Questions From Readers

Hey man, love the info and guidance you share on being a faggot so here’s my questions

im a 26yo guy and have been recently really into being owned and being a faggot for alphas.

i met this one guy of Grindr and it was a transactional thing however he made me feel really comfortable and I think he also felt comfortable around me. The issue is I don’t know if he’s into the alpha and faggot dynamic but he gives off huge God alpha vibes.

I met up with him again yesterday but more to just chat and hang out and he was talking about how he sees other fags for money and I started to get jealous but didn’t make it obvious.

as I’m dropping him off he says he can’t be bothered with meeting up with a random and whipped his cock out, grabbed my hand and made me stroke him and then said I got have to go out if you wanna pay. I was completely took over by this and happily agreed. It felt really good to go and buy him things after I was allowed to drain his 9 inch cock.

i know this is quite long ended but i wanted to know whether you think he’s just here for the money or if he wants a faggot and how can I try to convince him to own me?

thank you

Thanks for the question!

I don’t think there’s any doubt he’s in it for the money. If you’re find just being used that way (i.e. paying him money so that you can suck his dick occasionally), then I guess continue down that road.

If you don’t want to essentially paying for a prostitute, then I would ask him if he has ever considered taking ownership of a faggot. My guess is that he’s doing this on the DL and might say “no” upfront … at which point you can tell him how you feel and see if he might be willing to change the way he treats you. 

These kinds of Alphas are difficult to read because they’re so transactional, and they don’t operate on any level of good faith. 

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