Hey brother, I served a man for a few months and he decided to turn me into his boyfriend. I accepted and moved in to serve him 24/7. I’ve been very happy serving him so far. I cook, clean, do the laundry, and suck his dick every single day. But there’s one thing that bothers me. He loves giving me presents: flowers, clothes, new IPhones, fancy dinners, international trips etc. He always pays for everything. I told him that he doesn’t need to, but he always says that his father taught him to be a Real Man and Real Men must provide their girls with everything they want. How can I show him that I am not his girlfriend? I am his faggot and I should be paying for his things, not the other way around. I want him to own my bank account, and instead he doesn’t stop giving me extra money to buy clothes and look sexy for him. I already showed him this website and even explained what findom is, but he continues to say that he has a dick and balls, so no fag or girl will ever pay 1 cent for him. My guess is: He had 3 relationships with women and they took advantage of his generosity, I am his first faggot, so I think he’s struggling to understand the difference between me and the other spoiled girls who took thousands of euros from him.

Brother, I think this is a first. I’ve never had a faggot write to me upset that their Alpha won’t stop lavishing them with gifts! 

I don’t mean to tease you, but you know it does sound a little weird. However, I do understand your issue. I have a TERRIBLE time accepting ANY gifts from people. I prefer to get my stuff myself, and I HATE asking for help. It’s especially hard to receive gifts from our Alphas, for the reasons you mention in your question.

However, there are some incredible Alphas out there who truly value their subs/faggots. If they have the means (as your Alpha apparently does), they will spend ridiculous amounts of money on what is essentially their servant. 

You must keep in mind he is not trying to buy you, or guilt you into service. He genuinely cares about you and is grateful that you serve him and submit to him. Some Men struggle to express those things in words, so they speak them in gestures and gifts. 

And “express” is an intentional word here, because he is expressing a real desire in his heart. He NEEDS to express these things, because he WANTS TO. 

Here’s a little story from my life: My first real Master was a straight Alpha named Aaron, and I was unworthy to lick the impressions of his feet in mud. Inside, I felt absolutely unworthy of his every compliment, his every tender gesture. Then one weekend I had to fly out of the country, and I was petrified of flying. I also hated leaving Master Aaron unattended. But I went anyway (of course). When I returned, there were a dozen red roses on the kitchen table and a note from Master Aaron telling me how proud he was of me. And I broke down and cried. 

There are truly astounding Alphas out there who want to show their faggots that they’re valued. It’s important to THEM to do that.

Your job as this Alpha’s faggot is to please him and make him happy, right? That’s what you want to do, right? Well then, stop complaining about his gifts. It makes him happy to do these things for you. He WANTS to do these things for you … he NEEDS to do these things for you. Deeply appreciate your good fortune to be owned by such a powerful, successful, and tender Alpha! Kiss his feet every day and thank him for his benevolent and merciful kindness in allowing you to serve. Make him feel like the King he is! 

(BTW, if he has an extra grand or two lying around, ask him to send it my way! I could use the help!)

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Sam, how much does your family know about your relationships with men? I ask this because as a faggot I cannot demand that my owner come to family events or holidays. Part of me wants to tell my parents I am in a relationship but I have no control in it. I also fear that this will devastate them. What are your thoughts Sam?

Hi brother. My family knows I’m a faggot; I told them a long time ago. And there was a huge fight about it, and feelings were hurt. However, we are fine now … because we don’t talk about it. And I also don’t bring a Master to the family Thanksgiving dinner, either.

Every family dynamic is different, and only you know how far you can push your family. I don’t think it’s necessary for any faggot to die on the hill for Hierarchy and proclaim it to the entire world. Your family doesn’t need to know a damned thing about what you do in your private life. If you can’t make it to a family function due to a Master … well, then you can’t make it. Your family will adjust to whatever you need to be happy in your own life. It’s your life to live, not theirs.

But let’s be frank – almost every parent, regardless of how liberal and open-minded they are, will be quite unhappy to hear that you’re a faggot. No parent wants their son to be used the way we are often used by Men. Being a faggot means no grandchildren, no family photo ops with little nuclear families gathered around the Christmas tree, etc. So they’ll always be upset.

Which is why I think you should just keep it to yourself and live the way you need in order to feel complete.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hello… only recently that i found this site. I’m a straight submissive slave or “was” but as my submission mentality grew deeper i got realised I’m not good enough to suck any pussy and only good enough to get used by my superiors irrespective of their gender. So i got interested in Masters along with Mistress.. Can i be called as a faggot and what things do i need to do to improve and what things I should focus on serving a Master as faggot…? How could i embrace and accepts myself to be a permanent slave or faggot that I dream of.. .?

