Hi brother!!
I am 19 and I serve a 33-year-old Master. We live together as husbands, but we are not equals at all. I am totally submissive to him. I love him from the bottom of my heart and wanna serve him more and more.

I am his type (smooth skinny twink) and try my best to be a good faggot for him and look attractive. However, he only uses me sexually twice a week. He usually fucks me on Saturday and Wednesday, sometimes three times a week but never more than that. Is this normal for an Alpha in his 30s? He says I am perfect for him but sometimes I think that I could be better and turn him on more. What do you think? I see some Alphas around my age claiming to fuck their faggots every single day. Is this normal for an Alpha at age 33 to cum only twice a week, or he is probably using other faggots?

Thank you, Sam! I love your website.


Thanks for writing. I’d hate to make any guesses here because I don’t want to create mistrust between you and your Master/husband. I do think it’s unusual that he’s only using you twice a week (on a schedule, even!) when he’s just 33 years old. Alphas in their early thirties are still near the top of their sexual powers, so it’s hard to believe he doesn’t need to empty his balls more often.

Of course, there are other factors to consider. How stressful is his job? Sometimes Alphas with high-stress jobs struggle to get worked up for sex because of the massive amounts of tension in their work life. 

But my gut feeling is he has a faggot(s) on the side he’s using, too. If so, I’m mystified as to why he thinks he needs to hide it from you, his primary faggot. He’s an ALPHA. Not only are they programmed to spread their seed, they have a natural right to use whomever they want. As an Owner of you, a faggot, he should already know that he simply needs to tell you that these are the rules, and you will obey. 

If he is using others, I suppose he’s keeping it from you because he cares about you and doesn’t want to hurt you. However, true faggots are not wired that way. We almost get turned on when our Masters go out and hunt/breed other faggots. It simply verifies in our mind why we serve them in the first place.

I’d like you to show your Master this answer and see what he thinks about what I’ve said. 

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