Last time I was asking about my dom who only enjoys handjob and kicks me out when he comes and I agreed to what you said
After some conversations my dom decided to treat me and invited his friend over to give me pleasure and it went well and he used me good enough to satisfy
Now my confusion is that my dom still don’t do anything sexual with me but having his friend use me often
I wish its my dom doing it to me but he is turning me into public fag by sending me to other men
Thanks for catching me up on your progress, brother! I’m sorry you’re still not happy!
Let’s face it – your Master likes owning you, but he’s not interested in using you sexually. If his response to your requests was to bring in a friend to use you, then it’s clear he has no interest in that with you.
So now it’s up to you. How important is it to be used sexually as opposed to serving him in the other ways you’re currently serving? Do you not like being used by his friend? Is the friend interested in owning you?
You’re going to need to make a decision. You can’t change someone’s intrinsic nature.
I have a Master who says he’s straight and to be honest he has very straight vibe. He’s not even trying he just is like this. He takes great pleasure in humiliating and degrading me and he does this so good it’s just unbelievable. He’s 19 yo btw. So my question is, doesn’t his kink make him not-so-straight?
Thank you for the question, brother.
First of all, it’s not a “kink”. Hierarchy is very real and it affects all of us regardless of whether we acknowledge it or not. Loving feet or piss is a kink … but being born Alpha or beta or faggot is something we simply ARE.
I don’t know if you’re new around here, but this website and many other resources have proven that straight Alphas use faggots in many ways (including sex) yet remain straight. Their use of a faggot is like a form of masturbation for them. If a straight Alpha fucks a Fleshlight, we don’t suddenly think he’s attracted to it, right? Same thing with faggots. The other part of it involves power. Straight Alphas love power and the sexual thrill they get from exerting their power (and seeing inferiors submit to it).
So yes, your Master is a straight Alpha who simply understands that it’s his right to own and use whomever he wants however he wants. It’s the way the world works.
Hi Sam l, interested to know your views on switches and how that dynamics work. If some faggots switch or are they not in hierarchy.
I had an interesting task from my master, which I suggested as he was complaining about how flaky faggots are. He was trying to recruit a new fag so spending time on gydoo. I said I would do this for him to give him time back and serve him. So I went on initial as a master in description I spoke with faggots quickly in intro saying I was a fag performing a task, I promoted my master suggesting him as a strong master who brought out the true fag in me and I’ve been quite successful. This has become a reg task and I do it willingly.
Here is the catch couple of times the fags have said they like me and want me to be more dominate, sometimes suggest that with my master and sometimes directed to me. It’s given me thoughts of replicating some of my master traits, that turns me on…like a mini master…I am confused sometimes as I find the power stimulating. I am still my masters property and have told him about it. He still has me doing the task but wants me to tell him when these feelings happen. It got me thinking about switches, maybe when a relationship ends, do some faggots switch. Is it about the person or should I forget about it and concentrate on being the best fag I can for my master.
I have been with my master nearly a year. I am in my 40s and he is much younger -25 but he is so good. He s been a master since he was 17 and is amazing.
Would love to hear your thoughts.
Well, you pose an interesting problem, brother.
I think it’s a mistake for you to be faking dominance to attract faggots for your Master. It doesn’t do you any good, nor does it represent your Master properly to prospective faggots. But that’s just me.
Once again, I don’t believe people are lifelong switches. There are phases people go through based on their current experiences, but eventually people find their true position. And I think you already know your true position: FAGGOT. Your Master knows this, too, which is why he’s wisely monitoring you as you flirt with dominance.
I just think it’s a silly distraction. You already have a young, powerful Owner that you love serving. Why are you threatening that balance and harmony?
Hello again Brother. Thank you so much for your answer to my last question. It was very helpful. I am trying my best to prepare for what I hope to be the start of my submission to my Straight Master. I was wondering if you could give advice on 2 separate matters to this end?
First, I have read your preprepared letter and I cannot thank you enough for going to the effort of writing it to help us fellow faggots out. I was wondering if you would advise me to send it before the holiday, so he has time to read and process it? Or should I wait until we are together in the cabin? I am slightly worried it may scare him off or cause him to second guess if he is, as you correctly say, trying to be a nice guy.
Second, as any self-aware faggot should be I am locked in chastity. He is not aware that I do this however. If I am successful in submitting I will have no issue giving him the keys. But I do not want to seem presumptuous or predatory, and I am concerned that if he realises I arrived wearing it he may think negatively of how I have approached submitting to him. Any advice is appreciated, although I understand if you are too busy and only wish for updates once I have given him the letter
Thank you for the follow-up questions, brother. I want you to be able to get this right!
