Hi Sam,

I’ve been following you for a long time ever since one of my first ever doms told me to start listening to your podcast.  I’m M 25 I’ve known I’ve been submissive for a while now but I’ve always been too scared to really move forward with it.  Recently I started talking to a Master and he basically told me he was going to own me.  He already had a stable of both fags and women that he uses at his pleasure.  I stepped away from him twice now communicating that I wasn’t ready to move forward with an actual owner but he was fun to talk to and I was captivated by his personality.  Most recently I found him again on an app and we started talking again but this time he said I wasn’t running he took all of my info and now has complete control if I don’t do what he says my friends and family will get videos of me debasing myself for my Master.  Do I just accept that I’m now owned.  I’ve always dreamed about having a dom boyfriend but nothing like having an owner with a stable.  I’m a little scared and need some advice.

Shay

Thanks, brother. 

You know, I found it a little weird that you didn’t include the fact that your Master is a black Alpha. Had you not put it in the title, I wouldn’t have known. I believe it does make something of a difference in how I’d answer, and I’ll explain why.

I’ve served a lot of black Alphas, and they really fall cleanly into two camps: (1) the Alphas who are just looking for momentary holes to use, and (2) overwhelmingly dominant Alphas who are extremely possessive and dominant. In my experience, the black Masters simply will not take “no” for an answer and will have their way regardless of situations or protests. That’s your Master. I’d take his threats seriously. 

I can’t tell you how disappointed I am in your Master. Sadly, he doesn’t realize how weak these threats make him look. A truly powerful Man worthy of worship and service DRAWS people to himself naturally and they gladly submit. Forcing you to serve him under the threat of him ruining your life is pretty pathetic. I hope he rethinks such a stupid and inferior course.

But I must add this caveat: No matter how much I disagree with your Master’s threats, you brought on his stern, controlling nature with your immature game-playing. I see this shit from faggots all the time in findom, and I’ve had plenty of Alphas in that scene complain to me about it. Maybe this will teach you that, if you keep tapping a shark on the nose, it’s eventually going to turn and bite you in half!

Your only way out of this is to leave him and let him try to contact people and embarrass you. That will be uncomfortable, but the people in your life worth keeping will forgive you and move on. Trust me, they will.

But before making that choice, it might be worth it to try serving him. Find out what it’s like to live as the owned faggot of an experienced Master. This is your chance. I understand why you’re nervous, brother. It’s a huge step. But like most steps, they produce FORWARD MOMENTUM.

And you’re a faggot who needs that more than anything right now.

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Black Alphas just innately know how to use fåggots sexually, and I’ve never been able to figure out why (even though I’ve swallowed enough black DNA to change my account status on Ancestry.com).

They just have a natural aggression that controls us.

I’ve been having an issue when chatting with potential subs to meet up for the first session, they cancel or ghost me on the day of. I wouldn’t think anything of it but I’m getting the same reasons from them: my stomach or have to stay late at work or I’m sick. And the bad part is that these guys initiate contact with me and ask me to serve. Once I ask my screening questions and decide to meet I’m always eager to use/train a new sub so imagine the disappointment when they cancel. I’ve started to take this personal and think these guys do this on purpose. What are your thoughts?

Master, thank you for writing to me!

This is a huge issue for all Alphas and Masters eager to own and train a faggot, and I definitely sympathize with you. Alphas in general are no-nonsense action takers (it’s part of being a leader, after all), and faggots are by nature weak and timid.

Now, that’s always been the case of course, but there is a more insidious problem that is new in human interaction: the internet. This has given faggots the opportunity to have online interactions with great Alphas that they then use for masturbation rather than a chance at fulfillment. Once the faggot gets off, it thinks it has experienced something (which it hasn’t) and satisfied an urge they had (temporarily) while also disrespecting Alphas. It’s an absolutely shameful thing that I firmly oppose.

I was never a faggot that advocated for universal chastity for all faggots until I started this site and really got to see firsthand the terrible and selfish behavior of my fag brothers. It’s embarrassing, but also sad because I know the end result of that path is nothing but empty and meaningless darkness.

Master, please don’t take it personally. This is a defect in the larger faggot population, not you. I wish more Alphas took faggot ownership and training more seriously at younger ages in order to enforce a proper mindset into more faggots, but that’s probably a dream of mine that cannot come true.

Ultimately, I know you will find good and trainable faggots to serve you just as you deserve, Master. Stick with your principled approach, and you will find faggots who respond to that. Just keep this in mind: your approach is effectively weeding out eventual time wasters. It would be far worse had you invested a lot of time into training a fag only to have it flake.

I’m just so grateful that Masters like you exist, Men who value their own power and know how to mold faggots into valuable property. All true faggots applaud Alphas like you, Master. So please don’t give up!

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