The following post is part of a thread about Chadwick, a faggot in his sixties who serves multiple Alphas domestically. CLICK HERE to read this thread in chronological order!
My brother Chadwick is such an inspiration. He’s a pure faggot who truly embraced his purpose later in life, and he’s thrown himself into his domestic service with all of his heart and strength! He’s managed to collect a number of powerful Alphas and Alpha couples to serve around the United States, and he diligently and meticulously serves them all with the same level of devotion.
Chadwick recently updated me about his service to one particular Alpha, but what he says at the end really resonated with me:
HI sam,
Just wanted to let you know i had a great day of serving “SeekingEagerSubs.”
Due to a family issue, i had not been able to serve my Master for a month and there was quite a bit of work.
Seven loads of Laundry
Cleaning the bathroom and kitchen
as well as the rest of His Home.
Most importantly, i made sure to greet Him when He came home for Lunch with 7 kisses on each foot.
There is something about special about my Master that not only is he incredibly smart and Driven but He understands me. After a lifetime of feeling misunderstood and out of place there is nothing better than feeling so accepted and safe.
It’s great that this straight Alpha enjoys Chadwick’s service and allows Chadwick to kiss his feet! This arrangement all happened because Chadwick, driven by his need to serve, humbly presented himself to this Alpha! He didn’t just sit around dreaming about it. He made it happen!
But it’s that final sentence I want to highlight: “After a lifetime of feeling misunderstood and out of place there is nothing better than feeling so accepted and safe.” When an Alpha accepts a faggot’s service and starts using it (in any way), the faggot receives a deep contentment arising from the fulfillment of purpose.
But it’s even more than that. As Chadwick mentions, the faggot feels “safe”. Well, it’s because faggots struggle with self-esteem and are often afraid of being discovered and despised for being weak. All a faggot wants to do is serve and please a Man, yet so many morons think that alone is worthy of condemnation.
But when a superior Man – an Alpha – accepts a faggot into his life and starts to use it, the faggot feels a sense of worth – of pride, even. The faggot can point to a great Man and whisper pridefully to itself, “That Man is my Master.”
And that is transformational. From a mentor faggot to an object, an Alpha’s acceptance and use changes everything!
The following post is part of a thread chronicling the submission of a British faggot named Benjamin who successfully used my “Letter To An Alpha” to submit to his straight Alpha friend. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I think the story of Benjamin the faggot and the development of his service to his straight Alpha friend should be one every faggot should study. Benjamin followed my advice exactly and it has yielded incredible results. He went from a closeted faggot desperate to serve his Alpha friend to a completely domesticated faggot slave to this friend in just a matter of days.
I received a little update from Benjamin, one with some nice details and a curious question I will answer here:
I know it has been a while since my last update, but things have been going much as there were when we last spoke. I have been continuing to serve Master in a domestic capacity, which has increased to me staying at Sirs home on Friday and Saturday nights, sleeping in the kitchen on the floor and waking him (plus any partners) with a cooked breakfast. I can tell some of the girls Master fucks find it odd but I do not care. They will be out the door in an hour, but I get to continue serving Master.
The main big update is that Sir sat me down between his feet for his usual Sunday foot washing and while I was working, he brought up another cabin trip. Master wants me to pay for a repeat trip next year, which would be the same price (not an issue for my Master) but this time Master wishes to invite about half of his rugby team but none of their girlfriends and wives. I have met each of these men maybe once or twice and they are all boisterous, drink a lot, and come across as quite dominant. Do you think Master is planning on something or is he just wanting me to provide him a lads holiday away?
First of all, it’s awesome that this straight Alpha friend has been using Benjamin so much, even allowing him to stay over on weekends! This goes to show how much this Alpha is enjoying the ownership of his former friend/new faggot!
Even more powerful is the detail about how this Master proudly parades his faggot ownership in front of the women he fucks! He’s not shy! I’d love to hear what he tells them when they ask why he has a male slave serving him!
But as for Benjamin’s desperate-sounding question: Yes, Master is planning something. He doesn’t just decide to invite half of the rugby team on a cabin getaway with his personal faggot without some sort of plan!
What that might be is anyone’s guess. To this point, Master hasn’t engaged in a lot of sexual use of Benjamin. But soccer and rugby teams are well-known hotbeds of hetero-flexible Alphas, so there may be more going on here than just serving drinks! Only time will tell!
But once again, Benjamin’s experience shows how important it is to simply try and offer yourself to straight Alphas, especially Alpha friends! They ARE open to forms of worship if not full-blown sexual service! You just need to let them know you want to serve them!
The following post is part of a thread following Master Nathan, the Alpha husband of a faggot, as he applies Hierarchical principles to deepen and solidify their relationship. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!
