I’m curious if you have heard of this situation before. I am a fag with an extremely high sex drive- before locking up I would jerk off 2 to 3 times a day minimum. I have quite a few straight male friends-—they know I’m gay but don’t know I’m a caged faggot. They think I’m a top, and I never corrected them. Recently they were talking about sex, and one of them was talking about how dominant he was. I literally had to make an excuse to leave, take off my cage and jerk off, then come back, otherwsie I was going to lose my mind. Every time im with them I just want them to rough fuck me.

How can a fag like me control myself? Should I find more men to suck? Or should I start jerking off more to get it out of my system?

Hi brother! Thanks for the question!

Congrats on the choice to self-lock! It’s an important step in a faggot’s life and the process of molding your mind into perpetual subspace. 

However, chastity does no good if you’re still unlocking two/three times a day to jerk off, or unlocking to jerk off whenever it becomes difficult. The difficulty is part of the journey of chastity, and you’re denying yourself the opportunity to grow every time you unlock and masturbate.

I was able to stop masturbating through the application of my mind. I simply started meditating on how shameful it was that I was using my penis like a Man, how I was bringing shame on other Men by using my penis the way they can. I became embarrassed to use the urinals in bathrooms because those belonged to Men, etc. So start thinking about it that way, and I think eventually you’ll come to the right conclusion.

But I will add this about the little story you told me: you should’ve revealed your chastity to your straight Alpha friends right then and there. They need to know you’re actually a locked faggot. This could solve two issues at once.

There is something triggering to straight Alphas when they see a faggot in chastity. They’re ALWAYS curious about it, but it also turns them on in a bizarre way. It’s almost like the caged faggot is wearing a sign that reads “CUMDUMP”. They understand that a faggot wearing a chastity cage is not a Man and not equal, and oftentimes they want to take control of those faggots. 

Besides that benefit, if/when your Alpha friends use you, you’ll also solve your horniness through increased use. 

I’m always a proponent of being honest with those around oneself. When you are, awesome things happen. When you give dominant straight Alphas permission, they take incredible control and do things you’d never imagine possible. 

So next chance you get, reveal your chastity to them and see what develops! 

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Hi brother Sam, my name is Luke, i’m a faggot and i am serving casually a gay Alpha who i met on grindr, it’s been 8 months we are meeting regularly. He takes chastity really seriously, that’s a big thing for Him. i already enjoyed it, i know it’s good for fags, but i could never go too long with it by myself. He’s pushing my limits, ordering me to keep locked 24/7 since 7 months ago, we had a few breaks between this time, the maximum i stayed locked in a row was 1 month.

The main problem is: i am able to cum caged, i can’t control myself, when i see i am rubbing my locked clit desperate to cum, most of the times i want just to edge myself and stop, but sometimes i went too far and came. i told Him when it happened and He punished me, but i can’t help myself. Do you have any advice? i know i need to stop doing it to focus 100% on Him and His needs.

Thank you for writing! 

First of all, congrats on finding a gay Master who takes chastity seriously and wants to help you deepen your submission. It seems to be a rare thing to find gay Masters devoted to caging their faggots, so that’s great for you! 

I understand your concern. I was uncaged when I voluntarily stopped masturbating altogether. What really helped me was a deep disgust and shame from masturbating because I knew I was insulting Men. Ultimately I do believe that is the only way to success against masturbation. The correct shame needs to be greater than the pleasure. 

Start meditating on why you serve. Really think about and focus on how amazing Men are, and why they deserve obedience, respect, and HONOR. Forget about your peepee and focus instead on your hole. That is what you truly are, after all. 

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I’ve been having an issue when chatting with potential subs to meet up for the first session, they cancel or ghost me on the day of. I wouldn’t think anything of it but I’m getting the same reasons from them: my stomach or have to stay late at work or I’m sick. And the bad part is that these guys initiate contact with me and ask me to serve. Once I ask my screening questions and decide to meet I’m always eager to use/train a new sub so imagine the disappointment when they cancel. I’ve started to take this personal and think these guys do this on purpose. What are your thoughts?

Master, thank you for writing to me!

This is a huge issue for all Alphas and Masters eager to own and train a faggot, and I definitely sympathize with you. Alphas in general are no-nonsense action takers (it’s part of being a leader, after all), and faggots are by nature weak and timid.

Now, that’s always been the case of course, but there is a more insidious problem that is new in human interaction: the internet. This has given faggots the opportunity to have online interactions with great Alphas that they then use for masturbation rather than a chance at fulfillment. Once the faggot gets off, it thinks it has experienced something (which it hasn’t) and satisfied an urge they had (temporarily) while also disrespecting Alphas. It’s an absolutely shameful thing that I firmly oppose.

I was never a faggot that advocated for universal chastity for all faggots until I started this site and really got to see firsthand the terrible and selfish behavior of my fag brothers. It’s embarrassing, but also sad because I know the end result of that path is nothing but empty and meaningless darkness.

Master, please don’t take it personally. This is a defect in the larger faggot population, not you. I wish more Alphas took faggot ownership and training more seriously at younger ages in order to enforce a proper mindset into more faggots, but that’s probably a dream of mine that cannot come true.

Ultimately, I know you will find good and trainable faggots to serve you just as you deserve, Master. Stick with your principled approach, and you will find faggots who respond to that. Just keep this in mind: your approach is effectively weeding out eventual time wasters. It would be far worse had you invested a lot of time into training a fag only to have it flake.

I’m just so grateful that Masters like you exist, Men who value their own power and know how to mold faggots into valuable property. All true faggots applaud Alphas like you, Master. So please don’t give up!

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