Questions From Readers

Hi Sam,

My name is Brandon and I’m a 21yo guy who’s recently become more sexually active. I have a decently muscular body and a pretty big dick(~7.5-8in). I’ve begun to notice a trend with the guys I’m sleeping with. Almost as soon as undress they all start acting more like bottoms? They always start worshipping my body and beg to suck my cock/fuck them.

I’ve never really thought of myself as “Alpha” or had the impulse to don other guys before. But I will say it does feel nice to be worshiped. So my question for you Sam is, do you think I’m an Alpha or is this just benefits of being hung?

Hello, Sir! Thank you very much for writing!

At this point, it’s pretty clear you’re receiving the benefits of being hung, but that’s only a benefit if you’re a total top without any interest in sucking dick or being fucked. Otherwise, that wouldn’t be a benefit, right? Since you didn’t really clarify your interests, I can’t really determine much more than that.

But let’s assume that your statement “benefits of being hung” indicates that you are, indeed, a total top.

The question of whether or not you’re Alpha involves more math than (big dick = Alpha). Alphahood does not depend on dick size. A Man is Alpha because of the qualities he has INSIDE, not outside. 

Despite your nice body, handsome face, and big dick, you have some aspects that make me question your qualifications as an Alpha. For instance, you have a very limited sexual history until now (which would be weird for a well-hung Alpha). You also mention that you’ve never felt the urge to dominate others … again, that’s not typically an Alpha quality.

So I can’t really come to a conclusion on the question of your Alphahood, Sir. I don’t have enough information to do so. However, I’m rooting for you! You seem like you’d make a great Protector Alpha if it ends up fully manifesting in you! Thank you, Sir! 

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