Hi sam,

Bit of a messy situation. I’ve been with my straight alpha for 4 years. We met on Instagram, but I fly out to see him a few times a year.

For the first 2 years, we messaged pretty much every day and I became something of an emotional pillar for him. We agreed on exclusivity, and I’ve been his fag ever since. I’m only allowed to serve and talk to him. It’s VERY intense, but being long-distance comes with challenges.

In recent years, his career has taken off and he only messages me maybe 3 times a week. I’ve brought this up, and he says he cares about me, but he’s busy and this is just how things are.

Truth is, I’m having a very difficult time. Ownership has made me dependent on him. I feel like my emotional needs aren’t being met, and most of my time is spent isolated and alone. Any tips on how to resolve this? Or should I ask to end exclusivity?

I REALLY like him, and he’s even indicated he wants to keep me after he marries his girl. I just with things could go back to how they used to be.

Thanks.

Thank you for writing to me, brother!

Congratulations for serving a straight Master for four years, especially given that it’s been almost an entirely remote relationship. It’s commendable, and it certainly speaks well of both you and your Master that you’re both loyal, genuine people!

I’m afraid you’ll need to accept the situation as it is unless there is a radical shift in the life of one of you. He’s a straight Alpha who is now focusing on his new career, and likely doing a fair amount of fucking and partying as well. Meanwhile, you are far away. Friends online don’t last for four years, let alone a straight Alpha and a faggot.

You seem very loyal, brother, and I feel for you. Most fags (including me in my younger days) would’ve just found someone else to serve by now and just lie to their Masters. However, I’ve seen straight Alphas become very attached and even choose their fags over females simply because of their fag’s loyalty and self-sacrifice. Which one is your Master? I have no idea.

I think it might be beneficial to talk to your Master in the most humble and submissive way about how you need training and guidance that he doesn’t have the time for, and ask him if he thinks you should find a local Alpha to serve and train you. Emphasize that you want to do this so you might be a better faggot in the future for him.

By doing that, you’re showcasing two things I’m sure he’s not considering (or even understanding):

1. Faggots need constant training and use to improve

2. Faggots want this training. It’s like water to a plant.

I’m sure at this point your Master just looks at this like a fetish, but by telling him these things he might understand that faggots are real and valuable and, like any other valuable thing in an Alpha’s life a faggot needs to be tended to.

I’d try that and see how he responds.

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hey sam, so this faggit has a long-distance Owner/Trainer that has it in chastity and Sir-ving other Men. it is very happy with Him, and wants to eventually be installed in His household as a cumdump. it was ordered to a Cocksuck shift at a local bookstore, and immediately on arrival, overtaken by a BBC who proceeded to run it for the four hours allowed in the arcade (edging Him, getting other Men off, etc). it had been in hopes that the KingBBC would agree to be the local Keyholder proxy, and faggit put them in touch. When it reported to KingBBC’s house for more Use a few days later, They had been corresponding, and KingBBC started to relate that He didn’t trust Owner/Trainer as a good Man. That He “got a bad vibe” which He repeated several times, and in the vebal abuse, was asking things like “don’t u prefer this real Cock to one u have never met” etc. faggit begged off having to choose, and KingBBC seemed to understand. it is kind of perceiving Owner/Trainer as more “Destroyer” in terms of approach, and KingBBC as more “Protector”, but both seem good Men to it. And Owner/Trainer has the prior claim, of course. it is feeling like respectfully asking KingBBC to take up His concerns directly with Owner/Trainer, as Men should discuss/decide, and faggits should do as they are fucking Told. Do u or yr readers have any insights to help the situation? thanks very much

Thank you for the question!

Well, you have a pretty great problem to have! Two competing Alphas! Nice!

Here’s my take on long-distance service situations they don’t work. It lasts for a little while, but eventually Alphas get tired of spending time on something that can’t see or touch or smell. Meanwhile, faggots are very unfaithful and notoriously fickle. They’re doomed to fail.

Meanwhile, you have KingBBC locally wanting to own/use you. I don’t think this is really much of a choice, brother. While the long-distance Master has helped you start, he’s just not going to be able to take you much further. You need deep, hands-on training by someone like KingBBC.

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