Questions From Readers
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for the past six years. Recently he had to move in a different country for some months so we are experiencing long distance for the first time.
I refer to us as “boyfriends” because that’s how we’re publicly viewed but as a matter of fact I’m a faggot and he’s my master.
To spice things up, since we won’t be able to see each other for another two months, he decided to revoke any permission to touch myself, so that I could “enjoy it more when we are together”, as he said. Naturally I accepted his will without any doubt that it is the best thing that I could do, but now, two weeks in, I’m really struggling. I don’t have a cage, so I feel “it” yearning to be touched in a way. I never did chastity before but i really don’t want to disappoint my master in any way so I’m refraining to do anything that he wouldn’t want me to do.
What I’m asking is if there’s anything that could make this easier??
also I’m curious if don’t touching myself for so long will make cumming from being fucked easier in some ways.
Brother, thank you for writing!
I really admire you for trying so hard (no pun intended) to remain faithful to your Master’s command to refrain from masturbating! It’s definitely not easy, especially if you’re new to it and are accustomed to jerking off all the time. I know too many faggots who would just masturbate anyway, their unfaithful and disobedient minds reasoning that their Master would never know for sure. You’re clearly different!
I don’t have any surefire method for this … I only know what worked for me. I had largely masturbated at least once every day since I started puberty, even while being owned. None of my Masters ever knew anything about it, nor did any of them ever demand anything regarding masturbation with me because I was never hard while serving.
When I started this site in 2015, I was still masturbating constantly (all the amazing porn I was uploading didn’t help!). However, as I really came to deeply know and respect some powerful God Alphas, I began to feel shame that I was using my penis like other Men, Men like them. That shame led me to slowly lose an interest in masturbating until I stopped.
By then, I was discovering the pride these Masters felt when their faggots accepted chastity in order to honor them, and my path toward chastity began. I finally understood that chastity isn’t a fetish (which is what I previously thought), but it is a profound way that faggots can show complete respect and devotion to both Alphas and to service. Finally I could no longer take it, so I caged myself (I was without an Owner at the time). The wonders I’ve discovered since being caged far outweigh the desire to masturbate, I assure you.
So I guess this is long way of telling you that you need to develop a disgust and shame for the practice, just the same way longterm smokers finally get sick of it and put them down forever. It’s really that, plus the fact that you love your Master more than you love yourself. There really isn’t more magic than that.
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