My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for the past six years. Recently he had to move in a different country for some months so we are experiencing long distance for the first time.

I refer to us as “boyfriends” because that’s how we’re publicly viewed but as a matter of fact I’m a faggot and he’s my master.

To spice things up, since we won’t be able to see each other for another two months, he decided to revoke any permission to touch myself, so that I could “enjoy it more when we are together”, as he said. Naturally I accepted his will without any doubt that it is the best thing that I could do, but now, two weeks in, I’m really struggling. I don’t have a cage, so I feel “it” yearning to be touched in a way. I never did chastity before but i really don’t want to disappoint my master in any way so I’m refraining to do anything that he wouldn’t want me to do.

What I’m asking is if there’s anything that could make this easier??

also I’m curious if don’t touching myself for so long will make cumming from being fucked easier in some ways.

Brother, thank you for writing!

I really admire you for trying so hard (no pun intended) to remain faithful to your Master’s command to refrain from masturbating! It’s definitely not easy, especially if you’re new to it and are accustomed to jerking off all the time. I know too many faggots who would just masturbate anyway, their unfaithful and disobedient minds reasoning that their Master would never know for sure. You’re clearly different!

I don’t have any surefire method for this … I only know what worked for me. I had largely masturbated at least once every day since I started puberty, even while being owned. None of my Masters ever knew anything about it, nor did any of them ever demand anything regarding masturbation with me because I was never hard while serving.

When I started this site in 2015, I was still masturbating constantly (all the amazing porn I was uploading didn’t help!). However, as I really came to deeply know and respect some powerful God Alphas, I began to feel shame that I was using my penis like other Men, Men like them. That shame led me to slowly lose an interest in masturbating until I stopped.

By then, I was discovering the pride these Masters felt when their faggots accepted chastity in order to honor them, and my path toward chastity began. I finally understood that chastity isn’t a fetish (which is what I previously thought), but it is a profound way that faggots can show complete respect and devotion to both Alphas and to service. Finally I could no longer take it, so I caged myself (I was without an Owner at the time). The wonders I’ve discovered since being caged far outweigh the desire to masturbate, I assure you.

So I guess this is long way of telling you that you need to develop a disgust and shame for the practice, just the same way longterm smokers finally get sick of it and put them down forever. It’s really that, plus the fact that you love your Master more than you love yourself. There really isn’t more magic than that.

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My name is Avi. I’m a 21 year old faggot.  I wanted to write about my experience being cunted. I was cunted twice. Once by myself using a dildo. I’d been pounding my pussy with it, which by the way for some reason is starting to look like an actual pussy? When I started trembling and the dildo hit something inside me and I trembling even worse and began to cry as I came, cum dribbling out of my cage, as my entire body shook from an anal orgasm. And when I pulled out the dildo I felt so empty it hurt. I craved something in me, and it took me a month to realize I craved alpha cock. Which led to me getting cunted by what was once one of my friends. I trembled, I cried,  I came over and over, and I was changed by it all. Now I still have this weird emptiness in me that only cock can sate, and my asshole looks like a pussy for some reason. Any ideas as to why?

My brother, thank you for the awesome question! 

First of all, congratulations on managing to cunt yourself with a dildo! It’s not easy to do. You must’ve been in deep subspace while fucking yourself with it! I think it’s great that your first cunting experience happened that way, because in that case you were able to pay attention to all of the sensations you were giving yourself. 

The thing you hit inside you that triggered the cunting cascade of orgasms, trembling, and tears was very likely your prostate. 

It’s very interesting that you felt that void after cunting yourself with a dildo. You asked me about that empty, yearning feeling – I call it “The Void”. And guess what? I wrote about it specifically in the article “Cunting And The Void“! You can follow that link to read the article! I think you will recognize some of what you’re experiencing in it! 

As for your hole resembling a pussy now that you’ve been cunted and bred a couple of times, don’t worry too much about it. This is perfectly normal for fucked, cunted faggots. It’s where the term “boy pussy” comes from. And guess what?? I’ve written about that as well, in this article titled “Boy Pussy“!! Once again, I’ve linked to that article so you can read it! 

I’m really happy for you, my brother! You not only experienced cunting, but The Void it created caused you to seek out Alpha dick and get cunted “properly”! 