I don’t think you should send him the letter ahead of time (unless you happen to get into a conversation about it before the trip). Get into the conversation and use the letter as a way for him to get a broader view of things.
As far as chastity is concerned, I think you should wear the cage on the trip. If he discovers it, that will be a way to open a conversation for sure. But here’s a little secret: straight Alphas get excited when they see an inferior male in chastity. I don’t know why that is. My theory: the sight of the caged faggot pings their own dominance in a new way, and they realize that this inferior male is subservient. The cage gives them permission to use it however they want. So I wouldn’t be concerned about that too much.
Don’t ask him about being a keyholder until he responds positively to your admission of being a faggot. He has to get past that first before accepting the rest of it.
Be patient and submissive and weak. Essentially, throw yourself on his mercy. Trust in him that he’s an Alpha who knows how to guide you.
I’m truly excited for you, brother. I think something awesome is going to happen. I love you!
I’ve often mentioned this marking phenomenon, and occasionally someone will protest and say that Men are not animals and human pheromones don’t operate the same as they do in animals.
Bullshit.
Cum and piss both have distinctive odors and tastes, and they vary from Alpha to Alpha. Men are marking territory when they cum on what they consider to be their territory.
Additionally, when they cum on the people they possess, they’re humiliating the person and reminding them that they are owned.
I think a lot of these “bait and switch” porn clips are pretty stupid (and possibly illegal, if real). They feel fake/staged to me, and I cannot stand professional porn anymore in general.
But the Alpha in this long clip is pretty hot, so I’ll bend my standards a little. He’s also pretty stupid if he really thinks that a woman is kneeling behind that wall to suck his dick. Women barely suck the dicks of the Men they love, let alone a perfect stranger behind a wall who won’t be able to buy them a ring for the service.
How do I make myself more attractive to alphas? be hairless from below my eyebrows, wear panties, chastity and buttplug?
You make yourself more attractive to Alphas by being submissive, obedient, and service-oriented. Chastity cages are excellent external jewelry for faggots, but a fag’s most attractive qualities are internal.
You gave a picture of how you think fags are in the grand scale but I have one question . What about a trained fag a fag trained in the art of pleasure in many forms and pleasure is only one function because serving falls under pleasure, what if you are sent to a pain Master something like that you need to learn to go beyond because that is pleasure . Where does that fag fall in? He knows he is better than other fags but still he humbles himself.
I don’t really understand your question. How is the fag better than other fags?
i’ve always liked your content but also kind of hated it, just because i couldn’t accept the reality of being a faggot. although there are soo many signs and even my mindset is there, it’s a bit hard. but today something happened which was pretty telling
i was at the local sports court, playing with a friend when a group of guys came up to use and suggested we play in teams. i was put on a team with 2 guys who are friends. one of them was a clear alpha – my first impression of him was me walking onto the court & he was flexing both his biceps to his friend. soon after the game started it became clear that i was the least talented player (on both teams lol), and then my teammates kind of stopped passing me the ball anytime. and then 2 other guys joined and one of them also had a bit of an alpha vibe, and of course…to my luck, he joined our team. i could immediately tell that he sensed i was a fag, and started bossing me around (in the context of the game), while also ignoring me (in terms of passes, shooting, etc.)
as i said, i was with a friend who is straight (not an alpha tho), and he kind of immediately had the respect of the other guys on the court, but i was kind of just ignored the whole time…especially by the alphas (mainly the one flexing his biceps).
and instead of feeling sad (i did a bit..), i felt kind of realization wash over me that i’m stupid to think i could ever be on the level of an alpha in anything really. instead of playing on the same team as the alpha, i should be tending to his needs, bringing him water, fetching the ball, etc.
& i also couldn’t help but imagine what it would be like to be used by him. even tho he is definitely not my type, and also not the prettiest guy out there, i would even say i’m prettier than him, but something about his attitude and the way he treated me (ignored and looked down) kind of made me want to serve him. another aspect that also excited me is that i was clearly older than him (he must’ve been 20-21 & i’m 27). it felt nice hot to be made to feel less by someone who is younger than me.
unfortunately where i currently live, being gay is not acceptable at all, so i would never be able to even hint at my faggotry (although we just learned it’s sometimes obvious) while im still here.
im sorry i guess this is not a question but just an anecdote..
