Questions From Readers

Hi Sam! I need your help. I am 26, gay, and I have sent around 10k to Alphas over the last 7 years BUT … I never had the courage to meet one and worship them in person.

I tell myself that maybe I am not a faggot and I did send the money just for fun but if I worshipped an Alpha in person, my place in the hierarchy would be fixed.

Am I lying to myself? The 10k are a lot of money for me and maybe this sum already is a strong sign that I am indeed a faggot.

I think I am not the only one who is struggling with his place. The Alphas are fine with receiving money and I was never asked to meet… so I would love to hear your opninion and what next step you would recommend.

Well, if you’re unsure about whether or not you’re a faggot, I recommend that you buy my book titled “Are You A Faggot?” that contains a final, self-administered test to help you answer that question. You can buy it right here: https://payhip.com/b/o8E9L

I think sending money to Alphas you’ll never meet is largely a dead-end. I understand that it’s “hot” and helps you get off, but you’re learning all sorts of bad habits while also lowering your standards for yourself. I think findom is fine for faggots who simply cannot serve Alphas in real life for whatever reason, but ultimately findom isn’t a proper or beneficial training method.

Your words betray some of this. You mention that you lack the courage to meet and serve in person. Can’t you see that findom is weakening you as a person? 

My recommendation is this: take some time off of findom and instead use that money to buy a few drinks for a local Alpha you know. Or to buy him something of value. Or make yourself useful to him in some way. You will find that experience much more rewarding, and it will make you grow as a person rather than regress.  

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