Hi sam,

Bit of a messy situation. I’ve been with my straight alpha for 4 years. We met on Instagram, but I fly out to see him a few times a year.

For the first 2 years, we messaged pretty much every day and I became something of an emotional pillar for him. We agreed on exclusivity, and I’ve been his fag ever since. I’m only allowed to serve and talk to him. It’s VERY intense, but being long-distance comes with challenges.

In recent years, his career has taken off and he only messages me maybe 3 times a week. I’ve brought this up, and he says he cares about me, but he’s busy and this is just how things are.

Truth is, I’m having a very difficult time. Ownership has made me dependent on him. I feel like my emotional needs aren’t being met, and most of my time is spent isolated and alone. Any tips on how to resolve this? Or should I ask to end exclusivity?

I REALLY like him, and he’s even indicated he wants to keep me after he marries his girl. I just with things could go back to how they used to be.

Thanks.

Thank you for writing to me, brother!

Congratulations for serving a straight Master for four years, especially given that it’s been almost an entirely remote relationship. It’s commendable, and it certainly speaks well of both you and your Master that you’re both loyal, genuine people!

I’m afraid you’ll need to accept the situation as it is unless there is a radical shift in the life of one of you. He’s a straight Alpha who is now focusing on his new career, and likely doing a fair amount of fucking and partying as well. Meanwhile, you are far away. Friends online don’t last for four years, let alone a straight Alpha and a faggot.

You seem very loyal, brother, and I feel for you. Most fags (including me in my younger days) would’ve just found someone else to serve by now and just lie to their Masters. However, I’ve seen straight Alphas become very attached and even choose their fags over females simply because of their fag’s loyalty and self-sacrifice. Which one is your Master? I have no idea.

I think it might be beneficial to talk to your Master in the most humble and submissive way about how you need training and guidance that he doesn’t have the time for, and ask him if he thinks you should find a local Alpha to serve and train you. Emphasize that you want to do this so you might be a better faggot in the future for him.

By doing that, you’re showcasing two things I’m sure he’s not considering (or even understanding):

1. Faggots need constant training and use to improve

2. Faggots want this training. It’s like water to a plant.

I’m sure at this point your Master just looks at this like a fetish, but by telling him these things he might understand that faggots are real and valuable and, like any other valuable thing in an Alpha’s life a faggot needs to be tended to.

I’d try that and see how he responds.

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I’m curious why you don’t recommend random cocksucking for younger unowned faggots. Isn’t that part of a faggot’s purpose? I feel like it’s great practice for the faggot, and also a great way for men to get used to the ease and pleasure of using a faggot. Kneeling for a man, or a group of men, can be such a wonderful experience too.

Thank you for writing!

I’ve never discouraged faggots from having their slutty periods during which they suck everything they can. After all, I did that for a few years myself. I definitely learned a lot about my purpose from indiscriminately sucking dick randomly week after week, but in my heart I eventually yearned to be owned. Fortunately that happened, and I received deep personal training to make me a better faggot. Random cocksuckers don’t receive this. I think that’s why I always want to recommend true service to a Master, because the training I received was invaluable.

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Hi Sam. I hope you’re having a wonderful day/evening. I wanted to ask how do I make my straight alpha friend become my master? Me and him have been friends for a few years now and I really want him to my master. He’s not fully aware I’m a faggot, but he knows I like kinky things. I’ve been trying to gauge how he feels about these certain things by making “jokes,” like paying to smell his feet, but I don’t know how to further push it without just admitting it to him. I’m just scared it would drive him away if I came on too strong, but I’d really like him to be my master. What is the best way to get the point across? Thank you for your help in advance!

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First of all, there is no way to “make” your straight Alpha friend do anything. There are techniques you can try to arouse his dominance, but to my knowledge there is no hypnosis technique for this! Believe me, I wish there was!

So let me get this straight: you’ve made jokes about paying him to smell his feet, and it didn’t register at all? That’s odd, although I suspect that he’s started to turn questions over in his mind.

Given that I don’t know how old you both are, or what your situation is (do you spend a lot of time together alone, etc.), my advice is limited. But my primary recommendation is to print out my “Letter To An Alpha” and humbly, submissively give it to him to read. It’s designed to gently bridge the gap between a straight Alpha and a faggot. Or, you can do something I often recommend, which is to ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Depending on his answer, you can lead him to a discussion of Hierarchy. You could even tell him you came across this site and it made you curious about his thoughts on hierarchy.

You obviously need to engage him more specifically. These are the steps I think you should take, brother.

Keep me informed!

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