I was intrigued when a message from an Alpha by the name of Master Nathan dropped into my “Questions From Readers” inbox regarding his marriage to an obvious faggot partner. Master Nathan wanted to help his husband embrace his faghood and become more comfortable with letting go of the fear that restricted him.
So often when I receive these kinds of messages, I never heard from them again with updates. But I was pleasantly surprised when I received the following email regarding their progress:
Just writing to update you, as I was able to take homecumming leave back to Texas to see my husband and family in person for the first time in a good while. We have been discussing our relationship in terms on hierarchy for a minute now and, God damn are the effects immediately apparent. As soon as we got home from the airport my fag closed the door behind him, stripped, and began pulling at the hem of my jeans to get at me. While this was incredibly hot, I chastised him and called him impatient- as I mentioned originally it was always me initiating sex prior to our discussion of his faggotry and what it means for our relationship. While I only meant to tease him he seemed to take it to heart and apologized, preparing me a quick snack and a bringing me a drink before sitting down on the couch with me to enjoy our first meal together in over 6 months. Still nude, he sat in my lap as we shared a sandwich. Fuck am I glad to call him my husband. Once he took the plate he kneeled before me on the couch again. Obviously he was anxious to initiate again after my teasing, but it was clear what he needed. I asked him for another beer and as I opened the can I unzipped and gave him the go ahead with a nod. I made sure not to let him take off my briefs at first, and let him get used to my scent again, just keeping him between my thighs and pressing his nose and mouth against my growing bulge. The underwear were soaked by the time I told him to take them off.
Later on during my visit the effect showed in different ways. He’s always been a bit anxious in crowds or around new people so while at a concert I danced with my arms around him from behind. When I tried to separate myself for a few moments to clap or dance on my own he eagerly held onto my arms when I came back and after said how much being held helped his anxiety. While dancing I got hard and let myself grind against him while dancing. I knew his anxiousness with crowds would prevent us from going too far but couldn’t help myself from bringing my arms from around his shoulders to his hips and pulling him into me further.
Once we returned to the car he got into the backseat rather than the front passenger and again stripped as soon as the door closed behind him. I let him sit naked back there before finding an isolated place to pull off to the side and join him in the backseat.
As far as decision making goes, we went shopping for groceries together and talked about recipes I use to get more fiber. He’s been anxious about his weight (stupid bc his tiny belly is so cute to me) but was excited when I told him more veggies would help with that while also making prepping for sex easier for him.
I’m headed back to work this week and just wanted to thank you on behalf of both of us for the perspective that has enhanced out marriage.
My heart fluttered when I read these words: “We have been discussing our relationship in terms on hierarchy for a minute now and, God damn are the effects immediately apparent.” Nothing changes an interpersonal situation like the application of Hierarchical mechanics! It literally informs everything in every relationship we have in life, so how would it not improve Master Nathan’s marriage?
I’m just glad to see how deftly he’s applying his natural power as an Alpha to help his faggot husband embrace his truth! It sounds like his faggot is really flourishing in deeper levels of subspace!
After receiving the above letter, I wrote this to Master Nathan:
You don’t really mention it, but I’m curious – do you feel that moving into the role of Owner and Master (rather than only a husband) has helped YOU grow? How has this change helped you grow and embrace your personal power as an Alpha?
His reply was quite powerful:
Good question Sam.
To be honest, I don’t really think about it all that much. I’ve never been powerless so the extent of my “alpha power” growing is mainly just felt in the way we’ve interacted together. In public I do take care to make sure he’s as comfortable as possible, whereas before I was a bit more concerned with not being overbearing. I’ll make sure to take the keys even when we take his vehicle, keep him at my side especially in crowds, etc. I’ve enjoyed the ways he’s responded to my embracing the power dynamic. But as for ME not much has changed except for much less hesitation on my part. Now that I know he WANTS to serve and be submissive to me, I don’t have to worry about taking the lead and steamrolling any of his actions or ideas. I guess I would call that freedom, not being held back by a desire to keep things between us completely even. He has expressed gratitude that he has much less to worry about with me around as most things are taken care of for him. We both were dreading my return to work as it means he has to be a lot more self sufficient and I don’t have access to my prince of a faggot. But we’ve made it through long stretches of LDR before and we look forward to me moving back home full time once my contract is up.
Master Nathan here correctly identifies the give-and-take aspect of Hierarchical power dynamics. For him to feel complete as an Alpha, he needs his faggot to fully submit … and for his faggot to fully submit, he needs to feel safe expressing his dominance. Very important understanding!
I love seeing Hierarchical principles save relationships! I’ve helped enough people with it to confidently say it’s usually one of the major issues between couples straight and gay, but it goes unrecognized because people don’t understand Hierarchy.
But I do!
Thank you Master Nathan for continuing to share your insights!
