasure. It makes me second-guess my worth as a sub, and I end up holding back instead of being the devoted, slutty faggot I want to be. I also want to try things like chastity cages to lean into my role, but I’m too embarrassed to even look for gear that fits because it means facing my size head-on. Worst of all, I don’t know how to come clean about my micropenis to new doms. I feel like I need to warn them upfront, but I’m scared it’ll ruin the vibe or make me seem less desirable, even if they’re not focused on my cock. How do you get past this kind of shame to feel confident as a sub? Any advice on how to be honest with straight doms about my size in a way that’s upfront but keeps the dynamic hot and doesn’t make it a big deal? I’d love to hear how you’d handle this or any tips to own my role despite feeling so insecure. Please help!
Thank you for the question, brother! Although, I must admit it’s an extremely odd one …
I was born with a baby boy penis, too (not technically a micropenis, but close enough), and I guess there was some embarrassment in years 15-17 of my life. I knew I was tiny compared to my straight friends I’d seen naked or the other guys in the locker room at school, but my friends never picked on me about it (we had a mutual friend, a fat guy named Nuge, who had a micropenis and he was always walking around naked – so he asked for the razzing from us).
When I say there was some embarrassment, it was because I was living a lie during those years and having unsatisfying sex with females.
Of course, at age 17 my world was turned upside down when my Alpha best friend forced me into service, and I never used my penis sexually again. No Alpha I’ve ever been with has ever seriously cared about my penis. I’ve never gotten hard while servicing an Alpha. It’s simply been a NON-ISSUE.
But you’re making an issue out of that non-issue, which is definitely weird. If you’re embarrassed about your micropenis, get a flat-front chastity cage and eliminate it altogether. In fact, doing this will actually attract Alphas to you, because I’ve definitely proven that Men (especially straight Alphas) are fascinated and turned-on in some way at the sight of a sub male who has accepted its truth.
In other words, your psychological issue is getting in the way of actually serving, which then creates a negative-feedback loop. You need to break that loop, brother. Lock up whatever you have, dress it up as nicely as possible, and embrace it!
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Exactly. You don’t need to be upfront about your micropenis. You need to be upfront about being a faggot. Men who use faggots for sex aren’t interested in your penis they are interested in your mouth, your cunt, and your obedience. I can’t remember the last time a man who had sex with me even saw mine. If it’s not locked wear a jockstrap. You micropenis makes you an ideal faggot!
FaggotJ here…I too was given a tiny dicklet to deal with throughout life, and I agree whole-heartedly with Jaydaug and faggot Sam…embracing and accepting being a faggot should give you release from your old trauma. Think about it…if you’re truly a faggot, you went through much of your life tortured…not just because you had the embarrassment of having a tiny dicklet, but because you were being taught to believe it had to be used in a certain way with only certain people. And even though you didn’t point it out, you may have repeatedly tried to use it the way others implied you should. Make no mistake, to a faggot, this is damaging. If you’re a faggot, you didn’t “become” a faggot, you’ve always BEEN a faggot. When I came out as a faggot (I call it my second coming out), all of the paranoia and shame about my size disappeared. In fact, it was replaced with relief and happiness over the fact that I feel now that I was BLESSED with a tiny clit-like dicklet. Buddy, having a tiny dick as a faggot is a GOOD thing, a GREAT thing. You shouldn’t fear Men making fun of it, you should embrace the fact that They will get pleasure from making fun of it. Good luck buddy!