But I’m also proud of you for being aware and curious enough to seek out answers to these transformations in both your body and mind as you more fully fulfill your purpose! So many faggots miss these things, which is a shame. Your awareness will help you progress faster and with more success! 

Hopefully you’ll want to share your experiences with this former friend/Alpha who cunted you! Thank you again for writing! 

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Hello there,

How do I stay motivated to stay in Chastity? I dont have a proper owner- if I did this wouldn’t be an issue. I do have some alphas that fuck me on occasion, but it is very causual and not quite an ‘owner’ situation if you will. Neither of them are very into chastity, and one them actually doesn’t want me to wear a cage (he doesnt touch my dick, but I guess he doesnt like the look of them).

But outside of those, I often give in after maybe a week or so and unlock and jerk off 3 to 4 times in a row. How do I stop?

Thanks for the question, brother! 

Stopping any kind of addiction (like masturbation) always involves a mindset/belief system shift. For example, people don’t permanently quit smoking until they truly get grossed out by the habit and put it down. 

I finally stopped masturbating all the time when I began to think so deeply about how inferior I was to Men that I began to be ashamed to cum like them. I felt I was insulting them.

After that step, about two years later I was so ashamed about being free that I caged myself in honor of Alphas and Men in general. 

I do think the way I did it is the framework for faggots who are unowned or owned by Masters who don’t care about chastity. It all starts in your mind and how you view the truth about yourself. 

Chastity became such an important part of my life that it was disorienting to take off the cage for my imprisonment for two years. Upon my release, I couldn’t wait to put it back on! 

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Hi Sam.

I’m the bottom who wrote you about two weeks ago wondering if I had cunted myself with a dildo. In my first message I mentioned how I started riding my toys without touching my cock and learned how to anal orgasm and that now it was a lot harder to orgasm from jerking off without anal stimulation. Well, I would like to report that two weeks later it is almost impossible for me to orgasm from jerking off even with anal stimulation. My erections are softer and stimulation feels a lot more muted than before. It’s gotten to the point where I could do it for an hour but I still get soft and don’t care about finishing.

The only thing that makes me feel satisfied is a couple anal orgasms now. I think my brain has actually been rewiring since accidentally cunting myself because it’s the only way I can masturbate now. It actually has become a bit of a turn-on like I’m emasculating myself and I’ve started to refer to my ass as a pussy and my orgasms as pussygasms because my penis is no longer a sexual organ. I’ve even been looking at chastity cages to make sure it stays this way.

So my questions are:

Is this a common experience after cunting?

Is this what “the void” is?

Can I still call myself a man after this?

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Hi brother! Thanks for the question! 

I’m honestly so glad you wrote in again with such an insightful follow-up, because your first question caused me to really consider self-cunting and the larger implications of the cunting process. Your follow-up touches on some of the same thoughts I had, namely the alterations that happen due to cunting. 

I’ve never self-cunted through anal play like you did, so my viewpoint was skewed. I always attributed the severe changes that occur within a faggot once it’s been cunted to the power of Alpha cock alone, and not the physiological changes within the faggot. But your experience shows that a faggot’s cunting changes its very nature, and not in relation to Alphas at all. It’s interesting. 

To answer your questions:

1 . Yes, what you’re experiencing is very common among cunted faggots. After my first cunting, my urge and ability to masturbate severely decreased. Part of the reason for that (I think) is because the sensations of cunting are so extraordinary that traditional masturbation pales in comparison. But there’s more to it than that.

2. What I call “The Void” is related to cunting in a way, although “The Void” can occur in uncunted faggots. “The Void” is simply the aching emptiness we faggots have after having Alpha dick inside us. That ache causes us to stumble around in a daze in search of having another dick fill it up again. 

3. No, you cannot call yourself a Man after this, because (as you should now realize) you weren’t a Man before you cunted yourself. You acknowledge this in the fact that you’re now referring to your hole as a “pussy”. That’s why I call mine a pussy as well. Every cunted faggot has a transformed view of themselves as something almost like a third gender. That’s why we have a separate word to describe us: FAGGOTS. I suggest that you get used to it.

Semantics aside, I would never insult Men by putting myself in the same category as they are given the mind-shift I’ve experienced through cunting. I’ll never be the same again. 

I’m a little surprised I haven’t heard from faggots who’ve tried (and succeeded) in cunting themselves with large dildos after you published your experience. I know I’ve been eyeing up this huge black dildo I have … but I’d still rather be cunted by actual Alpha dick. But who knows? I’m weak! 

