Questions From Readers

Hi sam, im a faggot and my str8 friend knows this. He’s made me serve him a couple of times, including through findom. Last time, I freaked out because he has a gf and a child with her and if she found out, it would probably end the relationship. We’ve agreed to stop and im finding it really hard. Is this the right thing to do?

Thanks for the important question, brother! 

Every faggot who serves straight Alphas will have to deal with this moral question regarding serving as a side thing alongside the Alpha’s relationships with women. Alphas love variety and they love power, so they have little concern about using faggots on the side … but it often bothers the faggots, usually for the wrong reason (jealousy) rather than the right reason (respect for the unsuspecting woman). 

For me, I used to consider it not my problem, given the fact that it wasn’t me who was cheating on someone – the Alpha was. I was merely giving the Alpha the things his woman was unwilling or unable to give him. As I’ve gotten older this issue has bothered me more.

That said, I don’t think I would’ve brought it up and destroyed a service relationship as you did. Ultimately, I let the Alpha dictate what happens with these kinds of situations because it is, after all, HIS relationship. And I would never give a straight Alpha an ultimatum (“it’s me or her – choose!”) because the Alpha will always choose the woman. 

But every person has their own conscience. What my conscience might allow yours might not. But if you’re still plagued with unsettled doubts, then perhaps you made the wrong choice. 

But here’s the problem: now that you’ve brought up this issue, the Alpha may not take you back because now that thought is in HIS head. So it might be too late. But at least you learned something to watch out for next time!

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