I’m curious if you have heard of this situation before. I am a fag with an extremely high sex drive- before locking up I would jerk off 2 to 3 times a day minimum. I have quite a few straight male friends-—they know I’m gay but don’t know I’m a caged faggot. They think I’m a top, and I never corrected them. Recently they were talking about sex, and one of them was talking about how dominant he was. I literally had to make an excuse to leave, take off my cage and jerk off, then come back, otherwsie I was going to lose my mind. Every time im with them I just want them to rough fuck me.

How can a fag like me control myself? Should I find more men to suck? Or should I start jerking off more to get it out of my system?

Hi brother! Thanks for the question!

Congrats on the choice to self-lock! It’s an important step in a faggot’s life and the process of molding your mind into perpetual subspace. 

However, chastity does no good if you’re still unlocking two/three times a day to jerk off, or unlocking to jerk off whenever it becomes difficult. The difficulty is part of the journey of chastity, and you’re denying yourself the opportunity to grow every time you unlock and masturbate.

I was able to stop masturbating through the application of my mind. I simply started meditating on how shameful it was that I was using my penis like a Man, how I was bringing shame on other Men by using my penis the way they can. I became embarrassed to use the urinals in bathrooms because those belonged to Men, etc. So start thinking about it that way, and I think eventually you’ll come to the right conclusion.

But I will add this about the little story you told me: you should’ve revealed your chastity to your straight Alpha friends right then and there. They need to know you’re actually a locked faggot. This could solve two issues at once.

There is something triggering to straight Alphas when they see a faggot in chastity. They’re ALWAYS curious about it, but it also turns them on in a bizarre way. It’s almost like the caged faggot is wearing a sign that reads “CUMDUMP”. They understand that a faggot wearing a chastity cage is not a Man and not equal, and oftentimes they want to take control of those faggots. 

Besides that benefit, if/when your Alpha friends use you, you’ll also solve your horniness through increased use. 

I’m always a proponent of being honest with those around oneself. When you are, awesome things happen. When you give dominant straight Alphas permission, they take incredible control and do things you’d never imagine possible. 

So next chance you get, reveal your chastity to them and see what develops! 

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I’m a straight, married 29 year old alpha, and I recently found your site. Even though I’m straight, I’ve been using gay guys for years since they can take a much more intense and brutal fucking than any of my girlfriends ever could. However, I HATE it when a fag’s little dick gets hard when I’m fucking it. It’s such a turn off. I tried a cock cage once, but didn’t really like seeing that down there either, and also I don’t use my fags very regularly. It’s more just a hookup every now and then. It can be a few days between or even several months, and they know not to contact me in between, so I can’t be managing its chastity.

Any ideas on how to instruct them to keep their dicks soft? Or maybe I need to punish them when they don’t, but I’m worried the little fuckers will enjoy that and only make the problem worse.

Master, thank you for writing to me! It’s always wonderful when I meet powerful straight Alphas like you who understand the upper-echelon of Hierarchical power that faggot ownership unlocks! 

First of all, congratulations on your ownership and use of faggots, Master! I’d love to hear more about that if you ever have the time to write me. All God and Apex Alphas should be celebrated, because through the exercise of your power and dominance you change lives and give fulfillment and purpose to inferiors everywhere! My email is hi*****************@***il.com.

I also want to congratulate you on correctly identifying the problem with disciplining faggots with more violence and pain. You’re absolutely right – most faggots would only get more turned on by that method. It’s a mistake I see so many Alphas make with their faggots. It really shows me that you are an insightful Master. Your faggots are lucky to be owned by you, Master!  

There are really only two solutions to your issue, Master, but you might not like either of them. First and foremost, chastity is going to solve the problem. I don’t know how much you need to monitor that once it’s locked in place. And there are colors available (like pink) that might be more humorous than irritating. 

The reason why I am an advocate of chastity (especially in this instance) is because it blunts the faggot’s ability to masturbate, which then lowers its libido. Ultimately I think that goal is more important to you than whether the faggot wears a chastity cage given your general disinterest in it.

The second method involves focused, intensive training designed to make the faggot despise its penis so much that it becomes disgusted by it. This is something I did to myself, actually, which has resulted in an eight-year stretch of no masturbation or orgasms (and also led me to self-lock four years ago). It’s possible for faggots to do this, too, but most of them don’t view Hierarchy as intensely important as I do. 

But given what you said about not wanting to get too bogged down by your faggots, this second option is probably more headache burden than you really want to handle. 

Master, I do very much thank you for writing to me. I do hope I gave you some help! Please let me know if you need anything else! Thank you!  

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This Master checked in on his faggot after it came home late, and apparently it broke Master’s rules about partying.

Now there are plenty of ways the Master could correct the faggot’s behavior, and I’m sure many of my faggot readers would come up with creative ways to punish it.

But this Master chose to give it dick.

In my philosophy, training faggots off of bad behavior involves DENYING THEM WHAT THEY WANT. In other words, DICK.

In the end, a Master will choose what’s appropriate and what works with each of his faggots.