Well, I’m glad you’ve finally started to have your eyes opened to the truth, brother! Yes, Hierarchy is undeniable. Once you grasp it, you start seeing it everywhere … just as you described!
I work in an office with a lot of straight alphas. It is hard to work there and be taken seriously when I’m a faggot. It is also hard to seriously focus on my servitude when I worry about my submissive actions being unwanted or unprofessional. Do you have any advice for a brother faggot.
Do they know you’re a faggot? Why would it be hard for you to work there as a secret faggot?
Now, I do understand what it’s like to tiptoe on that line between submission and professionalism, and I haven’t always been good at it. But it’s something we all must deal with. Just continue to be submissive and complimentary, and Alphas will notice eventually. Just be ready to tell them you’re a faggot if they ask about being gay. This will put them back on their heels and force them to take you seriously.
Hi. I am wondering how I let a straight alpha male know I am available for service. We have been friends for 8 years now and in that time I have tried to be as obedient as possible. I have always gone along with his suggestions and desires, I have done everything I can to make his life better and more enjoyable. For his part, he seems to know I am “always game” for whatever he has in mind. He has a very dominant attitude with most people in his life and I know from some very frank conversations we have had that he is a rough BDSM master in bed. I also know he has repeatedly complained about women not putting out, not doing all the stuff he wants to do and not being submissive or service oriented enough for his liking.
Next week we will be going on holiday to a cabin together, and all of our other friends have apparently pulled out. To make sure we can still go and that he can have the holiday he deserves, I have covered their shares of the holiday and I have told him it is “so he can still have his holiday” and his only response was that I was such a good friend, when in actuality I am hoping to be his good fag. I have told him I am always happy to help in any way he wants, but he just laughed and said that gay men were funny. Is he oblivious or drawing a line? And if it is the former, how do I get him to see me as the faggot I am beneath him in the hierarchy?
Straight Alphas like him suffer from two simultaneously-running problems. (1) Gay males deserve the same respect as any other Man, and (2) what I call “nice guy syndrome”.
I’m going to posit this: your friend has thought about using you sexually. He might even be quite interested in doing so. Why do I say that? Because he’s repeatedly complaining TO YOU about how women aren’t serving him and submitting to him enough. I think if you had done anything to help him see what you really are – a faggot – he would’ve used you.
But let’s focus on what’s coming up. Serendipity has gifted you some time alone with him in a secluded place. Now’s the time, brother. Sit at his feet. Offer him a foot massage. Kiss his feet. See where I’m going with this?
Start a conversation with him about Alphahood. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. lead it into a discussion of Hierarchy. Show him material from this site if you need to (I have a “letter to an alpha” in the sidebar that he can read). He needs to grasp the inequality between you, and that you have a natural place as his servant, not his friend.
The sooner you do this during the trip, the better. This will give him time to digest the information and act on it.
You MUST do this. You have a prime opportunity to finally reveal the truth to this great Alpha! Good luck, and keep me posted!
I read Hierarchy University’s story about and interview with young Master Simon of Sweden and how he became master of his own literal Daddy. The story was not only informative and interesting but also highly homoerotic.
I’ve some questions for your site, relevant to the Master Simon interview and story:
1. Is young Master Simon accepting new older unowned slaves? And if so, how may a prospective unowned slave contact Master Simon?
2. Are there any young masters or websites for finding young masters in the United States, who also train older slaves, in a manner similar to Master Simon? And if so, how may an unowned older slave contact these young masters?
Thanks, brother.
I don’t know if he is accepting older faggots. I kind of doubt it right now given his age and current life, but I’ll ask him.
There are no websites I’m aware of that are specifically tailored to the young Alpha/older faggot niche. It’s basically just trial and error. You do understand that you’ll likely only be used as a cash fag, right? Are you prepared for that?
I discovered chastity in high school and was intrigued with it from the first time I saw it. I grew up as what you would call a typical “jock.” Captain of the football and baseball teams. I was always hanging with the most alpha guys in my school. I always felt submissive around them and knew I was gay but hadn’t learned about the hierarchy yet. After going to college I was caged by an alpha and from the first time I locked up I knew I was meant to be in a cage. My nub was never really big and was something I was always embarrassed about when hanging around the guys or being in locker rooms. Until chastity. I love how I look and feel when caged. I started pretty small got a cheap cobra nub knock off from amazon and then sized down pretty quickly to a steel nub. I would wear it to team meetings and things and would love how horny I’d get when in the presence of alphas while being caged. I would go through spurts of being caged and unlocking but always ended up back in a cage. Since I stop denying my place in the hierarchy I’ve been a lot happier. My goal now is to find a real alpha to serve and take ownership of me and try and stay locked more days in 2025 than not. Your content was instrumental in me realizing my place is to serve and obey real men. I wish I knew earlier as I would have offered myself to some of the straight alphas I hung out with. Thank you for all you do. Hierarchy is truth!
