Hi Sam, happy new year

I was wondering, have you ever come across this before I was at a party and I saw this couple this 275 pound muscle man hairy as all hell I won’t lie. I wanted to get fucked by him a lot but he was already with someone.

His partner was this skinny surfer boy type, and I thought that he was the bottom well they invited me back to their hotel room for the night, and I learned that the big guy was actually the bottom and the little guy was the master and he actually had quite a nice healthy looking 8 inches on him

Have you ever encountered this before or do you think it’s like just a one time thing because I’ve only encountered this once and that was 10 years ago

Thanks for the question! Happy New Year to you, too!

The situation you describe is one of the great proofs of a definitive hierarchical truth: our place in hierarchy is something we are born with INSIDE, and has nothing to do with our bodies or circumstances. By all rights, that Master/faggot couple you met should’ve fit the pattern that their outward appearances suggested, but they were the exact opposite! The skinny surfer dude with the big dick was born Alpha, and the burly, muscle-bound hairball was born a faggot!

This is why I’m repeatedly warning against judging Men based on outward appearances!

You asked if I’ve ever encountered such counterintuitive couples before, and the answer is YES! I’ve chronicled multiple couples like this. My favorite was straight Master G and his giant muscle fag Jamie. Master G was a short Alpha, and his faggot Jamie was a bodybuilder with a large dick that Master G had caged. Their thread ended with Master G marrying his faggot (using a ring he allowed me to choose!).

So yes, it’s a very real (although I’d also add RARE) thing within hierarchical couplings.

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Hi Sam, thanks for taking the time to respond and by presenting another alternative (that I’m actually an Alpha who has just slid off track).

I would say I’m definitely not an Alpha for a few reasons:

1. I have always felt like I needed to be spanked since my early teen years (the humiliation, pain, vulnerability and exposure all turn me on so much) – spanking was the “gateway” kink to realising humiliation has been at the centre off all my kinks (sissy/cfnm/cmnm/forcedbi/faggotry/slavery/chastity/exposure). I believe true Alphas will have been fantasising about using their cocks, not being naked over someone’s lap getting their bare bottoms spanked.
2. I like topping, but I couldn’t be satisfied form only topping. I’ve also failed to get hard several times to fuck women because it made me feel like I was too dominant (I also don’t like receiving blowjobs). But if I start typing about how I want a big strong man to grab me, force me on my knees dump his loads down my throat I start straining in my cage.
3. I started doing onlyfans with my ex girlfriend doing Femdom (me dressed like a sissy or just naked and in chastity getting my balls busted, spanked, pegged and humiliated). I signed a blackmail contract and she made me start serving men (filmed my first time sucking cock and uploaded it). We broke up a while ago but knowing she still has embarrassing photos/videos of me turns me on so much.

I don’t know if I’m a faggot, but sexually I’m definitely not an Alpha. I feel like the powerful ‘Alpha’ side of me that is a strong, assertive, dominant fight fuels my faggot, cocksucking, sissy humiliation side and vice versa.

The more powerful I feel, the better the high when I’m on my knees being humiliated.

The more of a pathetic faggot I am, the stronger I feel I need to workout and train.

I like knowing that I’m a sub who is powerful, a bit like a gladiator or guard dog. Powerful, strong and uncontrollable unless you’re my Master.

It’s hard to communicate everything well in such a short message but any help is greatly appreciated

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Okay, well I appreciate the extra information, brother. There is a sub-class of faggots who lift weights and build massive physiques. Similarly, there is a sub-class of Alphas who prefer larger, more muscular faggots. On FWA I featured the thread of straight Master G and the larger, muscular caged faggot Jamie he owned and eventually married. Master G loved conquering his mountainous faggot. It could be the same with you.

I think you should just go for whatever you really want. You’ll eventually find the right situation that will fulfill you properly. I’ve never heard of a physically-fit gay male or faggot who never finds his place. There’s always a place for someone like you!

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