Thanks again, brother!  

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Hi Sam.

I’m 25 and a bottom.  A total bottom actually – and I read your posts about cunting with great curiosity. After some research on reddit I started to masturbate solely with my dildos while wearing a jockstrap so I wouldn’t jerk off like I used to.  The first time I did this in June I focused solely on the sensations from my ass for the first time ever while riding one of my larger toys. After about five minutes I could feel something building in me and soon I felt like I had to push out. I shoved the head past my second hole while continuing to ride and felt like I was going to pass out from so much pleasure. After about thirty seconds it ended and I released my breath and laid on the floor for a few minutes trying to catch my breath.

I have a couple questions though.  Is this what an anal orgasm is? Ever since I’ve started to have experiences like that it’s a lot harder to cum from jerking off and I need some type of anal stimulation to get me there. Does this mean I’ve cunted myself? Is that even possible?? I’ve been craving anal a lot more than before because it just feels soo good now!

Also I was wondering if an Alpha always has to be a top. Are there Alpha bottoms and Fag tops?

Hi brother! Thank you for the question! 

Wow! You managed to pull off something pretty rare – cunting yourself with a dildo! What you described is a classic cunting, but I’m not sure I’ve ever heard of a credible “self-cunt” (love that term, BTW LOL) until now! 

Yes, it’s definitely possible to do it, as you found out. And, just like any other cunting, you’re now transformed! See what I mean about how being cunted overwhelms your senses and makes you look at everything differently? 

As for your other question, yes a true Alpha is always a Top. It doesn’t make any sense for an Alpha to be dominant while getting fucked. I know there are some “bossy bottoms” out there who mistakenly believe they’re Alpha, but they aren’t. They simply haven’t encountered a real Alpha who would put them in their proper place.  

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I’m glad this voyeur video was captured, because it shows off so much about how Alphas use faggots in private for pleasure.

We see the Alpha’s hesitation at first, but it was an opportunity to use a mouth, so he took it. We see natural roles on display.

THIS HAPPENS EVERYDAY!

A second and last quick question for you. I recently saw a video of an alpha roughly fucking his fag and slapping him a bit- of course the fag was enjoying it. However, the fag was furiously jerking his cock the whole time. Is it just me, or does that seem extremely disrespectful? It just seems so selfish to touch your cock when your focus should be on the alpha dick. It annoyed me enough to write in about it, I would never do something like that.

Thanks for the second question!

Yes, it is extremely disrespectful for a faggot to be doing anything with its penis and balls other than holding them back and out of the way for Alpha penetration. This is one of multiple justifications for chastity cages for faggots. I’m a big proponent of them these days.

On a related side note: I’ve talked to Alphas who allow their faggots to jerk off while being used, and they said that they like the faggot to be pleased as well. I didn’t argue with them – they have the right to do whatever they want with their faggots – but I do think they’re inadvertently training bad habits into the fag that will eventually lead to more issues. 

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I’m curious if you have heard of this situation before. I am a fag with an extremely high sex drive- before locking up I would jerk off 2 to 3 times a day minimum. I have quite a few straight male friends-—they know I’m gay but don’t know I’m a caged faggot. They think I’m a top, and I never corrected them. Recently they were talking about sex, and one of them was talking about how dominant he was. I literally had to make an excuse to leave, take off my cage and jerk off, then come back, otherwsie I was going to lose my mind. Every time im with them I just want them to rough fuck me.

How can a fag like me control myself? Should I find more men to suck? Or should I start jerking off more to get it out of my system?

Hi brother! Thanks for the question!

Congrats on the choice to self-lock! It’s an important step in a faggot’s life and the process of molding your mind into perpetual subspace. 

However, chastity does no good if you’re still unlocking two/three times a day to jerk off, or unlocking to jerk off whenever it becomes difficult. The difficulty is part of the journey of chastity, and you’re denying yourself the opportunity to grow every time you unlock and masturbate.

I was able to stop masturbating through the application of my mind. I simply started meditating on how shameful it was that I was using my penis like a Man, how I was bringing shame on other Men by using my penis the way they can. I became embarrassed to use the urinals in bathrooms because those belonged to Men, etc. So start thinking about it that way, and I think eventually you’ll come to the right conclusion.