My brother, what an amazing testimony you’ve left here! Thank you so much for sharing your truth!
Regret is a terrible heartache, isn’t it? However, we can make ourselves forget it by embracing our truth and purpose and learning to live in it! And that’s exactly what you’re doing now, and I applaud you!
I think it’s a great thing that you’re self-locking. This helps us to take responsibility for our own faghood, and we start our chastity journey, not because of the demands of an Alpha, but because WE KNOW IT’S THE RIGHT THING TO DO. That changes everything, honestly.
I don’t know how old you are and if these memories are in the distant past or just a few years ago, but if it’s fairly recently these Alpha teammates could be re-contacted and thanked for helping you realize you’re a faggot. This could lead to some excellent outcomes. Just a suggestion. You just never know what Alphas on the team were thinking about breeding you and were too afraid to do anything about it.
Anyway, I’m so proud of you, and I thank you endlessly for sharing this! I love you!
For many years I’ve received a lot of questions from faggots, all asking the same thing: is there a faggot hierarchy?
I’ve always insisted that faggots DON’T have a hierarchy, that all faggots are essentially the same. Their basic function in hierarchy is to serve Alphas, and one form of service isn’t better or more important than another. Faggots are not like Alphas, of course, where there are quite clear and important divisions of power. My longstanding Hierarchy pyramid reflects those beliefs.
But while I was incarcerated I had plenty of time to meditate on the subject, and one night it finally occurred to me that there actually is a hierarchy among faggots. It’s not as cleanly delineated or as compelling as the Alpha hierarchy (at least not to me), but I do think it shapes a pathway for faggots to improve and deepen their service.
So let’s get into the nuts and bolts of this. I have determined there are FIVE layers to faggot hierarchy. Please note that I don’t consider one more dominant or more important than another (again, my bias is that faggots are all the same), but it’s a hierarchy based on effort and accessibility, so to speak.
Here they are in descending order:
MENTOR: This is a faggot that serves/has served Alphas in all three critical areas (sexually, domestically, and financially) as well as works strenuously to provide an example for other faggots to follow and assists new Alphas to embrace their Hierarchical role. These are atypical faggots, ones who aren’t afraid to be known as faggots and aren’t timid about their role.
LONG-TERM: These are faggots who provide all three critical services (sexual, domestic, financial) for Alphas. Often these faggots fly under the radar because they are not interested in anything more than simply finding fulfilment, but there is no doubt that they are in high demand and highly prized by their Owners.
DOMESTIC: These faggots typically only serve Alphas domestically, although that service often includes financial service as well. These rank higher because they are serving in person, which demonstrates a deeper level of personal commitment/involvement.
FINDOM: These faggots only serve their Alphas through cash payments and gifts, and the vast majority of these faggots will never see or touch their Alphas in person. I don’t diminish the value of these faggots at all, but the reality is they are taking a safer, less involved route of service that shields them from personal involvement or investment in their own faghood. Still, findom faggots have been instrumental in helping many straight Alphas discover the truth about Hierarchy.
FETISH FAGS: One of the very first things I did upon returning was to change my Hierarchy pyramid and remove “OBJECTS” from their own layer. I originally gave objects their own layer after a large outcry of voices insisted they deserve their own layer, but they do not. Objects are simply a weird fetish that is not sustainable. So I’ve created this bottom tier to include faggots who are simply seeking their own fetishes (this would be objects, foot fags, exposure fags, etc.) rather than seeking to truly fulfill their purpose to serve Men. These aren’t faggots in the proper sense, and essentially serve no function Hierarchically.
I’m curious about what everybody thinks of this revised understanding. For me, it clears up a lot of the road leading to deeper fulfillment.
A more experienced Alpha would know he doesn’t need to ask permission before doing something with the faggot servicing him, but this young buck still has some of that youthful unsteadiness. He’s afraid he’s going to upset or insult the faggot by using it the way it was always intended to be used.
An Alpha shouldn’t need to say anything to a faggot, just direct it and use it. A faggot shouldn’t need to be degraded to serve properly, because nature programmed it to be used.
