I’m glad I was able to find you again Sam as I followed your fags worship alphas site and wondered what happened when you disappeared.  My question is for further clarification on the difference between fags and betas. I love to suck cock and serve dominant alpha guys but a part of me feels drawn to being fully and sexually submissive. Does that make me beta?

I’m glad you’ve found me again, brother! Thank you! 

Faggots are essentially slave males. They don’t have natural rights like most other males; they belong to Men and Alphas to use as they will. A faggot has a need to be enslaved and used by Alphas without choice or question.

Submissive/bottom betas (beta-subs) are autonomous males who do not have a slave mentality and are simply more comfortable being fucked. It’s more of a sexual position rather than an entire lifestyle.

Hopefully that clears up your question.

As for you, I think you sound more like a faggot based on what you mentioned. However, you can try to use my book “Are You A Faggot?” (check out the link in the “Book Store” section). It’s designed to help you answer this yourself.  

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Hi Sam, I’m a fag from New York and I recently meet a alpha online, one thing that confused me was the he told me he was vers and the likes getting fucked. I’m curious Sam can a gay vers be an alpha in your experience and opinion.

Thanks for writing, brother. In my experience, a vers guy cannot be Alpha. It violates one of the tenets of Alphahood, that they are dominant Men. You cannot claim to be dominant if another Man is topping and penetrating you. Sorry. I know that’s going to offend switches out there, but I don’t care. I’m tired of pretending like this is not the truth just to placate their indecisiveness. 

Here’s another truth: practically every vers I’ve ever known eventually makes a decision one way or another eventually, and they almost never choose Alpha. In other words, they’re really bottoms/faggots who are simply trying to resist it. 

I find this behavior to be just as offensive as so-called “cash masters” in findom pretending to be Alpha so that faggots will pay them money, and then they weakly tribute that money to real Alphas in secret. It’s underhanded and pathetic. 

BE WHO YOU WERE BORN TO BE!! 

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Hey Sam, Im Gabe, a 20yo mexican guy that has been following you since 2020
First I wanted to say how grateful I am for you being able to hve this place where you educate and help others discovering the hierarchy
I read about Master José, and I must admit I was interested, but there is a problem. Im sure Im submissive, but Im not sure Im a faggot. I found myself imagining me in the place of many faggots you have help, but a the same time I dont act so submissive in my daily life
I also havent meet a Dom/Alpha irl, and honestly the few I have found online were Alpha Destroyers (and I really have the means to serve in the way others do online). So I hope Master José lives close to my town
Also Im really anxious about even start dating (something I want to work on this year) so Its difficult for me to imagine me openly searching for an Alpha
On the other end Im really romantic and I also want to have a relationship and a bf, I masturbate a lot (my dick, not my ass), but maybe this is because Im an untrained faggot?

Also important, Im a med student so I feel like I dont have enough time to properly serve an Alpha, but I could still be wrong
And sorry for the long question, but there really was so much I think I had to explain, I hope you can help me and give advice

Thanks for writing! 

Not everyone falls into the “Alpha” or “faggot” sections of the Hierarchy. You could be a beta-sub … not a faggot, but just a submissive beta male. Relationships are perfectly doable for you, and there are Men out there who would date you and appreciate you for what you are. There’s really no reason to worry about it. Just accept your beta status.

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In the middle of figuring myself out

Im A 23 year old non white male w/who always found other white males growing up attractive in school, sometimes I stare hard, now it has gotten better

Anyways I’ve started my life during my teen/college years diving into p**n and maybe obsessed w/ p**n and while I fall more on serving and enjoying the feeling, I’m mixed.

1. I rather be on top of hierarchy, never fucked a women, or topped, I don’t feel like fully dominating but at the same time fully serving feels weird. Am I just in the middle.I often live life independently so being w/someone of doing things w/ (groups or two people) is also a bit foreign

u might not be able to give me an answer but I envy those straight hot college guys that look like they blend into life so preciously, it’s like they live life on easy mode and have no problems in life, I’m jealous

If we all could choose where we’d be in Hierarchy, we’d all choose to be Alpha. We look at Alphas and we see the blessed life they enjoy and we want that for ourselves. Who wouldn’t?

But that is not how nature works. That’s not how Hierarchy works. If there is a Top, there is a bottom. If there is a Predator, then there is prey. If there is a King, then there are slaves. 

Judging from your confused question, I’m going to guess that you’re a beta male right now. You seem to lack any experiences of any kind, so that’s where you need to start your journey of self-discovery.  

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I do admire your work and all the effort you put on this website, but I have a feeling that you only talk about Alphas and Faggots. What about the middle? Your hierarchy model has several other layers. Could you please talk more about Betas? I am 19 years old, I am very attracted to powerful man, but I don’t see myself submitting and becoming property of an Alpha. Am I a Beta?

Sorry if I sound rude, but I’m in a conservative Catholic family and it’s really hard to find material about that. When I finally find someone gay they want to fuck and breed me as submissive bottom, but I’m not sure if this is what I am.

You’re absolutely right, and I’m always conscious of my overlooking beta males in my coverage. I think part of the reason for that is that betas are generally overlooked in LIFE, and that’s not fair because beta males have done amazing things. Think about someone like Mr. Rogers, surely a beta male, and how he transformed the lives of generations of children. Many great scientists and musicians are betas. It’s funny but while I was locked up I sketched out a video highlighting famous beta males! I haven’t gotten around to it yet, but it’s coming!

As for you, the answer to your situation is still up in the air because you’re young, and because most people are attracted to powerful Men without being faggots. I created a book titled “Are You A Faggot?” which is designed to walk the reader through a questionnaire to help them figure out if they are a faggot. That might be a place to start. The book can be found by following the link in the Book Store section of this site. 

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Hi! I had a quick question for you – do you think it’s possible for straight fags to exist? I have never once had a “crush” on a man, only women which is why I believe to be straight. I have never had any desire to be in a romantic relationship with a man. I don’t really find men hot or anything.

However I am definitely a faggot. I know I am inferior to other men, and I am attracted to the idea of serving them. I’m even more attracted to serving them non sexually than sexually (i dont really want to serve sexually, i just know it is required of me). I’m attracted to the power they have over me and them using that power. But i’m not attracted to the men themselves.

I’m pretty convinced I am a “straight” faggot, but I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!

I’m not fully convinced you qualify as a “faggot” just because you desire to serve powerful superior Alphas. That’s because BETA MALES also have that desire to serve Alphas. However, if you started cleaning and cooking and doing faggot-like chores for an Alpha, I’m pretty sure he’s going to think of you as a faggot rather than a beta. But I have known straight beta males who loved serving the nonsexual needs of superior Men (I definitely saw this during my time in prison).

I’m not discounting that you could be a very repressed faggot, but for now that would be my answer.

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