You’re the second straight male sub that has approached me this week about this … interesting. 

Subspace is tricky, and once you’re in subspace it’ll allow you to do things you never thought you would. This transformation in you in subspace-related. 

I think it would be easier for you to find a Master to train you rather than a Master coupled with a female. I also think it would a more effective way for you to discover if serving Men is something you can handle. 

As far as focus, start with things like foot worship. Simple acts of submission. But most of all, OBEY and follow any Master’s lead. It’s important to understand (and you will find this out) that serving a MAN is far different than serving a female. It is TRUE submission you will experience at the feet of a Master. So that’s what I recommend you find now.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Through both verbal and physical cues Alphas train their faggots to accept their true purpose: service.

Here are some examples.

This time of year always brings out the romantic side of me. Yes, I actually have a romantic side – can you believe it?? I know most of you think I’m some depraved, cock-sucking cum dump, but — oh, okay, I am … but I also have a heart.

I ran across some sweet, romantic vids and pics and they touched my heart, so I thought I’d share them. At the very least I can get them off my phone to make room for more PORN!

Enjoy:

Okay, that last one might be my cue to get back to the porn … 😜

I’m thankful on this day for all of the Men and Alphas who give us faggots their precious loads every day.

They know we hunger for their seed, so they generously feed us! We should be grateful!

Here’s one of my gloryhole brothers coaxing random loads from Men!

Do you know why I’m building Hierarchy University? Well, it’s certainly not for the money, fame, or adulation, that’s for sure, because I’m not receiving any of that stuff.

It’s because I’ve spent my adult life as a faggot serving Men, and I’ve found success because I use an intelligent, informed approach to service combined with a discipline born from discipline. I’m far from the hottest faggot, but what I lack in looks I make up for in overall value and attitude.

I say this, not to brag, but to reinforce this: I know what I’m talking about. If you don’t believe my personal journey, then believe my RESULTS. I have an unprecedented nine-year record of changing lives with the things I teach here and the advice I give people. And with this University, I plan to help a lot more people.

I just need you all to TRY.

What follows is testimony left in my Questions From Readers inbox from a faggot in Germany. This faggot had an Alpha he wanted to approach, so he tried using my “Letter To An Alpha” as a way in (you’ll see a graphic link to this in the right sidebar).

AND IT WORKED! Read on:

Hello Sam! I am a faggot from Germany and I can’t thank you enough. I am 20 years old and I know who I am since I am 6 or 7, but I only had very traditional relationships because I had no idea how to approach an Alpha man. I found your website a few days ago, and after being reluctant for a while I sent your “letter for an Alpha” to a my classmate from college. At first he took it as a joke and said something like “I wish so bad that this thing were true.” I just said that I could go to his house today to show him how serious I am. Long story short, its almost 4 AM in the morning now I feel like an obligation to say thanks to you and your amazing work. I knelt as soon as I entered his house and tried my best to show that I wasn’t joking or simply on a fetish. I want to be owned! Sam, he got CRAZY when I got on my knees and put his dick out without saying a word. I sucked him, cooked for him, and got fucked the entire day. We missed classes today and stayed home fucking from 10 AM to 11 PM. I arrived home, brushed my teeth covered in Alpha cum, and when I took a shower I could feel my hole sore. He just stopped fucking me when his balls were really empty.

Well, I’m so happy right now, Sam. After this long day, he told me that he is not ready for a serious relationship and didn’t want to hurt my feelings. So I told him that I don’t wanna be his boyfriend, I am ready to be his property 24/7. Then I said that I will be only one of the many boys he will fuck. And his dick got hard again just to listen to this.

Sorry if this message is too long but I’m sooooooo fulfilled. I can feel his cum inside my ass and stomach, and that’s how every faggot in the world should feel when we go to bed.

YOU ARE AMAZING, SAM!!!

Hierarchy is true <3

Can you fucking believe how well that worked??

Actually, I can believe it. I know it works because I wrote that letter using conversational techniques I personally use to get into the minds of Alphas I talk to in real life when I’m opening their minds to the truth about Hierarchy.

If you would simply TRY like this young German faggot did, you can see the kind of overwhelming success he experienced. Think about it – not only did the faggot serve this Alpha, but he also TAUGHT this Alpha the truth … that he can own more faggots, have anything he wants, and be worshiped for being born superior.

That’s important. It’s life-changing. And it’s why I’m still here, nine years later, teaching the truth and changing lives.

This is Hierarchy University. Class is now in session.

+