Questions From Readers

Hey brother, I served a man for a few months and he decided to turn me into his boyfriend. I accepted and moved in to serve him 24/7. I’ve been very happy serving him so far. I cook, clean, do the laundry, and suck his dick every single day. But there’s one thing that bothers me. He loves giving me presents: flowers, clothes, new IPhones, fancy dinners, international trips etc. He always pays for everything. I told him that he doesn’t need to, but he always says that his father taught him to be a Real Man and Real Men must provide their girls with everything they want. How can I show him that I am not his girlfriend? I am his faggot and I should be paying for his things, not the other way around. I want him to own my bank account, and instead he doesn’t stop giving me extra money to buy clothes and look sexy for him. I already showed him this website and even explained what findom is, but he continues to say that he has a dick and balls, so no fag or girl will ever pay 1 cent for him. My guess is: He had 3 relationships with women and they took advantage of his generosity, I am his first faggot, so I think he’s struggling to understand the difference between me and the other spoiled girls who took thousands of euros from him.

Brother, I think this is a first. I’ve never had a faggot write to me upset that their Alpha won’t stop lavishing them with gifts! 

I don’t mean to tease you, but you know it does sound a little weird. However, I do understand your issue. I have a TERRIBLE time accepting ANY gifts from people. I prefer to get my stuff myself, and I HATE asking for help. It’s especially hard to receive gifts from our Alphas, for the reasons you mention in your question.

However, there are some incredible Alphas out there who truly value their subs/faggots. If they have the means (as your Alpha apparently does), they will spend ridiculous amounts of money on what is essentially their servant. 

You must keep in mind he is not trying to buy you, or guilt you into service. He genuinely cares about you and is grateful that you serve him and submit to him. Some Men struggle to express those things in words, so they speak them in gestures and gifts. 

And “express” is an intentional word here, because he is expressing a real desire in his heart. He NEEDS to express these things, because he WANTS TO. 

Here’s a little story from my life: My first real Master was a straight Alpha named Aaron, and I was unworthy to lick the impressions of his feet in mud. Inside, I felt absolutely unworthy of his every compliment, his every tender gesture. Then one weekend I had to fly out of the country, and I was petrified of flying. I also hated leaving Master Aaron unattended. But I went anyway (of course). When I returned, there were a dozen red roses on the kitchen table and a note from Master Aaron telling me how proud he was of me. And I broke down and cried. 

There are truly astounding Alphas out there who want to show their faggots that they’re valued. It’s important to THEM to do that.

Your job as this Alpha’s faggot is to please him and make him happy, right? That’s what you want to do, right? Well then, stop complaining about his gifts. It makes him happy to do these things for you. He WANTS to do these things for you … he NEEDS to do these things for you. Deeply appreciate your good fortune to be owned by such a powerful, successful, and tender Alpha! Kiss his feet every day and thank him for his benevolent and merciful kindness in allowing you to serve. Make him feel like the King he is! 

(BTW, if he has an extra grand or two lying around, ask him to send it my way! I could use the help!)

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