Hello, Sam. So, I’ve gone through so much faggot/Alpha content, thinking I’ll always know what to do, but it’s just struck me that I don’t know how to go about this:

Do fags have a duty to serve?

I think most of us fags might not even think of it that way — it comes to us naturally anyway. But then there are times we have doubts.

In my case, for instance, there is a guy who very much wants me to submit to him, serve him for a night. Alas, he doesn’t have a commanding presence, and he isn’t masculine in… any regard, really. He’s the most ordinary man who’d just like to enjoy a submissive guy for a night. And he almost begs for it. There is desperation underneath his interactions.

And so the prospect of meeting with him seems more and more like a charity to me, rather than acquiescing to my faggot nature. He’s not an Alpha. He’s a guy. But a guy who pines for my service. And he’s nice, but wholly unattractive to me. A part of my nature pushes me towards service, a part of my nature tells me “not here”.

So, my head is full of questions! 1. What should a faggot do in such situations? 2. Am I haughty, worthy of reprimand?

3. And, of course, do fags have a duty to serve?

I hope I’ve conveyed my quandary understandably.

Thank You,
faggot A.

Hi brother! Thank you for writing!

You raise a very important question, and I believe there is some level of controversy surrounding it. The fetish side of the Hierarchical movement believes that faggots must serve EVERY Man who is not a faggot, be a cum dump used 24/7, raped and beaten and whored out constantly. 

This is not, in my opinion, realistic nor feasible. I also think it misses the inherent point of a faggot, namely, to be slaves of SUPERIOR Men. 

I have exclusively served true Alphas throughout my life. When I didn’t have an Alpha to serve, I generally just shut down operations and searched for the next Alpha I could approach and offer myself to. That should tell you two things: (1) I highly value true Alphahood and what kind of service they deserve, and (2) what I highly value myself as a reasonably-intelligent faggot.  

There is nothing wrong with a discreet, dedicated, trainable faggot having some form of self-esteem. I’ve never understood why any real Alpha of any worth would ever choose revolting faggot pigs who do things like eat shit and love to be beaten and degraded.

After all, a faggot is a reflection of its Owner.    

I proudly decorated the lives of the Alphas who owned me and made them shine even brighter. That is my purpose as a faggot. I didn’t achieve that by choosing some pretender to the Alpha throne. I didn’t come to understand that by sucking off a bunch of drunks behind a dumpter outside a bar after closing time. I made conscious choices to find the elite of the elite and submit to them. 

Elite Alphas own and train elite faggots.

I contend that anyone who wants to embrace their place in Hierarchy should work from that presumption. Be the best version of whatever nature made you to be, and then pursue those who will enhance that in you. For example, an Apex Alpha should seek other Apex Alphas for brotherhood, and clean, dedicated, and attractive faggots to own for full time service. Why would an Apex Alpha want a scat pig for a faggot?

Same with the good faggots out there. Why would a devoted and serious-minded faggot waste itself serving pot-bellied losers and pretend Alphas? Why should it? That makes no sense to me. 

With all of that said, I think the situation you present and your lightly-couched description of this guy tell me you already know he’s not worth serving. And I agree.

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I have a dominant boyfriend but I don’t fully identify as a faggot. I suck his dick every night, he fucks and breeds me at least 3 times a week, but I don’t feel fully submissive in our daily life. Yesterday, we were together on the bus, sitting side by side, his legs were wide open and I didn’t have much space. So he told me to cross my legs “like a girl”. I did it because I didn’t have a lot of space anyway. When we arrived home, he told me that from now on he wants me to cross my legs whenever we are in public, then he said that “my legs should only open for him to fuck my hole.”

I can’t really talk about these details with my friends because everybody thinks I am a masculine gay and I really don’t want people to see me as a faggot. Do you think it is worth it to fight back, or should I just accept that he needs me to be a faggot before he finds another one?

Hi, thanks for writing to me! 

You might not see yourself as a faggot or even his faggot, but it’s clear he views you as his faggot and there is a dominance currently rising inside him. I’m curious about what might have triggered this Alpha Ascension (as I call it). Regardless, it’s clearly happening and he’s fully intent on claiming and subjugating his property (you).