But I will add this about the little story you told me: you should’ve revealed your chastity to your straight Alpha friends right then and there. They need to know you’re actually a locked faggot. This could solve two issues at once.

There is something triggering to straight Alphas when they see a faggot in chastity. They’re ALWAYS curious about it, but it also turns them on in a bizarre way. It’s almost like the caged faggot is wearing a sign that reads “CUMDUMP”. They understand that a faggot wearing a chastity cage is not a Man and not equal, and oftentimes they want to take control of those faggots. 

Besides that benefit, if/when your Alpha friends use you, you’ll also solve your horniness through increased use. 

I’m always a proponent of being honest with those around oneself. When you are, awesome things happen. When you give dominant straight Alphas permission, they take incredible control and do things you’d never imagine possible. 

So next chance you get, reveal your chastity to them and see what develops! 

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Hi brother Sam, my name is Luke, i’m a faggot and i am serving casually a gay Alpha who i met on grindr, it’s been 8 months we are meeting regularly. He takes chastity really seriously, that’s a big thing for Him. i already enjoyed it, i know it’s good for fags, but i could never go too long with it by myself. He’s pushing my limits, ordering me to keep locked 24/7 since 7 months ago, we had a few breaks between this time, the maximum i stayed locked in a row was 1 month.

The main problem is: i am able to cum caged, i can’t control myself, when i see i am rubbing my locked clit desperate to cum, most of the times i want just to edge myself and stop, but sometimes i went too far and came. i told Him when it happened and He punished me, but i can’t help myself. Do you have any advice? i know i need to stop doing it to focus 100% on Him and His needs.

Thank you for writing! 

First of all, congrats on finding a gay Master who takes chastity seriously and wants to help you deepen your submission. It seems to be a rare thing to find gay Masters devoted to caging their faggots, so that’s great for you! 

I understand your concern. I was uncaged when I voluntarily stopped masturbating altogether. What really helped me was a deep disgust and shame from masturbating because I knew I was insulting Men. Ultimately I do believe that is the only way to success against masturbation. The correct shame needs to be greater than the pleasure. 

Start meditating on why you serve. Really think about and focus on how amazing Men are, and why they deserve obedience, respect, and HONOR. Forget about your peepee and focus instead on your hole. That is what you truly are, after all. 

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I’ve been having an issue when chatting with potential subs to meet up for the first session, they cancel or ghost me on the day of. I wouldn’t think anything of it but I’m getting the same reasons from them: my stomach or have to stay late at work or I’m sick. And the bad part is that these guys initiate contact with me and ask me to serve. Once I ask my screening questions and decide to meet I’m always eager to use/train a new sub so imagine the disappointment when they cancel. I’ve started to take this personal and think these guys do this on purpose. What are your thoughts?

Master, thank you for writing to me!

This is a huge issue for all Alphas and Masters eager to own and train a faggot, and I definitely sympathize with you. Alphas in general are no-nonsense action takers (it’s part of being a leader, after all), and faggots are by nature weak and timid.

Now, that’s always been the case of course, but there is a more insidious problem that is new in human interaction: the internet. This has given faggots the opportunity to have online interactions with great Alphas that they then use for masturbation rather than a chance at fulfillment. Once the faggot gets off, it thinks it has experienced something (which it hasn’t) and satisfied an urge they had (temporarily) while also disrespecting Alphas. It’s an absolutely shameful thing that I firmly oppose.

I was never a faggot that advocated for universal chastity for all faggots until I started this site and really got to see firsthand the terrible and selfish behavior of my fag brothers. It’s embarrassing, but also sad because I know the end result of that path is nothing but empty and meaningless darkness.

Master, please don’t take it personally. This is a defect in the larger faggot population, not you. I wish more Alphas took faggot ownership and training more seriously at younger ages in order to enforce a proper mindset into more faggots, but that’s probably a dream of mine that cannot come true.

Ultimately, I know you will find good and trainable faggots to serve you just as you deserve, Master. Stick with your principled approach, and you will find faggots who respond to that. Just keep this in mind: your approach is effectively weeding out eventual time wasters. It would be far worse had you invested a lot of time into training a fag only to have it flake.

I’m just so grateful that Masters like you exist, Men who value their own power and know how to mold faggots into valuable property. All true faggots applaud Alphas like you, Master. So please don’t give up!

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