Raised Hierarchically

The following post is part of a thread following the development of 25-year-old Master Chris, a natural-born Alpha raised hierarchically by his mother. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I’m constantly amazed at the number of stories I receive about parents who recognized and respected hierarchical roles in the development of their sons. They see Alphahood or faghood in them and encourage their development along those lines, guided by innate understanding of the unchangeableness of these roles. It’s truly incredible, and I’m always eager for more proof of this.

I recently heard from an Alpha named Master Chris. I’ve had some conversations with him in the past, but it has been a little while since we’d talked. However, he felt compelled to write to me when he read the extraordinary account of Master Lucas and his mother Sophie. That story has rattled a lot of cages since it debuted, but Master Chris’s story directly parallels it.

we briefly chatted on Discord shortly before the discord server went offline and I’m just now finding out that your podcast + website is back online.

I’m writing you because the story of Lucas deeply resonates with my past. I’m 25 now, but I was a teenager who tried navigating through life as an alpha just like he is. Very much reminded of my thoughts and circumstances back then: My mother didn’t have the knowledge about hierarchy or any resources to gain then (12 years ago, the online kink community was just getting started). But she used to call herself a “lioness”, especially when it came to defending me. She was a great role model, taught me to find a way to get what I want. On one hand, she wanted me to treat everyone with respect, but on the other hand, she disrespected “males” that quote-unquote “rest on having a dick in their pants”. I like to think that I would’ve gotten much more shit for being forceful if it wasn’t for my queer identity. I kissed boys and girls alike in the school yard and that took that “testosterone monster” narrative off of me. I could essentially do whatever I pleased, no one wanted to tell classmates or teachers that the “queer kid” teaches them a lesson or two. Not that adults would’ve believed it: I never gave a fuck about what society thought was suitable for me based on my gender or not. My mom knew I would make the rules, not follow them. She embraced that. I would’ve figured certain things out much easier (without that much trial and error) if I had a role model, a resource to turn to.

That’s why I applaud Lucas and his mom for realizing that there’s no need to panic or rush things… but being understood as a teenager is THE thing everyone wishes for. My mom thought I was a pay-back type of lad and assumed they deserved harsh treatment because I was just “defending” myself. I went along with it. It was alright, but it would’ve been even better if everyone knew that I was just assuming my rightful position in life, that it didn’t have anything to do with being petty or cruel.

My advice to young alphas? “Focus on one thing at a time. It’s the hardest part if the entire world is at your mercy.”

Like Sophie, Master Chris’s mother was a “lioness” who fiercely (though unconsciously) enforced hierarchical values in Master Chris. Even though he identified as “queer”, that didn’t diminish his power over inferiors straight or gay.

It just really demonstrates that these things are baked into our DNA, and therefore an adjustment needs to be made in how these ones are raised in order to account for that!