You ask if it’s worth it to fight back. Answer: DON’T BOTHER. You will lose that fight, and probably end up worse off. 

My suggestion is to keep doing what you’re doing – namely, obeying him – and see where it leads. He’s clearly interested in redefining this relationship; see what he really wants. Perhaps the adjustment might lead to something more favorable. You never know! 

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Hey Sam,

Thank you very much for your reply, it was a good read and a pleasant surprise to get not just a reply but get it so quickly too!

I have two further questions if you don’t mind

1. How, specifically, would you differentiate a beta sub and a faggot? I’ve read your descriptions for both, but honest the beta sub description sounds very similar to the faggot one but more critical lol.
2. Do you have any advice on how on earth I’d be able to find a dommish partner who is alright with no sex? Feels like an impossible task but I really don’t want to be alone forever. Just want a guy who will rub his sweaty socks on my face in a dom way, have slight control over the reigns in the relationship, AND is okay with no sex. Maybe this question is outside the content of this website though, if so just ignore it if you want.

Thanks again!

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thanks for writing again!

1. The primary difference between a beta-sub and a faggot is the fact that a faggot is more of a slave or object, a possession. A beta-sub is a partner in a relationship, with certain rights and independence and a stake in it. Hopefully that clears it up.

2. I think you will have a hard time finding a partner, honestly. There simply aren’t many Dom Men (even  slightly dominant) who aren’t interested in sex. Frankly, your insistence on these sexualized acts makes me think you aren’t fully asexual. Any asexual people I’ve known want NOTHING to do with sexual acts of ANY kind. So I think you have some soul searching to do on this. 

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I’m glad I was able to find you again Sam as I followed your fags worship alphas site and wondered what happened when you disappeared.  My question is for further clarification on the difference between fags and betas. I love to suck cock and serve dominant alpha guys but a part of me feels drawn to being fully and sexually submissive. Does that make me beta?

I’m glad you’ve found me again, brother! Thank you! 

Faggots are essentially slave males. They don’t have natural rights like most other males; they belong to Men and Alphas to use as they will. A faggot has a need to be enslaved and used by Alphas without choice or question.

Submissive/bottom betas (beta-subs) are autonomous males who do not have a slave mentality and are simply more comfortable being fucked. It’s more of a sexual position rather than an entire lifestyle.

Hopefully that clears up your question.

As for you, I think you sound more like a faggot based on what you mentioned. However, you can try to use my book “Are You A Faggot?” (check out the link in the “Book Store” section). It’s designed to help you answer this yourself.  

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Hi Sam, I’m a fag from New York and I recently meet a alpha online, one thing that confused me was the he told me he was vers and the likes getting fucked. I’m curious Sam can a gay vers be an alpha in your experience and opinion.

Thanks for writing, brother. In my experience, a vers guy cannot be Alpha. It violates one of the tenets of Alphahood, that they are dominant Men. You cannot claim to be dominant if another Man is topping and penetrating you. Sorry. I know that’s going to offend switches out there, but I don’t care. I’m tired of pretending like this is not the truth just to placate their indecisiveness. 

Here’s another truth: practically every vers I’ve ever known eventually makes a decision one way or another eventually, and they almost never choose Alpha. In other words, they’re really bottoms/faggots who are simply trying to resist it. 

I find this behavior to be just as offensive as so-called “cash masters” in findom pretending to be Alpha so that faggots will pay them money, and then they weakly tribute that money to real Alphas in secret. It’s underhanded and pathetic. 

BE WHO YOU WERE BORN TO BE!! 

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Hey Sam, Im Gabe, a 20yo mexican guy that has been following you since 2020
First I wanted to say how grateful I am for you being able to hve this place where you educate and help others discovering the hierarchy
I read about Master José, and I must admit I was interested, but there is a problem. Im sure Im submissive, but Im not sure Im a faggot. I found myself imagining me in the place of many faggots you have help, but a the same time I dont act so submissive in my daily life
I also havent meet a Dom/Alpha irl, and honestly the few I have found online were Alpha Destroyers (and I really have the means to serve in the way others do online). So I hope Master José lives close to my town
Also Im really anxious about even start dating (something I want to work on this year) so Its difficult for me to imagine me openly searching for an Alpha
On the other end Im really romantic and I also want to have a relationship and a bf, I masturbate a lot (my dick, not my ass), but maybe this is because Im an untrained faggot?

Also important, Im a med student so I feel like I dont have enough time to properly serve an Alpha, but I could still be wrong
And sorry for the long question, but there really was so much I think I had to explain, I hope you can help me and give advice

Thanks for writing! 

Not everyone falls into the “Alpha” or “faggot” sections of the Hierarchy. You could be a beta-sub … not a faggot, but just a submissive beta male. Relationships are perfectly doable for you, and there are Men out there who would date you and appreciate you for what you are. There’s really no reason to worry about it. Just accept your beta status.

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In the middle of figuring myself out

Im A 23 year old non white male w/who always found other white males growing up attractive in school, sometimes I stare hard, now it has gotten better

Anyways I’ve started my life during my teen/college years diving into p**n and maybe obsessed w/ p**n and while I fall more on serving and enjoying the feeling, I’m mixed.

1. I rather be on top of hierarchy, never fucked a women, or topped, I don’t feel like fully dominating but at the same time fully serving feels weird. Am I just in the middle.I often live life independently so being w/someone of doing things w/ (groups or two people) is also a bit foreign

u might not be able to give me an answer but I envy those straight hot college guys that look like they blend into life so preciously, it’s like they live life on easy mode and have no problems in life, I’m jealous

If we all could choose where we’d be in Hierarchy, we’d all choose to be Alpha. We look at Alphas and we see the blessed life they enjoy and we want that for ourselves. Who wouldn’t?

But that is not how nature works. That’s not how Hierarchy works. If there is a Top, there is a bottom. If there is a Predator, then there is prey. If there is a King, then there are slaves. 

Judging from your confused question, I’m going to guess that you’re a beta male right now. You seem to lack any experiences of any kind, so that’s where you need to start your journey of self-discovery.  

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I do admire your work and all the effort you put on this website, but I have a feeling that you only talk about Alphas and Faggots. What about the middle? Your hierarchy model has several other layers. Could you please talk more about Betas? I am 19 years old, I am very attracted to powerful man, but I don’t see myself submitting and becoming property of an Alpha. Am I a Beta?

Sorry if I sound rude, but I’m in a conservative Catholic family and it’s really hard to find material about that. When I finally find someone gay they want to fuck and breed me as submissive bottom, but I’m not sure if this is what I am.

You’re absolutely right, and I’m always conscious of my overlooking beta males in my coverage. I think part of the reason for that is that betas are generally overlooked in LIFE, and that’s not fair because beta males have done amazing things. Think about someone like Mr. Rogers, surely a beta male, and how he transformed the lives of generations of children. Many great scientists and musicians are betas. It’s funny but while I was locked up I sketched out a video highlighting famous beta males! I haven’t gotten around to it yet, but it’s coming!

As for you, the answer to your situation is still up in the air because you’re young, and because most people are attracted to powerful Men without being faggots. I created a book titled “Are You A Faggot?” which is designed to walk the reader through a questionnaire to help them figure out if they are a faggot. That might be a place to start. The book can be found by following the link in the Book Store section of this site. 

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Hi! I had a quick question for you – do you think it’s possible for straight fags to exist? I have never once had a “crush” on a man, only women which is why I believe to be straight. I have never had any desire to be in a romantic relationship with a man. I don’t really find men hot or anything.

However I am definitely a faggot. I know I am inferior to other men, and I am attracted to the idea of serving them. I’m even more attracted to serving them non sexually than sexually (i dont really want to serve sexually, i just know it is required of me). I’m attracted to the power they have over me and them using that power. But i’m not attracted to the men themselves.

I’m pretty convinced I am a “straight” faggot, but I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!

I’m not fully convinced you qualify as a “faggot” just because you desire to serve powerful superior Alphas. That’s because BETA MALES also have that desire to serve Alphas. However, if you started cleaning and cooking and doing faggot-like chores for an Alpha, I’m pretty sure he’s going to think of you as a faggot rather than a beta. But I have known straight beta males who loved serving the nonsexual needs of superior Men (I definitely saw this during my time in prison).

I’m not discounting that you could be a very repressed faggot, but for now that would be my answer.

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